Shae Flanigan kicks off a series on the kink of sensory deprivation with a quick definition of terms: what is this particular kink and why do people get off on it? She explains how it can change the entire world for the submissive.
Princess Kali, Mollena Williams, and Graydancer continue their discussion of what role vulnerability has in D/s relationships with this clip. Gray poses the question of the difference between being valued for what you do vs. who you are, and Mollena and Kali take up the challenge with some ways that both can help strengthen a [...]
Liliane Hunt covers some of the more pragmatic aspects of dog & pup training in this clip. How can you make the call of nature and the natural progression of hunger still be a part of the “fully immersive” experience? Liliane describes several ways of dealing with these issues, as well as demonstrating with her [...]
Ah, July 4th, the American holiday of celebrating our independence from Britain. Now it’s mostly turned into a reason to drink a bunch of beer, have a BBQ with friends and make loud, expensive, colorful explosions in the sky. There’s a better way to celebrate and that’s to have a your own personal sexual revolution. [...]
Lucky Albatross says she isn’t any good at negotiation – at least, the kind that requires compromise. On the other hand, she’s a big believer in getting your needs met in aftercare and, in this clip, she explains how. She talks about how aftercare can look different for different people and the ways you may [...]
In this extended and very hot video, Murphy Blue and Deanna explain how to use the “mapping” techniques from previous clips to create a rough-play scene. As they move together, Murphy explains how his choices affect the tenor of the whole scene, and at the end Deanna gives her own feedback on just how much she [...]
Charlie Glickman undertakes the difficult task of describing a prostate-stimulated orgasm in this clip. Drawing on the reports of hundreds of men who have enjoyed this kind of play, he talks about the various reasons that a man might want to try it out, but ends with the surety that you’ll never know until you [...]
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will [...]
In this extended clip Mistrix shows how the careful application of leads can make the electrical current from a TENS unit flow through the prostate for a truly sensational experience. She also applies pads to the cock and balls themselves, then slowly works with the box controls to get exactly the reaction from her bottom [...]
Dov admits that he has a pretty huge collection of whips, and this lets him come up with novel new types of throws like this one. Named after a mythical monster with a head made up of tentacles, the “Cthulhu throw” is both a sensual overload and a mindfuck, with multiple whips cracking at the [...]
Nayland finishes up the series with some advice on what to expect after a scene. He recommends several techniques for communicating both with each other and with your wider support network, because this kind of psychological play can hit people in surprising ways and at unexpected times.
Danarama goes into more detail about the underhanded tricks tops can use for interrogation play. Ranging from simple conversational techniques designed to gain information to elaborate “prisoner’s dilemma” scenarios, this is a great guide for enjoying this kind of consensual role play.
In my experience there can be a great deal of guilt on both sides of the D/s dynamic, regardless of gender. So I’m going to do a series of articles about some of the struggles and solutions from each perspective. I presented one of my favorite ‘conceptual’ classes at Ramabo College, D/s as a Feminist [...]
Alex Bettencourt uses this clip to remind the service provider that it is just as important to manage themselves as it is the household. Aside from self-care suggestions, Alex also gives several great resources for the manager to become more effective which you can see in the comment below.
Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by [...]