Kitty Stryker talks about ways you can use words to create consensual situations even when in the middle of it all. Using strategies like “non-attachment to outcome” and creative thinking you can respect limits and boundaries but still have a fun, hot time with your partner.
There is a mistaken idea among some people that role-playing is something you do when you get bored with your “real life” lover. After all, shouldn’t your “authentic” self be enough to arouse you and your partner? It’s a flawed idea. There’s nothing wrong with your authentic self, and it doesn’t go away when you […]
The various sensations that can happen under the needles can lead to some very wiggly and squirming bottoms. Shay and Stefanos, along with Jade’s willing body, show how to both deal with this and also inspire it when it’s wanted.
There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it […]
Iris Enchanted starts a series on how you can pervert everyday household items with this introductory clip. She discusses the idea of “pervertibles” and “de-pervertibles” and gives several examples such as rubber bands, coconut oil, and even interesting ideas for female condoms!
In his second face-slapping video, Roughinamorato goes into two more techniques. One uses both hands in a very stingy sensation, shown both in real-time and slow motion. He then covers backhanding, talking about safety issues and also demonstrating several times. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Register & […]
Mistress Melissa’s piggy can’t be on her knees all the time, so there are a few standing positions for high-protocol D/s scenes. This clip covers the first two, with Mistress Melissa’s usual attention to the details of body mechanics, presentation, and even some extra examples of verbal protocols that can go along with the standing […]
Throughout this series, Orpheus Black’s demo partner has been Mistress Delilah Black. In this clip she gives her perspective on how it felt, both psychologically and physically, to be under his blade.
Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that […]
In part 2 Graydancer goes over two important questions: is it better to PUSH or PULL rope, and what do you do when you suffer from the dreaded “premature ropulation” (i.e., running out of rope)?
One of the best part of needle play is the wide variety of possibilities for sensation in play. In this clip Shay & Stefanos show several different ways to elicit sensation and play with both the way the needles go in and the way they come out. Jade also gives feedback on how it feels […]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about […]
In this clip Sinclair Sexsmith heads into the pragmatic areas of D/s protocol such as doing dishes, laundry, or even the way coffee is served. Sinclair gives solid suggestions as well as the reasoning behind them so that you can come up with your own hot & sexy D/s protocol.
Roughinamorato of Chicago’s “Rough Crowd” shows the essential elements of this kind of hot and surprisingly intimate play. He goes over the anatomy of both the face and the hand, talking about where to hit and with what in order to keep the slap sexy and not damaging. He also goes over how to support […]
Now that he’s covered positions, Orpheus gets into the specific techniques for using the knife on the breasts, stomach, and thighs. He talks about the safest grip, how parts of the skin differ, and how to position yourself so that your bottom is kept from harm during this sensual type of edge play.