The art of negotiation is a key part of being kinky. It serves as both a safety net and also a path to getting what you want out of kink. While there are some questions that are good to ask no matter what your kink, if rope bondage is your kink there are some specific [...]
Mollena Williams, International Ms Leather 2010, begins a series to help power exchange players communicate more effectively. She points out that regardless of your relationship dynamic, the start of communication needs to come from respect. She outlines how that looks from various perspectives to lay a foundation for future talks on the how of D/s diplomacy.
Thrash takes the next step in the transformation to Antonia by adding boobs! He explains the different types of bras and breast inserts available, then explains size choices and issues with a thorough and practical experience.
In this clip Kelly Shibari tackles a tricky situation: how can a couple get through the awkwardness that sometimes occurs when one partner gains significant weight? She talks about how attraction and arousal can change (or not) and brings it back around to the idea of communication and honesty being the best way to strengthen [...]
As the discussion about the theory of rope bondage scenes continues, Gray and JP begin to talk about creative constraints. What happens if the top only gets three pieces of rope? What if there’s no rope at all? What kind of energetic connection comes out of you when your “topping talismans” are taken away?
In this clip Stormmy goes over three of the main types of “Florentine” or two-handed flogging. He shows the 4-count, the 6-count, and the reverse 6-count (especially good for the ass). Along with his explanations he also demonstrates each technique from different points of view, giving you easy reference to learn the pattern for yourself.
In this clip we learn what it’s like to actually experience puppy play according to Minx Grrl. She talks about the headspace and relationship that it creates with her partner and the world around her, as well as why she enjoys this form of role play.
Many couples that enjoy kinky sex and/ or relationship structures feel that it’s important for BDSM to not be just something that is done in the bedroom but rather as a way to live life. For others kinky sex is something fun to explore but only in the bedroom. Regardless, keeping kink in your life [...]
Goddess Helena continues her series on dolly play during this four-minute video. She discusses ways to have fun by playing dress-up and using makeup to use and admire your doll(s). Stay tuned for more doll play with Helena and her doll Nikki in their next clip too.
Mistress Simone goes over more information necessary for play with ball gags. This clip focuses first on cleanliness and how the methods used to prevent cross-contamination change depending on the kind of material the gag is made of. She also explains how the structure of the face and jaw needs to be taken into account [...]
Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams continue to explain more about the wide variety of events available through the kink community. Are you more interested in academics? Leadership skills? Or just looking to try out some kinky play? They describe where to find all of these and more in this clip.
Murphy and Deanna show how all the techniques they’ve covered in previous clips can be brought together into a spontaneous, hot, and sensual scene. You see their communication and reactions as well as the techniques of rope tying that Murphy uses to evoke sensations.
Panther Prowls and his slave Embers talk about the various kinds of collaring ceremonies that can be created between two people to formalize their power exchange relationship. While there are traditions and various trappings that can make it resemble a marriage ceremony, Panther emphasizes that what is important is that the ceremony be meaningful to [...]
Dear Sarah, My partner (who I have been with for years) is coming to terms with the fact that he’s no longer feeling submissive – but now feels very dominant. As a dominant woman who has no desire to switch, I’m really confused. I love him, of course, but I feel really angry and really [...]
Selina Minx explains how to use the principles of body language, tone, and more from prior clips in this series to improve your negotiation skills. It’s important to be able to read when a partner is feeling threatened or needs space, and also when they are needing that extra little consensual push. Selina gives several [...]