Objectification is one of the most common and, according to Lee Harrington, one of the most misunderstood kinks out there. In his clip on the subject he explains that it’s often confused with humiliation. In fact, in everyday culture a man who fixates on a woman’s breasts is said to be “objectifying” her. The problem is that statement pre-supposes that the man does not respect those objects. In fact, Lee argues, it announces to the world that the person making the accusation doesn’t respect breasts, either, or see them as powerful representations of the woman. Lee explains it in less […]
The fantasy of being abducted is common in all kinds of movies, novels, and bedroom dirty stories. Whether it’s the movie Bound or the entire Sleeping Beauty series by Anne Rice, the idea of the captured victim being overcome first physically and then more sensually is really hot for many people. Like many fantasies, though, when you get into reality things aren’t quite as neat and tidy as they are in fiction. For starters, there’s the all-important matter of consent. Abduction play falls into the tricky realm of “Consensual Non-consent” in kink terms. This means that partners are consenting in […]
One of the hottest forms of control and sexual teasing is the idea of “edging”. Sinclair Sexsmith explains the various forms this play can take, from chastity to forced masturbation, and also talks about how it can completely energize and focus the libido for both partners.
In part 2 of her series Goddess Helena talks about how she found out about this kind of consensual adult role play. She remarks that it seems to be a taboo within the kink community (unlike Daddy play) and explains why there are aspects of this kind of fantasy power exchange with maternal instincts that can be amazingly hot and sexy. Also in Mommy Play Mommy Play: Introduction Mommy Play: The Taboo Mommy Play: Bath Time Mommy Play: Dressing Mommy Play: Nursing Mommy Play: Naughty Touching Mommy Play: Masturbation Mommy Play: Power Switch Mommy Play: Why It’s Hot View the […]
Can you improvise the equipment for a fear play scene? Are everyday items like makeup or stuffed animals scary? Iris Enchanted gives an emphatic “yes!” in this clip, talking about pervertibles that can be used either for “shock and awe” purposes or even for drawn-out interrogation play. Also in Pervertibles Pervertibles: Sensation, Part 1 Pervertibles & De-Pervertibles Pervertibles: Safer Sex Supplies Pervertibles: Thuddy Pervertibles: Stingy Pervertibles: Clamps Pervertibles: Bondage Pervertibles: Emotional Sadism & Fear Pervertibles: Insertables Pervertibles: Travel Sadist Kit, Part 1 Pervertibles: Travel Sadist Kit, Part 2 Pervertibles: Humiliation Play, Part 1 Pervertibles: Humiliation Play, Part 2 Pervertibles: Role […]
Graydancer and Poetic begin a series where they show the in-depth process of the same scene they did for the “Our America” TV show. In that filming they had to hold back, but for this series they show it all – rough play, cigars, cocksucking, rope, bootblacking, all in a hot combination that shows why you don’t have to limit your kink. Also in The Multi-Scene The Multi-Scene, Part 1: Clothing & Rough Body Play The Multi-Scene, Part 2: Starting the Karada the Multi-Scene Part 3: Finishing the Karada The Multi-Scene, Part 4: Cigar Play The Multi-Scene, Part 5: Rope, […]