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Advocating for Yourself as a Submissive

Posted on 02.13.12
Basic Skill, Basic Subject, Instructional, Members Only, Service, Video
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Mollena Williams discusses submissive self-advocacy during this seven-minute video. She opens by addressing common expectations of a submissive but then discusses the value of negotiation from a place of strength. Mollena offers concrete strategies to communicate honestly and courageously in your relationship(s).

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