In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race [...]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about [...]
Sinclair Sexsmith begins a series on the “little letter” side of the dominant/submissive relationship. They talk about different ways that can be appealing, as well as some of the conventions such as protocols that go into a relationship. This is all leading into the “why” – which Sinclair points out is to get turned on [...]
In this final video Shae does a quick overview of the many topics she covered in the previous videos. This includes punching, kicking, slapping, pain processing, check ins, safety, and much more. Shae ends the series with a testimonial as to why she and her bottom CJ enjoy this kind of play so much. It’s [...]
As fun as it is to suspend, what goes up must come down. Murphy explains how to take the models safely and quickly to the ground, giving examples of how to cooperate with each other and also how to deal with uncooperative ropes. At the end the three head off for “multi-person aftercare”, an exercise [...]
One of the most important parts of humiliation play is putting yourself together afterwards – both as a top and a bottom. In this clip Thrash goes over the many different parts of making sure you are prepared for the aftermath of your erotic humiliation scene and the care all the parties involved might need.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay [...]
This video is a departure from the lecture format of Shae’s previous clips. She goes into what is basically a scene with her bottom, demonstrating all the impact, ramping up, and other techniques. At the same time you see her check in with her bottom in various ways, from skin texture and temperature to noises. [...]
Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in [...]
Now that Ellen is up, it’s time for Murphy to rig the lines that take Annie up into the sky. He explains how this is a strategy to help her safely and comfortably get in the air. Murphy adjusts the ropes as needed, explaining what he’s doing every step of the way. He and both [...]
Moving on down the body, Shae gives examples of various ways to hit the quadriceps and groin area. She shows how the earlier “boxing nun” technique works well in both of these to both safely and severely impact the bottom. Shae also addresses safety issues but focuses mainly on the sensuality of the experience. This [...]
Lucky Albatross talks about the reasons why you might want to plan a “service vacation weekend” such as getting out of a familiar rut or just to enjoy a different dynamic between you and your partner. She also covers the reasons why you probably shouldn’t do a service weekend. It’s a lot of fun, but it’s [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
What if you’ve never been tied up before? How do you bring up the idea at all with your partner, and how do the both of you learn to get comfortable with the fantasy? In this clip Stefanos and Shay take it back to the beginning, explaining how communication and mutual exploration can help make [...]