Mary Kay

Title:

Sexual Educator

If you want to know what my kink title/role is, well, I’m not much of a title person (I’m a switch, so I get called multiple things, like Sir, Doctor, girl, boy, and little girl), but how about Kinkster Extraordinaire?

Location:

I split my time between Takoma Park, MD and Toronto, ON

Website:

http://sites.google.com/site/marykaysexeducator

Biography:

Mary Kay is a genderfluid (bio-female), omni(bi)sexual, polyamorous kinkster sexual educator technically from (The People’s Republic of) Takoma Park, Maryland, but it’s the city of Toronto that has her heart. She’s been studying human sexuality for 8 years now, and her last job of 2 years was at Lambda Rising GLBT bookstore, which helped her in her studies of sexual orientation and gender identity. Her passion is sexual education & liberation, helping people from all walks of life to live happier, healthier lives via increased pleasure, sexual and otherwise. She’s also, incidentally (or not), a geek, a fangirl, a Mac lover, a mass transit fan, a typography nerd and a pet owner.

Specialties:

fat fetishes, “exotic” or “rare” fetishes, the intersection of geek & kink & sex, gender & orientation, role play. Presenting kink, fetish and other topics to people outside the “alternative sexuality” community or those just starting on their journey. And when presenting to kinksters, presenting on topics that others rarely present on. I have a tendency to do kink different from those around me and the things I present on tend to reflect that.

Experience:

As a sexual educator, a lot of my experience has been non-standard or informal, due to my emphasis on presenting outside the alternative sexuality community. Presented at/for The Fifth HOPE (panel facilitator), HOPE #6, The Last HOPE, Frolicon 2009, TESFest2009 (panelist), The Society, MOB New England. Appeared on Kinky Sex Radio podcast. Did a 5 hour long interview for someone’s thesis on feederism. Hours and hours of informal one-on-one & small group education.

As a kinkster, I’ve been doing kinky things in the bedroom since I came of sexual maturity and lost my virginity to a fellow kinkster over 10 years ago. I’ve been an active member of the DC BDSM Scene since early 2005, and I’m trying to make my way into the Toronto Scene. I’m also starting to make my way in the Swinging Lifestyle, having been curious about it for years.

Browse all of Mary Kay’s Kink Academy videos.