Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in [...]
Stormmy’s girls Nicole and Miranda talk about service opportunities for when you don’t live with your dominant – whether it’s across the block or across the globe. Aside from various special comfort items for visits, they also talk a lot about using technology for D/s play of various kinds as well as the ways personal [...]
Lucky Albatross talks about the reasons why you might want to plan a “service vacation weekend” such as getting out of a familiar rut or just to enjoy a different dynamic between you and your partner. She also covers the reasons why you probably shouldn’t do a service weekend. It’s a lot of fun, but it’s [...]
In the final clip in Lee Harrington’s series on hypnosis he brings up some elements of safety. Specifically he describes how some people may try unethical methods of hypnosis or triggers that have unusual side effects. Lee also goes over ways to protect yourself from these kinds of situations, from self-induced hypnotic triggers to simply [...]
What if you’ve never been tied up before? How do you bring up the idea at all with your partner, and how do the both of you learn to get comfortable with the fantasy? In this clip Stefanos and Shay take it back to the beginning, explaining how communication and mutual exploration can help make [...]
In part 2 Murphy goes over some more aspects of evaluating your hard point and frame. Then he brings in the “soft ingredients”: his two models. They discuss their physical condition as well as the psychological parts of the suspension to come. Finally Murphy cautions you that this is NOT meant to replace in-person rope [...]
Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses [...]
JP Robichaud, a rope top for the popular Keyhole Sessions in Toronto, and Graydancer talk about the kinds of questions you ask before beginning a rope scene. These cover pragmatic aspects such as physical condition, but both Gray and JP stress the importance of connecting with the bottom as a person. More to come in [...]
In this short clip we hear from Deanna (“Cannonball”) as she gives an experienced perspective of what it’s like to be suspended like this. She talks about relative comfort and possibilities, and Stefano chimes in to cover a few more safety issues. They also agree that the pulley system worked wonderfully!
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
Since everyone’s aftercare needs are different and both tops and bottoms need aftercare, it follows that they may not always be able to provide aftercare for each other. Lucky Albatross presents a solution in this clip: using a different person who is better equipped and can be trusted to give the aftercare that is needed [...]