Now that he’s explained the equipment, Sir Nik Satanas gives an actual demonstration of “Six of the Best”, the English traditional corporal punishment. He goes over positioning of the bottom, how to plan your swings, and then gives the first three strokes, pausing after each to talk about the bottom’s reaction and the marks the [...]
Mollena tackles the tricky subject of finding the right partner for your race play fantasies. She talks about the process of dialogue and broaching the subject, as well as what she considers warning signs. Mollena also explains why mutual respect and trust can be even more essential for this kind of play.
Once the needles go in, they have to come out, right? Shay and Stefanos demonstrate the basics in this video, explaining some of the physical effects (both sensation and blood) and how to safely dispose of the needles. They also demonstrate some of the more fun ways to play with taking the steel out from [...]
In a follow-up to her great series on Sensory Deprivation, Shae Flanigan wants to talk more about doing those kinds of things when you can’t afford expensive leather hoods and shiny sleepsacks. She explains how a trip to the local hardware store can get you the duct tape, plastic wrap, and other materials to get [...]
While the “TK” or takate-kote chest harness is a staple of shibari enthusiasts all over the world, there are more ways to tie! Murphy Blue shares one of his favorite alternate chest ties, the “Teppo Shibari” or “rifle-tie.” In part one he talks about where this tie puts stress on the body and shows the [...]
Sir Nik Satanas gives an introduction to a more heavy form of caning, English style. He starts by going over the various types of canes and explains why rattan is the most common used for this kind of play. Sir Nik also gives a few demonstrations of how canes can be scary even when they’re [...]
Julian Wolf continues to describe the wonders of the lower limbs in your kinky play by showing off the ankles and toes. These are more delicate than shins, and as lovely as Savannah’s are it’s more important to notice where you need to avoid heavy impact. Julian offers many things that you can do, however, [...]
Scotty and Annie delve into the finer points of including the throat and neck in your consensual fantasy role-play. Starting with determining the “sensitive” spots, Scotty takes you step-by-step through different techniques with enthusiastic commentary by Annie.
What happens when things go wrong in a race play scene? Mollena uses a very personal and vivid account of her own experience to show how things can go awry and how she used it as a means of self-knowledge and growth. She covers several aspects, including the idea of aftercare, and how the hard [...]
In prior videos most of the talking was by the tops, but in this clip Jade gets to tell her side. She talks about what the different techniques felt like as well as why she enjoys this type of play in general. She also explains that she’s ready to do more!
Continuing the tie, Gray takes the rope around underneath Raven’s breasts and shows an alternative way to add on more rope. He also demonstrates how to adjust both the tension and the appearance of the ropes more efficiently.
In the final clip on regular sensory deprivation, Shae’s bottom talks about what her first time experience was like to have the full body bag and hood on. She describes her fears and how she overcame them using focusing and calming techniques.
In this clip Wintersong discusses various ways to get the same feeling of an activity with a partner without adverse effects by carefully selecting the right equipment. He gives several examples of ways that creative exploration can work around the limitations of a disability.
Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear [...]
Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a [...]