JP and Gray tackle one of the stickiest parts of rope negotiation in this clip: sex. What exactly defines sexual contact? How do you deal with unexpected sexual energy in a scene? Drawing from their personal experiences, these two rope tops continue their discussion of the knotty questions of rope scenes.
Kitty Stryker has already talked extensively about how not to talk to your partner about kink. But how about some positive suggestions? This long clip tells you many ways to express your fantasies and curiosity to your partner, both in theoretical and concrete terms. Between the two clips your communication skills for kink can really [...]
Browsing through the many online and published resources on Pony Play, one can find plenty of information about Pony Headspace, abbreviated to Pony Space, but few sources extend into the area of one’s Pony Persona. This subject is largely neglected because the difference between Pony Space and Pony Persona is not always clarified. Personally, I [...]
In this promotional clip Erin Houdini explains why her rope is so good – in color, strength, feel, and even special features like UV-reactive colors. Check it out, and then check out her site at ErinHoudini.com!
Evoë Thorne and Harold Henry start talking about the essential subject of consent in this video. Starting with a demonstration of consent in action, they talk about the ways communication and respect can make things even more hot and intense between lovers. They give a personal testimonial of how consent can not only be sexy, but [...]
Stefanos and Shay use Jade’s lovely body to show some of the “best” places to pierce – both in terms of safety and in terms of sensation. They explain why some areas are easier than others, and how to avoid things like nerve clusters or blood vessels.
In this segment, Miss Simone focuses more on the stomping aspect of cock-and-ball foot torture. She covers how the technique changes so as to avoid injuring the testicles. You can hear from her willing bottom that both toe and heel are quite effective.
Lucky Albatross talks about the reasons why you might want to plan a “service vacation weekend” such as getting out of a familiar rut or just to enjoy a different dynamic between you and your partner. She also covers the reasons why you probably shouldn’t do a service weekend. It’s a lot of fun, but it’s [...]
This clip continues Mistress Melissa’s series on posture protocol. She covers “table” positions (3) and “worship” position (4), breaking down all the body mechanics of each and explaining why she finds them both pleasing and useful in her scenes.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
In this first clip of a multi-part series, JP Robichaud (Ropenspace facilitator and rigger for the Keyhole Sessions in Toronto) and Graydancer talk about some of the finer points of negotiation, and how to work through common misunderstandings. This clip describes a technique developed by Jim Duvall (Seattle kink educator) for making sure all medical [...]
In part 2, Mollena goes over some of the issues that can come up when you are working within a consensual nonconsent framework, and how to deal with them. One of the biggest is figuring out how to end a scene and deal with the many emotions that may be left over. Having a framework [...]
In the final clip in Lee Harrington’s series on hypnosis he brings up some elements of safety. Specifically he describes how some people may try unethical methods of hypnosis or triggers that have unusual side effects. Lee also goes over ways to protect yourself from these kinds of situations, from self-induced hypnotic triggers to simply [...]
Thrash talks about one of the most important aspects of humiliation play: a thorough knowledge of your partner. It’s not only necessary so that you know what areas not to play around in; it’s also the best way to know exactly what areas will lead to the hottest play. It takes time, though, and a [...]
What if you’ve never been tied up before? How do you bring up the idea at all with your partner, and how do the both of you learn to get comfortable with the fantasy? In this clip Stefanos and Shay take it back to the beginning, explaining how communication and mutual exploration can help make [...]