Household Management: Managing Ourselves & Resources

Household Management: Managing Ourselves & Resources

Alex Bettencourt uses this clip to remind the service provider that it is just as important to manage themselves as it is the household. Aside from self-care suggestions, Alex also gives several great resources for the manager to become more effective which you can see in the comment below. Also in Household Management Household Management: […]

NRE: New Relationship Energy

NRE: New Relationship Energy

Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by […]

Glove Fetish, Part 2

Glove Fetish, Part 2

Mistress Servalan continues to extol the erotic qualities of leather gloves in this clip, showing how the process of fitting them on and slowly taking them off can be a treat in itself. She also shows an entirely different kind of glove, the tactical glove used by police and the military, which gives another distinct […]

Cock & Ball Bondage: Using Nylons

Cock & Ball Bondage: Using Nylons

Evoë Thorne and Harold Henry love playing with his balls. In this clip, before starting some good old fashioned cock-and-ball-torture, they show you three ways to use nylons to turn the testicles into a pretty package. You learn a basic tie, then a “figure 8,” and a “ball-stretcher” along with some other fun tips.

Aftercare: the Why's & How's

Aftercare: the Why’s & How’s

Lucky Albatross explains how aftercare helps you return to a “normal” state after an extreme scene. She also explores some specific techniques – the “ABC’s” – including cuddles and carbs that can help you recover and be ready to play more! Also in Aftercare: An Overview Aftercare: An Overview Aftercare: the Why’s & How’s Aftercare: […]

Sensual Spanking: Building Intensity

Sensual Spanking: Building Intensity

Scotty shows how to ramp things up in a spanking scene in this clip with the enthusiastic bottoming skills of Alex. They demonstrate how both sides improve the connection between spanker and spankee using variations in tempo, pressure, and impact. With all the work of teaching, both his hand and her ass are quite red, and […]

Interrogation: Aftercare

Interrogation: Aftercare

In the conclusion to this thorough overview of interrogation play Danarama talks about the end-game. “Cooling the mark”, or aftercare, is about taking the person back from the brink of danger and personal failure and making them feel good about the experience. In some cases, he explains, both top and bottom may feel they have […]

The Somerville Bowline: Single Column

The Somerville Bowline: Single Column

Topologist clearly lays out his “Somerville Bowline” single-column cuff, a non-constrictive and non-collapsing knot great for wrists, ankles, and more. He also covers the common mistakes people make when first learning the cuff and shows how to avoid them while adding this tie to your rope bondage toolbox. Also in Bondage with Topologist Simple Partial […]

The Many Moods of Bondage: Physical Triggers, Part 2

The Many Moods of Bondage: Physical Triggers, Part 2

Murphy Blue continues to explain how the places and styles of applying even simple bondage harnesses can profoundly change the tenor of a scene. Are you going for the secure feeling of a hug, or the rough feeling of a capture? It’s not as much what you do as how you do it, and Murphy demonstrates the finer […]

Bruising Concerns

Bruising Concerns

Shay (with some enthusiastic manhandling help from Stefanos) explains what goes on with your body when your happy spanking, roughhousing, or just enthusiastic sex leads to contusions that mark the skin. She also shares the magic of RICE for curing what ails you, and encourages you to be careful but not stop the fun!

Cock Ring and Ball Separator with Paracord

Cock Ring and Ball Separator with Paracord

Leather Yenta demonstrates how to tie (and untie) a cock ring and ball separator during this four-minute video. While using her six-foot paracord, she offers tips on twisting, control, sensation, and more. Leather Yenta shows a parachute in her next clip. Also in CBT with Paracord The Ball Stretcher with Paracord Ball Parachute with Paracord […]

More Female Dominant Archetypes

More Female Dominant Archetypes

Mistress Simone covers some more ways that a feminine dominant can express their relationship. The Goddess, the Princess, the Lady, and more variations all have their enjoyable qualities. Simone lays them out clearly and encourages you to try them for yourself!

