The term ‘service’ can be used in different capacities in the kink world, so it’s a good idea to make sure that everyone in the relationship is using the same definition in order to reach the same goal. Sarah Sloane explains the many ways to be ‘of service’ and the many motivations of the service-oriented person. She also shares helpful tips on how service can be both given and accepted as a bottom or Top, a Dominant or a submissive.
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2 Responses to “What is Service?”



I really enjoyed learning more about service. Thank you. I suppose because I’m not service-oriented or I’m having difficulty finding the correct perspective, I still have trouble understanding what a sub gets out of it, other than some kind of reward. Would service-subs be likened to “pleasers” or “givers”?
Excellent video