Megan Andelloux offers a series of tips on communication for the sexually shy in this 5-minute video. She first notes some very interesting – and inspiring – research on sexual desirability, and then she explains various technological, media, and other creative tips to help enhance communication between partners.
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4 Responses to “Communication for the Shy”



Very good comments about technology and the ability to talk about things. I have found that I am much more open in an email or text than I am in person or on the phone. Great tips.
i’ve had some of the best sex of my life over gchat
I love that Megan offered thrifty tips, too!
And, like the folks above said in their comments, I’ve also used chat, texts, and e-mails for communication about fantasies and desires I’ve had that I felt tentative about (whether it was because I didn’t know how *I* would feel about something or whether I was apprehensive about how a partner might react). I’m also a big fan of suggestive cell phone pic-messages.
This is great. It reminds me of that Billy Joel ‘Tell her About it,’ which I always thought was the greatest advice anyone could give anyone about relationships.
Anyway, this is way better cuz it’s not heteronormative and takes into account different personality-styles/comfort zones.