Tess Danesi emphasizes safety and non-intimidation in this 8-minute introduction to sensual dominance. She offers examples of soft restraint (e.g., silk scarves, Velcro gags), suggests ways to experiment and build confidence (e.g., massage, nipple pressure, erotic biting), and recommends slow pacing and rhythm variance during play.
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One Response to “Beginner’s Guide to Sensual Dominance”



I love Tess’s emphasis on slow, deliberately tame experimentation for bondage beginners. Patience is key to learning what works for you and your partner. Also, little gentle steps allow for plenty of reflection and time for communication between partners. You can always amp up the intensity later, once you’ve figured out what works for everyone involved.