Does submission mean never saying no? Can a Dominant say “yes” and still be dominant? These may seem like simple questions, but sometimes they throw people off in their power-exchange. Mollena Williams talks about the real meaning and power behind using these words, and gives some examples of clever ways to navigate around using them. […]
Stormmy uses this clip to show how he and his slave Miranda prepare for an intense flogging scene. With meditative slave positions she first focuses her attention. Then Stormmy makes a connection physically, verbally, and emotionally with her, establishing their dynamic before it’s time to “start the whackin’” as he says. This is a very […]
Mistress Servalan explains how the zentai suit is ideal for stripping down someone’s identity until they are depersonalized into nothing more than “furniture of flesh.” She talks about using her zentai bottom as a table, a footrest, and a chair amongst other things.
Antonia tops off the transformation from Thrash with some practical beauty tips for wigs. She goes over how to deal with temperature, how to prepare a wig before putting it on, and also goes in depth on how to store them for the next time. This text is available for purchase but you need to […]
In this “super-size” clip, Stefano Laforgia explains how to create a “ball-tie” style harness along with a carabiner-based pulley system for sex-compatible suspension bondage. Male, female, oral/anal/vaginal, this method can be fun for just about anyone who likes to fuck in the air!
Selina Minx is a big fan of boundaries, saying they “…are not limitations, they are guidelines to ecstasy.” She talks about the importance of working out your own boundaries and then communicating them in sexy ways to your potential partners.
Miss Simone and her painslut demonstrate the not-so-sensual side of caning. Simone goes into her top-space and delivers several harsh strokes to his willing ass, then talks about how it feels to see the welts raise on his ass. Next clip: aftercare!
Shae Flanigan takes you on a trip through the history of sensory deprivation, going back to the first “isolation tanks” from years ago. She describes not only the equipment but also the feelings of the people experiencing it and why it became so popular as a means of stress relief in addition to kink.
Scotty and Annie demonstrate how the fantasy of control can be heightened with the use of a couple of simple physical techniques. They show the “two-on-one” hold as well as the “thumb” hold, and talk about how it’s all in a context of fun and consensual role-play.
Being healthy at kink conventions means more than just safe, sane, and consensual. The intimate contact can make you more vulnerable to colds and flu-like illnesses, and Lee has some specific ideas for maintaining your health at a con. He and Mollena also talk about “con-drop”, the depression that can hit after a particularly good […]
Stefano LaForgia clearly shows how to integrate a carabiner-based pulley system into your suspension work. This can help you raise any securely tied object – limb or person – higher in the air safely and easily. Stefano talks about types of equipment, the knots used, and then demonstrates the basics of this technique.
Reid Mihalko discusses relationship’s awkward moments – and how to overcome them – during this four-minute video. He recommends a simple two-step process (that may require repetition) to help address and move beyond the awkwardness so that you can actually do what you enjoy.
Topologist shares one of the tricks of the rope top’s trade in this clip with a technique for making wrist cuffs more comfortable under load. Using a simple daisy-chain stitch in the right way the bottom can have an easy and comfortable grip. Topologist also shows how to untie it quickly when needed. This text […]
Daka Dom goes deep into the theory of the dominant side of power exchange relationships. Drawing on the psychological concept of the “shadow,” he describes the darker side of the dom persona. He also explains how there is much to learn from increasing your awareness of your own shadows and how you can use it […]
There is a fantasy of submission and dominance that goes something like this: Bowing at the dominant’s feet, the submissive knew that there was no demand heard from that strong voice that could be denied. There was no question that would not be answered, no secret that would be hidden, no task that the submissive […]