In this clip Stefanos & Shay talk about improvised blindfolds – specifically using a tie to cover Shay’s eyes. While they talk about the reasons for blindfolds, the real proof is in their demo, as Shay’s “inner monologue” illustrates the truly dominant power of blindfolds. Stefanos then shows the step-by-step process of tying the blindfold […]
Stefano LaForgia shows the popular Japanese chest harness in the style of the great bondage performer Hajime Kinoko. This long video uses two ropes and is suitable for suspension when tied correctly. Stefano includes several useful details in rope handling and the finer adjustments to the chest harness. This text is available for purchase but […]
Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand […]
BDSM is hot. Kink is sexy. And…it turns out that when you practice perversion in the path less taken, it can be healthy for you as well! To some extent this is not surprising, based on the idea that happier people are healthier people and therefore if kink makes you happy you should indulge in […]
In this short clip Erin Houdini teaches her way of bundling rope. It is fast, neat, and secures your ropes from getting tangled while still keeping the bight accessible for fun!
Another part of dealing with shyness is getting past the perfectly natural fear of possible consequences. What if I’m rejected? What if I’m weird? What if I don’t like it? What if I like it too much? Mollena talks about how to face these kinds of fears and keep them from preventing your happy kinky […]
Graydancer and J.P. Robichaud move into the final segments of their rope negotiation series by talking about what the top needs. It’s rare that a rigger is asked “What do you want to get out of a scene?” but that is just as important as the bottom’s desires. They talk about ways to figure out […]
Lucky Albatross talks about the different reasons people have for performing service in a play environment. She explains many examples including efficiency, acknowledgement, and even sexual satisfaction. Lucky also details how the different motivations can necessitate different modes of communication, and how exploring that can be a huge part of the fun of finding your […]
Miss Simone continues her parade of looks for sissies with four outfits designed for everyday activities. She goes over the different materials including choice of shoes and other considerations. Each of the looks has it’s own charm, and Simone tells why she enjoys seeing her sissy wear each one depending on her mood.
Some think that in order for a submissive to feel controlled or dominated they need to be manhandled. I love the feel of his hand entangled in my hair, pulling my face to his, but the same effect can be achieved just as well with other means. The right words, tone of voice, and the […]
Iris continues to share the ways she’s found to change the use of tools and toys for her own perverted ends. She talks about using pet brushes, toothpaste, and even small plastic toys to create a variety of sensations from pleasure to pain.
In this long clip Danarama breaks down how to create an alternate leg harness for web frame bondage. This one is based on a series of single column ties, so after showing it once the Diablo Swing Orchestra steps in to accompany the rest of the tie. Dan also gives tips on how this tie […]
What do you need to have a play piercing scene that is both fun and safe? Stefanos and Shay show you what they prefer, go over some other options, and make sure you think things through from start to finish. Shay also covers a few techniques for avoiding cross-contamination and Stefanos explains why not everything […]
In part 5 of this continuing series, Murphy explains how to finish off the ties on Annie so that she’s all ready for the upcoming flight. This includes completing the waist harness, adding a single-column ankle cuff, and some other support lines. Throughout this long clip the three of them all model how connection happens […]
In this clip Mollena gives a few specific tips for the subs in power exchange relationships. She talks about how important it is to not keep troubles and stresses bottled up – even when it’s scary to honestly communicate. Mollena describes a few scenarios for using tact and self-awareness to help improve the flow of […]