In this first-part video on making peace with jealousy in polyamorous relationships, Anita Wagner discusses the links between jealousy and fear, the common components of jealousy (emotions such as anger, loneliness, inadequacy, etc.), and the main origins of jealousy (societally programmed core beliefs and unresolved insecurities). A very thought-provoking and encouraging 10 minutes – valuable f...
Q demonstrates how to “polish” oil tan boots in this second part video. Q highlights the differences between oil tan and high shine boots (e.g., length of time to care for such boots), recommends quality grease conditioners (e.g., Huberd’s), and offers precise techniques and tips (e.g., amount of grease required) throughout the 8-minute video.
Makael Newby distinguishes between emotional and physical non-monogamy and applies the distinction to the lifestyles of swinging and polyamory during this 8-minute video. She defines a multitude of terms (swinging, swingles, unicorns; polyamory, triads, poly family, etc.) and gives plenty of examples. Makael suggests a variety of resources for further consideration as well.
Lee creatively uses the physical safe sex analogy to explain the protection of our emotional selves within a variety of sexual encounters. Just as we can share (or block) bodily fluids during sex, we can also share (or block) the positive (personality traits, luck, etc.) and negative (sapping of life, bad habits, etc.) energies with those to whom we relate. This 9-minute video helps you consider w...
Do you want to learn a handy trick for storing your rope? Then take less than two minutes out of your day and check out this handy clip from our bondage expert Jay Wiseman as he takes a big piece of rope and wraps it up for proper storage in a quick and compact way. And when you want to use it again, grab one end, give it quick shake, and you're good to go. Nice tip, Jay. Thanks!
Arthur Hate describes and demonstrates how to spank in this informative video! Learn how and why to properly warm up, then check out his three basic techniques as he uses his female model to show off the upright, horizontal, and over-the-knee positions. Find out his favorite tip for the lazy top, too!
In this next series of videos by Q on the topic of bootblacking, we learn how to properly polish a pair of oil tan boots. This process doesn't necessarily shine boots, but keeps this particular type of leather very soft and well conditioned. Watch how to remove the laces, clean the boots and apply saddle soap and water. In part two you'll learn how to complete the polish and walk away with a beaut...
Klawdya Rothschild, mid-transition to her drag character Ace, shows how to create a handy squirting softpack in just 3 minutes! All you need is a condom, some hair gel, and a pin – and you are fully prepared for your F-to-M drugstore softpack!
Lee Harrington highlights the great varieties in this 11-minute video on animal role play. There are the many types of animals (ponies, horses, puppies, dogs, kittens, cat, pigs, hogs, and many other non-mammals as well), and a great diversity within each animal (shapes, sizes, personalities, etc.). Lee notes why people play as animals and encourages you to communicate to your partner what you wan...
Building on his wrist tie, Jay Wiseman demonstrates his body harness, which is usable on any sized person, during this 7-minute video. You only need 3 long links of rope (14-18 ft), 1 shorter link (4-6 ft), and a willing partner for a beautiful and immobilizing upper-body harness. Jay also shows how to tie a surgeon’s knot and offers several safety tips (length of time in bondage, best locations...
Six minutes of slutty sex talk awaits you! Dan and Dawn continue their honest reflections during this second part of their video series. They identify 3 main points: the planning, the doing, and the processing; and they underscore important issues such as unpredictability, feelings of jealousy, etc. Stay tuned for their third segment as well.
To open or not to open a monogamous relationship? That is the question Anita Wagner addresses in this 10-minute video that completes her 3-part series on poly-mono relationships. She directs you to an abundance of resources as you and your partner(s) find the best ways to love each other.
Dr. Ruthie builds on her previous three clips during this 10-minute video. She encourages you to develop your fantasies by starting with what is great about you and your partner. Enhance the positive! Utilize your real-life experiences, catch your brief moments of arousal, consider your taboos, and give yourself time to fantasize. A great video for fantasy development and relationship building!
You are just 2 minutes away from learning the wrap-tie-and-tuck, single-limb cuff from Jay Wiseman and his assistant Tina. All you need is a willing partner, 4-6 feet of rope, and a few moments to watch Jay’s step-by-step demonstration of such a versatile wrist tie.
Julian Wolf’s 4th video, which completes her series on Spirit and Meaning, focuses primarily on playmates (whom to choose?) and aftercare (what are your needs? how do you negotiate and respect such care?). The final section of this 7-minute clip briefly recaps Julian’s reflective 4-part series. May you continue to grow during your journey.
Allow M. Makael Newby to introduce (or remind you of) the many facets of choking and gagging in this 6-minute video. Be prepared to redefine attractive, learn about the best times to practice this play, and attend to the emotional, physical, safety, and legal aspects of ultimate fellatio as well. Another Newby classic chock full of tips!
In her first Kink Academy video, an invaluable 5 minutes for any bootblacker, Q helps you pack your own bootblacking kit, which should include everything from saddle soap, various types of brushes, conditioner, polish, and more! You’ll view a variety of products and hear some great tips too (e.g., what best removes paint…).
Ms. Nikki demonstrates exactly how to tack your saddle pony during the next 7 minutes. She identifies all the necessary (and supplemental) equipment: from the half-chaps to the bridle, the saddle, and more. Nikki peppers her usual insightful tips throughout the video. An essential video for all pony players!
Mistress Katya’s second part of her series highlights how to care for latex. In just 7 minutes, you will learn the pros and cons of using baby powder and lubricant, the many (helpful and erotic) reasons for polishing, and what to avoid when caring for your latex. She also provides several insider tips and product recommendations as well. A perfect video for any latex enthusiast!
Julian Wolf’s third video on spirit and meaning primarily examines the sights, smells, and sounds of your scene. She recommends confronting your fears, abandoning expectations; and she explains how to create a sacred space during this 7-minute video.
Sissy Maid Stephanie shares her wisdom on shaving during the following 12 minutes. She discusses everything from moisturizing creams and hot compresses to types of razors and electric shavers. Stephanie also explains the pros and cons of electrolysis and laser treatments. Watch and learn even more tips (e.g., how to deal with irritations) too!



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