In this clip Shay shows how simple items like panties and ties can be turned into very effective gags. She also talks about what not to use (Stefanos is not too fond of fuzzy scarves) and also covers safety issues.
Aside from being sexy, protocols can be a part of making you and your partner better in many ways. Sinclair talks about using a D/s relationship as motivation to exercise, to learn, to improve in various ways whether you are with someone or just by yourself. All of it is within the context of making […]
Can you improvise the equipment for a fear play scene? Are everyday items like makeup or stuffed animals scary? Iris Enchanted gives an emphatic “yes!” in this clip, talking about pervertibles that can be used either for “shock and awe” purposes or even for drawn-out interrogation play.
In part 2 of his series on sexually dominant kissing, Scotty explains how to take the sensual nibbling from part 1 to a new level. He shows how some simple negotiation with Annie helps them determine the “sweet spot” for more intense biting, then shows how it can turn a sexy scene into an even […]
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
Sinclair Sexsmith talks about how a submissive person can create their own protocols. You don’t need a dominant partner to make you do things, after all – self-improvement can be sexy, too! Sinclair talks about physical improvement, intellectual exercises, and even the idea of improving your creativity. All of these can make you more embodied […]
Scotty and Annie continue their series on sensual masculine domination with a couple of clips with teeth! In part one Scotty shows the way that you can use your lips to give tiny nibbles along the skin for great sensation without leaving any marks. Then, to Annie’s delight, he increases the intensity and shows how […]
Who needs ropes and chains? In this clip Iris Enchanted shows many alternative ways to restrain your partner. Some are familiar, like duct tape, and some are truly innovative (toe bondage, anyone?). She also covers safety considerations and other options for each pervertible bondage toy.
In part 3 M0co actually makes use of the “rope walk” by measuring and tensioning the twine. It is a painstaking and careful process, and he goes through it step-by-step so you can try it for yourself.
When all the play is done, it’s time to release the bottom from the mummification and sensory deprivation. Luckily, since this is all cheap and disposable material, all you need are a good pair of safety shears and the techniques Shae shows in this clip!
There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]
When it comes to BDSM, there are some people who simply use it as a means of spicing up a “traditional” relationship. A couple might indulge in a little hands-on impact play with their bare fists, such as Shae Flanigan enjoys, or some other version of “slap and tickle”. The rope bondage or growling commands […]
Sinclair Sexsmith explains several of the domestic protocols that can make everyday tasks a hot part of your dominant/submissive relationship. By combining sexual clothing, toys, or even actions with the chores around the house your domestic environment can become a foundational part of your D/s play. This text is available for purchase but you need […]
In part 2, M0co talks about the workspace and tools needed for rope making. These include the space for your “rope walk”, a twine feeding mechanism, and a power drill. He talks extensively about the ways to acquire or create these, including some “super secret” tips!
Scotty and Annie are getting hot and heavy with their series on dominant kissing. In this video Scotty both explains and demonstrates the technique of kissing along the borders and “interesting contours” of your partner’s body. He explains that this can show intent and dominance at the same time and Annie happily agrees.