Here’s some great ideas for creating power exchange protocols that are “sexy for sexy’s sake”, according to Sinclair Sexsmith. They aren’t just for the dominant partners – Sinclair explains how even a single submissive could use these suggestions to make things hot. The suggestions are specific, graphic, and intensely sexual to get your D/s juices […]
What happens when things go wrong? Shay spends time in this clip explaining how to deal with things that may come up while you’re playing with needles. Accidental needle sticks, messy blood, fainting, hyperventilating…Shay explains what can go wrong and why, and also gives you concrete ideas on how to deal with it.
It was a beautiful clear night in Washington, and Graydancer and Koe Creation were all set to have a great little rope-and-cigar-play scene. He tied her in a lovely body harness and then lit a cigar, beginning their hot and sexy time with a puff of smoke across her bare skin. She shivered and gasped, […]
In many clips showing various kinds of roughhousing Graydancer and other tops on Kink Academy will put their hands and arms around necks. This is not a haphazard process, and in this video Gray shows the safety considerations when putting someone in “choke” holds. The secret: they don’t actually choke at all! He and Poetic […]
When it comes to impact play, there are a lot of things that can be used to produce a thuddy sensation. Iris shows books, shoes, paddles, and even some things that don’t have names. Of course she cautions you to use intelligence to stay safe when smacking your partner with these things – but mainly […]
What happens when a domestic discipline scene is done? In this clip Miss Simone and her pain slut talk about the varying levels of aftercare – from a simple thank you to in-depth debriefing and check-ins. They cover both physical and emotional needs, with lots of examples and strategies to make sure that after the […]
Now that he’s demonstrated how to tie all of the crotch-to-neck diamond box tie harness (or hishi takate kote), Stefano LaForgia shows a variation to use at the end in order to use up any extra rope. “Rope has to have meaning,” he explains, and gives many more tips as he makes Deanna’s rope even […]
Graydancer and Poetic begin a series where they show the in-depth process of the same scene they did for the “Our America” TV show. In that filming they had to hold back, but for this series they show it all – rough play, cigars, cocksucking, rope, bootblacking, all in a hot combination that shows why […]
Why would someone want to play with needles in the first place? In this clip the motivation behind the steel is explored. For both the top and bottom it could be different reasons, from medical fetish to hedonistic sensation. Sometimes it’s about dominance and submission, but sometimes it’s just about friends having fun. Shay, and […]
In this clip Roughinamorato goes into the harder parts of face slapping, both in terms of physicality and in mental duress. He talks about how important it is to have a good relationship and clear negotiation within a face-slapping scene at this intensity, and even talks about how to include a punching technique in your […]
As he puts the final harness on Ellen, the second bottom, Murphy shows how to use a modified “gunslinger” harness as a basis for the tie. He includes tips on adding rope, on adjusting to your particular bottom’s bottom, and of course has fun with his models as he gets ready to make them fly. […]
Poetic talks about more advanced bootblacking techniques for cleaning leather. While these may not seem to be directly sexual, the amount of intention and focus that can be given to the recipient of the leather care is part of what makes a bootblack scene hot.
Stefano LaForgia takes the basic hishi (diamond) body harness to the next level with a full-body version suitable for both floor work and suspension. In this COMPLETE tutorial he shows every twist and knot including the theory behind the wraps so that you can add this to your rope repertoire. This text is available for […]
Greg, the designer of the NJOY line of “fine instruments of pleasure”, talks about their flagship product. The “Pure Wand” is made of hard steel both for durability and to let you stimulate exactly the way you’d like. He demonstrates how the product is ergonomically efficient for both prostate and g-spot play, and also describes […]
In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race […]