When it comes to BDSM, there are some people who simply use it as a means of spicing up a “traditional” relationship. A couple might indulge in a little hands-on impact play with their bare fists, such as Shae Flanigan enjoys, or some other version of “slap and tickle”. The rope bondage or growling commands […]
Sinclair Sexsmith explains several of the domestic protocols that can make everyday tasks a hot part of your dominant/submissive relationship. By combining sexual clothing, toys, or even actions with the chores around the house your domestic environment can become a foundational part of your D/s play. This text is available for purchase but you need […]
In part 2, M0co talks about the workspace and tools needed for rope making. These include the space for your “rope walk”, a twine feeding mechanism, and a power drill. He talks extensively about the ways to acquire or create these, including some “super secret” tips!
Scotty and Annie are getting hot and heavy with their series on dominant kissing. In this video Scotty both explains and demonstrates the technique of kissing along the borders and “interesting contours” of your partner’s body. He explains that this can show intent and dominance at the same time and Annie happily agrees.
Ivy Miller knows how hot and iconic stiletto heels can be for an outfit. She also knows that they aren’t always practical to actually wear. In this clip she talks briefly about the fact that you don’t have to walk a mile in them to enjoy the sexiness of “Fuck-Me” heels, and that it’s ok […]
Scotty and Annie finally bring it all home as they show where the previous clips from the series have been leading. First Scotty reviews how to use one hand to touch several effective points of sensual contact, and then they go in for the actual kiss in this hot and sexy clip.
In part two of “Finishing the Wrap” Shae finally takes care of the feet, carefully wrapping all the way to the tips of the toes with plastic wrap and duct tape.
M0co of m0cojute.com begins a series on how to hand-spin natural fiber ropes. In this segment he talks about the importance of picking the right twine and the different choices you have. He also discusses sources for twine and his own motivations for going into the rope-making business.
In part 2 of this series, JP and Gray go over some of the things aside from verbal questions that may need to be addressed such as a baseline body temperature and other conditions that may not be readily apparent. They also go back into the purpose of the rope scene, giving more tips for […]
In Part 2 Kitty continues to explain how to take simple ideas and turn them into entire kinky scenes. She talks about the power exchange possible with a little public exhibitionism or even aggressive oral sex. She also goes into how some effort put into your own appearance and your environment can help make a […]
My personal experiences with chivalry in submission have been exclusively with cis-male submissives, thus this article will deal primarily with FemDom/malesub D/s dynamics. This is not intended to exclude transfolk from using chivalry to enhance submission; any gender, in and beyond the gender binary, can use stereotypical feminine or masculine archetypes in D/s play as […]
Penny Barber completes her series on breast milk play during this five-minute video. She suggests various ways – from basic play to edge play – to incorporate lactation play into the bedroom. Penny also recommends safe and effective ways to care for your nipples after your play.
In this clip Ivy Miller and Graydancer talk about one of the more controversial pieces of clothing worn by dominant males in the scene: the kilt. Love it or hate it, they talk about why it has become so popular, the ways that it is “traditionally” worn, the different types available, and even what kind […]
Stefanos and Shay give the other side of the fine art of face-fucking in this clip. Shay describes how she modifies her grip to her preference while still enjoying the sloppy-blowjob feeling, and also shows how she adds sound and movement to heighten the sensation for both of them. Stefanos also chimes in to talk […]
As Poetic lays out her bootblacking supplies, she and Gray show how the boots, the rope and cigar can combine to create tiny moments of sensual interaction between them. Gray emphasizes that there’s no hurry to get things done – rather, this is a slow and sensation-rich environment to be savored. They also touch on […]