TENS Units: Intro & Safety

TENS Units: Intro & Safety

Mistrix explains the basics behind the Transcutaneous Electrical Neural Stimulation (or TENS) unit as used for erotic play. She covers equipment, supplies, and goes over some commonly-accepted safety concerns to get you ready for the hands-on play in upcoming clips. Also in TENS Units TENS Units: Intro & Safety TENS Unit: Cock & Balls TENS Unit: […]

Glove Fetish, Part 1

Glove Fetish, Part 1

Mistress Servalan shares one of her favorite fetishes in this clip: the elegant sensuality of gloves. She describes the roots of her particular enjoyment of the feel, the look, and even the rituals and ceremonies that can surround gloves. It’s an enthusiasm too big for one clip, and she’ll be back soon with more! Also […]

Face-Up Suspension: Head Support

Face-Up Suspension: Head Support

Topologist finishes off his series on suspension with a part that is often overlooked: the head. Often the neck is the first part of the body to feel the stress of suspension, so he offers several methods and tools for helping relieve it. Also in Face-Up Suspension Face-Up Suspension: the Swiss Seat Face-Up Suspension: the […]

How To Beat Con Drop

It’s the day after an event. It was a great event, and you played so hard you can still feel it, the echoes of the dungeon music still echoing in your ears. The people you met! Even the new friends feel like old pals, and one or two of those people still give you those […]

More Than Sexy: Consent is Kinky, Too

More Than Sexy: Consent is Kinky, Too

There’s a popular meme going around which compares the idea of consent to tea. The idea is that consent is as simple as asking someone if they want tea: if they say no, then you don’t give them tea. It’s a cute little metaphor, and it can be useful for starting conversations about consent on […]

The Kinky Blowjob - It's All About The Attitude!

The Kinky Blowjob – It’s All About The Attitude!

The secret to giving the best blowjob ever is- the attitude. It’s everything! Do it for yourself. It may be called a Blow Job, but it’s not a job. Blowjobs are not meant to be given as a birthday gift, or in exchange for something else. Change your attitude towards them. If you view Bj’s […]

Let's Get Serious: Adding Depth to Your Scenes

Let’s Get Serious: Adding Depth to Your Scenes

If you’ve read much here at Kink Academy, or attended any of Princess Kali’s workshops, you know that we are big fans of silly. Even when we’re talking about something as serious as dominant archetypes we often do it in a way that incorporates humor. This is just a part of kink that can happen […]

"Not Yet!": The Sexiness of Orgasm Control

“Not Yet!”: The Sexiness of Orgasm Control

At first the idea of stopping orgasms might seem a little strange: why would anyone want to not cum? That’s where the kink comes in, though: if an orgasm is a wild and uncontrolled feeling, how exhilarating is the power trip to stop, start, or even just delay it? According to Jillian from the “Locked […]

50 Ways to Get Started Having Kinky Sex

Here, I present to you a long list of ways to have kinkier sex. It is not by any stretch of the imagination the only ways, and some options may be obvious for some people but inspiring for others. All links go to KinkAcademy.com and PassionateU.com for video supplemental information. Just click through the waiver […]

Five Principles of Dungeon Party Etiquette

Five Principles of Dungeon Party Etiquette

Every dungeon has its own particular rules, customs, and protocols. As much as some would fantasize, there is no One True Way to behave that will be appropriate in any situation. However, as the saying goes “if you have principles, you don’t need rules”. By applying one particular principle you can usually make sure that […]

Let's Get This Party Started: Getting Scenes Going

Let’s Get This Party Started: Getting Scenes Going

There’s a particular moment of terror that a lot of dominant types don’t talk about. It’s that moment when someone you are attracted to, someone you care about, someone that you may really want to be with, starts a sentence with three particular words:   “Can we try -”   Sometimes what follows those words […]