Mollena finishes her series on monogamy without shame with an honest evaluation of the good and the bad parts of being monogamous in a kinky world. She emphasizes that holding on to your boundaries and never giving up on what you really want is an important part of being happy with both. This text is [...]
A three part series: Subspace, Aftercare, Subdrop Most BDSM practitioners like to emphasize the tangible emotional effects of a good BDSM scene: great trust between partners, clear communication (always a good thing, right?), strong sense of bonding, respect, cherishing, and often love. But one of the potential aftermaths not to be ignored of a BDSM [...]
In this short clip we hear from Deanna (“Cannonball”) as she gives an experienced perspective of what it’s like to be suspended like this. She talks about relative comfort and possibilities, and Stefano chimes in to cover a few more safety issues. They also agree that the pulley system worked wonderfully!
Dr. Amy Stone started out the day with a keynote address entitled “Similar Networks, Different Movements: Comparing the LGBT Movement to Activism about Alternative Sexualities” – which was a great comparison of the similarities and differences between the LGBT communities and the Kink/BDSM/leather communities / consensual non-monogamy movements and the difference in activism – in [...]
Stefanos and Shay love to play rough, and sometimes that means verbally as well. But when two consenting adults agree that “no doesn’t mean no anymore”, how can you let your partner know that things need to slow down or stop? They show several strategies, from classic safewords like “red” to more creative methods like [...]
Mistress Servalan continues to talk about her passion for all things Zentai by exploring the idea of layers. With more than one suit you can create more of the sensation, more of the objectification, and even more of the bondage or restriction if that’s what you’re going for. Her bottom gives his perspective on what [...]
Evöe Thorne puts Harold Henry under their Trample Table for this video to show how feet can be used for some amazing cock and ball stimulation. She covers accessories like lube as well as showing various techniques for stroking, applying pressure, and (judging from Harold’s face) generally having a lot of fun teasing with soles, [...]
Now that he and Deanna have shown how to evaluate and then work with the different moods of bondage, Murphy talks about aftercare. Many of the points are the same as any kink activity, but he also covers several rope-specific aspects of care both for the top and bottom. Bonus points for Star Trek fans [...]
Savannah Sly, again with the help of Tina, continues her series on tickling during this eight-minute video. Savannah shows various techniques and positions for the tickler and ticklee to have fun, safe, secure, and sexy tickling time. And more to come in Savannah’s forthcoming tickling clips.
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
If you go to a kink event where there is some kind of “Leather” presence (and that’s Leather, not leather) , you’re going to notice a lot of hankerchiefs dangling out of back pockets. At first this may seem just like some kind of fashion accessory, but if you watch closely, you may see something [...]
Mollena has some specific advice about tact and feedback for the big-letter types in D/s relationships. While she acknowledges that they have the ability and consent from the submissive to be as cruel as they like, she suggests that a little positive reinforcement and personal acknowledgement can go a long way towards sustaining and nourishing [...]
Since everyone’s aftercare needs are different and both tops and bottoms need aftercare, it follows that they may not always be able to provide aftercare for each other. Lucky Albatross presents a solution in this clip: using a different person who is better equipped and can be trusted to give the aftercare that is needed [...]
Topologist gives a clear demonstration of Jack Elfrink’s “Gravity Boot”, a cuff designed for ankles bearing weight in an inverted position. He shows the steps of tying this advanced technique and gives some clear warnings about how to use it safely and effectively. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or [...]
Since it doesn’t have the same “bite” as organic rope, nylon rope requires a few adjustments when tying. In this clip, the Leather Yenta teaches a single-limb cuff that works very well with nylon, mnemonically named the “L7 cuff.”