Before Shae puts her bottom in the “big burly hood”, it’s important that they establish a signal. This could be to show distress, to suggest an adjustment, or simply to let Shae know that something is up. She covers various ways this can work, as well as going over some other safety considerations in sense [...]
Burning in your pee hole doesn’t have to come from the ‘clap’ by Dr. Brian Torturing your pee hole can be fun, but you there are some precautions that you should take to avoid permanent damage. Damaging your urethra can result in infection and strictures and ultimately make it harder for urine to get from [...]
Now that Wintersong has covered the theoretical parts of “unusual fetishes”, he gets into the practicality of creating a solo scene for yourself. He brings up the not-so-obvious point that by being unusual, your fetish may not be as clear on things like safety and process. Using personal experience as well as some application of [...]
Mistress Simone continues her series by using more common household items to discipline pain slut. As with the other clips, she explains the safety issues and proper use of each, as well as getting feedback as to how things feel. She also uses a shoe horn, highlighting the different qualities of plastic vs. metal in [...]
Accompanying his “Date Within Your Species” clip, in this video Reid Mihalko talks about some of the various kinds of polyamory that you may encounter. Are you in “rotating pairs”? Or more of a “dolphin pod”? Or something else? It’s important to understand the differences in order to avoid misunderstandings and worse.
One of the most important aspects of sissification is choosing the right wig, and that’s why Mistress Simone dedicates two long clips just to this subject. In this one she and Brenna talk about how to pick a good “natural” wig that goes with your skin color, your facial structure, and other factors. They give [...]
Danarama goes into the essential safety factors when creating a web rope bondage experience. Some of the usual rope concerns apply, such as not leaving your bottom unattended and having cutting implements handy. However, Dan goes over some differences as well, such as the need to work from the bottom up when tying, as well [...]
As part of her protocol series, Mistress Melissa shows the first two of her four standard positions for submissives on their knees. One of these is “at rest” and the other is called “reprimand”, but as she shows there is a lot more to it. Mistress Melissa explains how the way she signals the positions [...]
In this clip, Mollena explains why it’s important to understand your reasons for pushing your own boundaries. The short answer is: do it for yourself, not for other people. But there are a lot of variations in how both of those things look. Also, Mollena explains how fear can be both an aphrodisiac and a [...]
In part 2 of his series on better rope skills, Stefano shows several techniques for both creating “frictions” (or “tomenawa”, places where the rope stops and holds) and also for drawing rope around and across itself. He goes in-depth into each part, including explaining various situations where each technique is appropriate.
Scotty demonstrates the power of words spoken in the right tone with this clip. He talks about how a dominant voice is different than the typical “command” voice, since it’s not just compliance you’re looking for – it’s also arousal and fantasy. Annie also tells about how it feels to be spoken to in that [...]
In this clip Stefanos and Shay introduce the idea of NOT-rope bondage – that is, rather than using the traditional nylon and organic ropes and fancy knots, why not use…whatever? Ties, belts, stockings, the possibilities are many, and they also talk a lot about why you might want to use these things to kink up [...]
Miss Simone finishes out her extensive series on handcuffs by talking about their counterpart: leg irons. She shows how similar principles apply in some ways, and also how some aspects of these bondage toys are completely unique. Simone also describes several ways that leg irons can be used in play, and the safety concerns for [...]
Dan and Dawn Williams finish off their series on M/s relationships with the simple advice: Do It! Live the life you fantasize about! They also offer more practical advice on how to maintain it, such as where to find support in the form of peers, mentors, and role models. Dan emphasizes again how ritual can [...]
In part 2 Murphy goes over some more aspects of evaluating your hard point and frame. Then he brings in the “soft ingredients”: his two models. They discuss their physical condition as well as the psychological parts of the suspension to come. Finally Murphy cautions you that this is NOT meant to replace in-person rope [...]