In this clip Anita Wagner goes deeper into a firsthand account of the challenges involved in having a partner with a sexual compulsion. She comes to it from the perspective of a sex-positive educator and gives some great examples of how treatments can vary and the importance of self-care as well as caring for the [...]
The term “edge play” can mean a lot of things in the kink community. For some, it simply means that they like the kinds of things that Orpheus Black does with blades. Knives are great tools for sensation play, for removing wax, for all kinds of things. However, there’s another understanding of “edge play” that has [...]
In part 2 of the Teppo Shibari tutorial Murphy shows ties in the second rope, which provides support under the breasts and turns the teppo into a suspension-worthy tie. He also illustrates the “dragon technique” of adding rope (his own invention!) and prepares to tie down the upper arm in part 3.
In this clip Wintersong talks about finding the positive aspects of playing with a disability. While the focus is on the more kinky aspects of sexuality, it’s easy to extrapolate to the simple act of sex. For example, a person with fibromyalgia was able to enjoy the heightened sensitivity, and another with an artificial limb [...]
In this clip Shae goes over the materials you need for an advanced mummification of the bottom (which will lead to sensory deprivation). Shae also demonstrates how to use gauze and tape to cover sensitive spots like the nipples from the duct tape that’s coming up.
Now that he’s explained the equipment, Sir Nik Satanas gives an actual demonstration of “Six of the Best”, the English traditional corporal punishment. He goes over positioning of the bottom, how to plan your swings, and then gives the first three strokes, pausing after each to talk about the bottom’s reaction and the marks the [...]
Mollena tackles the tricky subject of finding the right partner for your race play fantasies. She talks about the process of dialogue and broaching the subject, as well as what she considers warning signs. Mollena also explains why mutual respect and trust can be even more essential for this kind of play.
Once the needles go in, they have to come out, right? Shay and Stefanos demonstrate the basics in this video, explaining some of the physical effects (both sensation and blood) and how to safely dispose of the needles. They also demonstrate some of the more fun ways to play with taking the steel out from [...]
In a follow-up to her great series on Sensory Deprivation, Shae Flanigan wants to talk more about doing those kinds of things when you can’t afford expensive leather hoods and shiny sleepsacks. She explains how a trip to the local hardware store can get you the duct tape, plastic wrap, and other materials to get [...]
While the “TK” or takate-kote chest harness is a staple of shibari enthusiasts all over the world, there are more ways to tie! Murphy Blue shares one of his favorite alternate chest ties, the “Teppo Shibari” or “rifle-tie.” In part one he talks about where this tie puts stress on the body and shows the [...]
Sir Nik Satanas gives an introduction to a more heavy form of caning, English style. He starts by going over the various types of canes and explains why rattan is the most common used for this kind of play. Sir Nik also gives a few demonstrations of how canes can be scary even when they’re [...]
Julian Wolf continues to describe the wonders of the lower limbs in your kinky play by showing off the ankles and toes. These are more delicate than shins, and as lovely as Savannah’s are it’s more important to notice where you need to avoid heavy impact. Julian offers many things that you can do, however, [...]
Scotty and Annie delve into the finer points of including the throat and neck in your consensual fantasy role-play. Starting with determining the “sensitive” spots, Scotty takes you step-by-step through different techniques with enthusiastic commentary by Annie.
What happens when things go wrong in a race play scene? Mollena uses a very personal and vivid account of her own experience to show how things can go awry and how she used it as a means of self-knowledge and growth. She covers several aspects, including the idea of aftercare, and how the hard [...]
In prior videos most of the talking was by the tops, but in this clip Jade gets to tell her side. She talks about what the different techniques felt like as well as why she enjoys this type of play in general. She also explains that she’s ready to do more!