Some consider face slapping to be ‘edge play’ because of the extra need for safety, both physically and psychologically. This clip covers the basics of what you need to know in order to keep your face slapping play safe and ‘sane’. Princess Kali discusses how communicating about needs, keeping your hand in the correct position, as well as making sure where the ‘danger zones’ on the face are, will help keep the risks to a minimum.
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6 Responses to “Face Slapping Safety”



This is an important topic for both the top and bottom, as the top gets confidence that they know what they are doing and not going to hurt the bottom, and the bottom has the confidence to know that they will be safe in the hands of the top. Crucial video to watch on this topic when thinking about getting involved in this type of play.
I love it! Seriously, where else can we learn about this topic? Few folks have a local slapping expert like Princess Kali doing education nearby… until now.
This was just what I needed! I’ve been meaning to attend Kali’s face slapping class forever but haven’t had a chance. I am planning a scene that face slapping could work well in and thought I wonder if it is on Kink Academy and it is – Yay!
you’re always great about addressing safety issues; it’s the only way it can truly be SSC or RACK. warning not to slap or engage in any BDSM play when anger is something that should be stated far more often. thanks!
An excellent tutorial delivered in Princess Kali’s usual bright, happy, confident and informative style, but is there more to say about protecting the TMJ? I would have thought that clenching the teeth would go some way to protecting the jaw joint during a slap impact, rather than putting the joint at risk. Could Princes Kali be able to say more about this?
Hi Athabasca!
Glad you enjoyed the clip, I’m not a doctor so it’s by no means the end all be all, and as with all our videos we encourage our members to check out other resources (particularly medical). In my experience, any forced tightness in the jaw is not helpful for TMJ. I suppose that if the face-slappee tried to keep their jaw firmly together without a huge amount of pressure (ie, not actually clenching). What you don’t want is pain from clenching the teeth so hard and you don’t want a lot of side-ways movement of the jaw. Hope that helps!
Kali