Once you’ve worked through all the communication and prep and actually gotten to experience your unusual fetish, there’s one final part to take into consideration: aftercare. Wintersong goes over some of the ways that aftercare for this kind of scene might be different than for other kinds of scenes. Emotions, physical after-effects, and even things [...]
Murphy continues to put Annie into her suspension harness, this time with the help of his other demo bottom. He mingles the solid rope instruction with a demonstration of how banter and horseplay can change some rather plain engineering into a fun connection between three kinksters.
Antonia puts the final touches on the transformation from masculine Thrash, and it’s all in the details. Specifically, it’s in the way you carry yourself and your confidence in your identity as a woman that will make your transformation complete. She also recommends some additions like a saucy fan to spice up the experience.
Ever wonder how a negotiation for a needle play scene might go? Shay and Jade model exactly that, asking questions not only about the kind of scene they want to have but also about boundaries, medical histories, relationships, and many other concerns. Watch and see if there’s things you might not have expected them to [...]
What happens after that amazing and boundary-pushing scene is done? Aftercare, of course, but Mollena points out that it can look different depending on your needs. Is it a high-five and “Nice job!” or hours of “cuddles and Belgian chocolates”? It’s important to know your “path to aftercare” before you start the scene, especially in [...]
Valentine’s Day. A day of flowers and cards and shiny baubles given between paramours expressing their undying love and affection. Everywhere you go there are hearts and cherubs with wings and bows. And candy! It seems like about the most un-kinky holiday you could get. And yet…notice how the hearts don’t actually look like hearts? [...]
Now that the safety issues are covered (and you did watch that clip, right?) Shae Flanigan begins the final part of the Sensory Deprivation scene she’s been building. She covers her bottom’s head with a heavily-strapped leather hood, showing how she cares for the fit of it and also how she uses her body to [...]
You don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of control and dominance. He breaks it down step-by-step, covering position and how to [...]
Continuing the diamond body harness with this clip, Danarama takes the rope up the back with a series of twists and one or two knots. He includes tips on where the rope should lay, where to make sure it’s not too tight, and a variety of ways to finish off the tie. Whether you’re working [...]
Stefano LaForgia takes the agura shibari technique a bit further into the “shrimp” tie, also known as “ebi”. He explains how this is a very difficult stress position, making it difficult to breathe as well as putting strain on the back, neck, and possibly even the legs. He shows some variations to the tie as [...]
As a professional Domme with a background in linguistic anthropology, I am frequently asked for advice on communication within BDSM relationships. Although clear communication is critical to any healthy partnership, I believe relationships involving dominance and submission require partners to take things a step further. Below, I outline five rules which may help you build [...]
Mollena William talks about how setting up an online persona can help you overcome your shyness towards the kink community. You have control of your persona as well as how much you interact with the people online, and that can be an effective way to deal with social anxiety. She also recommends having a buddy [...]
In part one of a long series covering kinky needle play Stefanos and Shay talk about why this kind of play is hot, what kinds of training you should get beyond these videos, and other considerations. They also explain how they can come from vastly different experiences – layman and medical professional – and still [...]
Once you’ve worked out what your unusual fetish is, and perhaps even made it through the conversation with your partner, there’s still the chance that the “unusual” part of it makes it hard to experience. This may be for a variety of reasons from the legal to the physical to the emotional. Wintersong talks about [...]
Mistress Shae Flanigan takes rough body play back to the basics with this super-size video. She starts with all the fun reasons to try out bare-fist punches with your partner, such as sensation, intimacy, and even sound. She then goes through the technique on various parts of the body, covering safety issues along the way. [...]