Danarama shows how the simple “doggy style” position can be “roughed up” into what he calls “the Kitty”. It’s a face-down ass-up position that offers many ways to enjoy the roughness of fucking in a safe and consensual way.
Now that Stormmy has explained several different techniques of flogging with the help of his slave Miranda, she speaks up to give her side of the equation. She gives some tips for making the flogging better by improving the “target areas” of the body, as well as some extra tips for nonverbal communication especially useful [...]
After a lot of negotiation and talking about the theory of sense dep play, Shae Flanigan finally starts the process in this clip. She demonstrates how to put someone into a neoprene zipper-and-lace body bag, including arm sleeves, tips on zipping, and even some playful tips to make it more fun for both top and [...]
In the first episode of this four-part series, Mollena Williams discusses the idea of hard and soft limits and when you might want to push them. It’s certainly useful to maintain your boundaries, of course, but sometimes that thing you fear is also what excites you, and that’s where Mollena thinks you need to give [...]
There’s an old joke in the BDSM community: “What’s the worst thing you’ll ever hear a dominant say?” “Oops!” Chuckles aside, there is a myth in the kink world of the “all-powerful” dominant, who is completely in control of the environment, their body, their bottom’s body, supremely aware of all the many factors involved in [...]
Stefano “BirdofPrey” LaForgia reveals some shibari secrets in these two clips – or, at least, some of his favorite tips for improving the speed of your tying and the flow of the rope through your hands. He gives very practical advice and demonstrates each one in multiple ways on Deanna, showing how the standard box [...]
Danarama begins an extensive tutorial on using a frame to create “spider-web” bondage with this clip. In it, he goes over the structural requirements for the frame (such as this one) as well as the reasons you might want to do this kind of bondage in the first place.
The Leather Yenta demonstrates the basic building block of cock and ball bondage by creating a cock ring with nothing more than paracord. She also talks a bit about how cock rings work and safety concerns to keep in mind when playing with this kind of CBT.
In part 2, Miss Simone goes over other implements of ass destruction from the kitchen. She uses several kinds of spatulas and explains how not only the material but also the shape can change the sensation it gives your bottom. Throughout she administers the discipline as well as talking about it, showing the enthusiasm that [...]
Many of the cues when enjoying the fantasy role play of male/female power exchange come nonverbally. As a dominant, your posture says a lot about your confidence and comfort in your position of power. In this clip Scotty starts by showing what not to do, and then gives some solid and practical body mechanics for [...]
World-class bondage performer & rope evangelist Murphy Blue begins a series on suspending multiple people with this thorough overview of the equipment he uses. He begins with the most important element – the rigger’s mind – and goes on to talk about frames, hard points, safety gear, additional hardware, and of course, rope. Murphy also [...]
In this clip Shay & Stefanos bring up some ways that you can improve your playing ability by learning to give and read nonverbal and verbal cues in a scene. By phrasing requests in a certain way, or using their body language to communicate both consent and pleasure, submissives can contribute to the dynamic of [...]
Lucky Albatross begins a series on service with this clip. There’s a lot of emphasis on service as a long-term situation, which can be intimidating to people hesitant to take on such a major task. Lucky proposes a smaller-scale integration of service into a “vacation” scenario, where you get all the fun of a real [...]
There’s more to putting in a ball gag than just grabbing one and opening wide. Miss Simone finishes up her notes on picking the right size ball gag in this clip, then goes on to discuss three main types of gags ranging from the very simple to the more complex. She shows examples of “chin-restraint” [...]
Dan and Dawn continue to explain why writing down the elements of a power exchange relationship can be beneficial. They talk about the courage required to honestly express your needs and wants and how that can lead to developing core principles that are the basis of a working relationship.