Now that the infrastructure is in place, Murphy begins the actual tying by showing a basic chest harness tied on his first bottom, Annie. He takes you step-by-step through this example of a box-tie style suspension harness, including going over options for using extra rope. Be sure to watch the other videos in the series [...]
In this clip Shay & Stefanos bring up some ways that you can improve your playing ability by learning to give and read nonverbal and verbal cues in a scene. By phrasing requests in a certain way, or using their body language to communicate both consent and pleasure, submissives can contribute to the dynamic of [...]
Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
Shay and Stefanos model an appropriate way to meet people at events, parties, and munches with a kink theme. They explain clearly how not to overstep boundaries while still letting the other person know whether or not you’re interested in play. Stefanos also talks about the useful skill of “peacocking” to help you meet people.
Mistress Servalan continues to talk about her passion for all things Zentai by exploring the idea of layers. With more than one suit you can create more of the sensation, more of the objectification, and even more of the bondage or restriction if that’s what you’re going for. Her bottom gives his perspective on what [...]
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Lucky Albatross knows that you can’t always be sure that your partner can provide the aftercare you need, so this clip explains how to bring your own necessities with you. She covers the gamut of the “carbs & cuddles” type of aftercare supplies and also warns about some of the things you might not want to do [...]
Lamalani, former International Ms Leather title holder and rope rigger, takes a moment to talk about her experience in the BDSM scene as a female top with Asian heritage. She addresses the stereotypes and assumptions and challenges everyone to move beyond them, in particular other kinky Asian females. Lamalani also tackles the somewhat taboo subject [...]
Gray and JP conclude their discussion about what it means when you separate the means by which you do rope bondage from the finished result. Challenging riggers to examine what their personal relationship with their art is, they end with some ideas of how to add more meaning to your bondage experience.
Panther ProwLs explains effective ways to clean and handle your canes during this three-minute video. He describes cleaning methods – and notes explicitly how to clean based on the type of cane (natural or synthetic material). Panther also offers a terrific tip when it comes to breaking your bottom’s skin with a natural fiber cane.