MayMay discusses masculinity in submission during this five-minute video. He explores various types of play (e.g., chastity, penis size, and cross-dressing) from an atypical perspective as a way to encourage new thinking and promote value, fun, and eroticism for all partners involved in submissive play.
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3 Responses to “Finding Masculinity in Submissive Play”



Maymay, I’ve been very inspired by your writing, so it was exciting to see you here as well! I would love to see more videos covering the various topics you discussed in more detail, especially submissive masculine archetypes and examples of how someone might enjoy them in play!
Hey there, that.freshness.
First, thank you for your kind commentary! I’m glad to hear that this video segment was helpful, or at least of interest, to you. So I think you may also be happy to hear that Kink Academy and I recorded several more videos in a similar vein and, although it’s difficult to get too deep into the very large subject of submissive masculine archetypes in a ~5 minute video, I’ve been assured that the other videos we shot together on this subject are in the queue and will eventually be released. That means you’ve got at least a little bit to look forward to from me right here on Kink Academy! :)
In the mean time, if you don’t already know about it, I’ll suggest that you (and anyone else who may be reading) take a gander at the posts over on MaleSubmissionArt.com that discuss masculinity in more detail (which are most of them, really). There are also several posts on my blog that deal with this subject matter quite directly, such as How an outdated view of masculinity ignores the needs of all men and 8 Things Submissive Men Want from a Dominant Partner.
it’s also really good to hear that this is a topic of more general interest because it gives me some more motivation to keep thinking and writing about the topic. And on that note, a lot of my inspiration comes via feedback from commenters like you, so feel free to leave comments, cross-post or reblog my content, and generally clue me into what you’re interested in any which way you like.
Thanks again for watching and for being so supportive of this (IMHO) too often overlooked topic. :)
And, indeed, the next installment, which the Kink Academy staff titled Masculine Pride in Submission, has evidently been published. :)