Unlike most vacations, traveling to a kink event can present some challenges unique to BDSM enthusiasts. You may be very nervous about the idea of TSA agents pawing through your things, and wonder if the wrong dildo in your carry-on might end up getting you put on a no-fly list. There is both good and [...]
Mollena talks about another aspect of smoother D/s relationships: dealing with conflicts. She explains how it is possible to work through issues even from within the D/s dynamic itself, keeping in mind that both sides are human beings first and their roles second.
If your kink involves rough body play – punching, kicking, or other kinds of “deep impact” – you can end up with some pretty impressive bruises. Shay and Stefanos break down what’s actually happening there with your body, including what are myths and what are legitimate concerns. Shay also recommends some treatment for bruising, but [...]
Sometimes language can be confusing, so in this clip Miss Simone takes the time to talk about what she considers to be the difference between cross-dressing, sissification, and feminization. Some of it is physical, some of it psychological, and it can all be fun – but knowing what kind of fun you’re looking for is an important [...]
In this segment of his series on Energetic Sex, Reid Mihalko goes into greater detail on the sanskrit-rooted vocabulary most commonly used to describe energetic sex. With a healthy dose of humor and skepticism, Reid will take you through terms such as “Kundalini,” or life energy (sometimes represented by a coiled snake asleep at the [...]
Mistress Servalan and her favorite zebra talk about the advantages a zentai suit can give you when playing the role of an animal. The zebra talks about how the suit is more than just personal fun; it helps him interact with the community in a more positive and friendly manner. Ms. Servalan also talks about [...]
The Leather Yenta continues to share her love of cock and ball bondage with a very simple technique to turn 6′ of paracord into a perfectly good cockring and ball stretcher. She also goes over safety considerations at the end, but in general simply shows how easy it is to incorporate rope into your sexy [...]
Miss Simone turns up the intensity on her ball kicking in this clip, putting her bottom in a submissive kneeling position. She demonstrates how to effectively and safely use both stiletto heels and stockinged feet to impact the balls, with a lot of verbal and non-verbal feedback from the lucky man under her feet.
Shay and Stefanos model an appropriate way to meet people at events, parties, and munches with a kink theme. They explain clearly how not to overstep boundaries while still letting the other person know whether or not you’re interested in play. Stefanos also talks about the useful skill of “peacocking” to help you meet people.
Lee Harrington demonstrates a hypnotic induction technique known as the “body induction,” where he directs his subject’s attention to relax specific areas one by one. This is the first clip in the three-part series including “the Balloon Test” and “Heightened Sensitivity” examples.
Goddess Helena continues her series on dolly play with her doll Nikki during this three-minute video. Helena introduces programs, limited only by your imagination, and provides concrete examples of behavior modification and experimentation. Stay tuned for more dolly play in upcoming clips.
Shyness is not only a factor of being around strange people – letting people you know that you’re kinky can be incredibly scary. Mollena talks about different strategies for letting those close to you know about your authentic desires without risking blowback. She also talks about how important it can be to make sure you [...]
Scotty and Annie continue to illustrate ways to include forceful fantasy into your foreplay. Building on the skills learned in the “clothing” segment, Scotty teaches techniques such as how to move your hips and arms to pull your partner’s body into you with a sensual “slam.”
Miss Simone covers some of the practical issues of playing with ball gags in this two-part clip. First she brings up some things to consider, such as the matter of marks left by straps as well as the necessity of some kind of “safe” signal. The mistress also covers the different types of straps and [...]
Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses [...]