There are many safety concerns when you’re playing with bondage, and some of them are particular for the tops. Where you tie someone, how you evaluate the risk of nerve damage, and the all-important “never leave a bottom alone!” are covered in this clip with good explanations of why. Shay also talks about the importance […]
Penny Barber continues her series on breast milk play during this seven-minute video. She shows specific ways to facilitate milking and describes the ways that breasts change as a result of lactation. In addition to many other practical tips, Penny also notes a few of the most helpful positions for both parties to enhance breast […]
In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race […]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about […]
Poetic Desires kicks off a series on “Sexy Bootblacking” with this clip. She talks about why she enjoys bootblacking, different motivations for this kind of leather care, and some of the legends of where this kind of play originated. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.
Sinclair Sexsmith begins a series on the “little letter” side of the dominant/submissive relationship. They talk about different ways that can be appealing, as well as some of the conventions such as protocols that go into a relationship. This is all leading into the “why” – which Sinclair points out is to get turned on […]
In this final video Shae does a quick overview of the many topics she covered in the previous videos. This includes punching, kicking, slapping, pain processing, check ins, safety, and much more. Shae ends the series with a testimonial as to why she and her bottom CJ enjoy this kind of play so much. It’s […]
As fun as it is to suspend, what goes up must come down. Murphy explains how to take the models safely and quickly to the ground, giving examples of how to cooperate with each other and also how to deal with uncooperative ropes. At the end the three head off for “multi-person aftercare”, an exercise […]
One of the most important parts of humiliation play is putting yourself together afterwards – both as a top and a bottom. In this clip Thrash goes over the many different parts of making sure you are prepared for the aftermath of your erotic humiliation scene and the care all the parties involved might need.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay […]
This video is a departure from the lecture format of Shae’s previous clips. She goes into what is basically a scene with her bottom, demonstrating all the impact, ramping up, and other techniques. At the same time you see her check in with her bottom in various ways, from skin texture and temperature to noises. […]
Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in […]
Now that Ellen is up, it’s time for Murphy to rig the lines that take Annie up into the sky. He explains how this is a strategy to help her safely and comfortably get in the air. Murphy adjusts the ropes as needed, explaining what he’s doing every step of the way. He and both […]