Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses [...]
JP Robichaud, a rope top for the popular Keyhole Sessions in Toronto, and Graydancer talk about the kinds of questions you ask before beginning a rope scene. These cover pragmatic aspects such as physical condition, but both Gray and JP stress the importance of connecting with the bottom as a person. More to come in [...]
In this short clip we hear from Deanna (“Cannonball”) as she gives an experienced perspective of what it’s like to be suspended like this. She talks about relative comfort and possibilities, and Stefano chimes in to cover a few more safety issues. They also agree that the pulley system worked wonderfully!
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
Since everyone’s aftercare needs are different and both tops and bottoms need aftercare, it follows that they may not always be able to provide aftercare for each other. Lucky Albatross presents a solution in this clip: using a different person who is better equipped and can be trusted to give the aftercare that is needed [...]
Murphy Blue demonstrates another hogtie on Diamond during this six-minute video. He explains how to create a hands-free hogtie version, notes its pros and cons, mentions variations (as shown in previous clips), and comments on comfort, intensity, mistakes, and more. Murphy continues his hogtie series in future videos.
Kitty Stryker discusses important considerations about sex and trauma during this five-minute video. She offers insights for both parties in a relationship: explaining triggers, noting responses and feelings, being aware of expectations, confirming consent, and identifying building blocks and resources for a healthier and freer sexual experience in relationships.
Ms. Cherries Jubalie discusses how to switch during this six-minute video. She considers switching from the perspective of both the top and the bottom and shares several examples illustrating how a top or bottom can explore the other side. In her next clip she discusses the pros and cons of self-identifying as a switch.
Penny Barber takes a long hard look at the realities of public humiliation play for Adult Baby enthusiasts. While the fantasy of playing in public is hot – especially in terms of humiliation – she cautions that it’s easy to end up trampling on the consent of non-players. She offers some clear guidelines for taking [...]
Eve Minax continues her series on prostate play with this nine-minute, part-three video. She expands the warm-up process with nipple and genital stimulation followed by the use of an additional implement to stretch Stray’s sphincter. Eve offers various insights on arousal, erection, stimulation, conditioning, training, and more; and stay tuned for heavier stimulation in her [...]