In this clip Shay shows how simple items like panties and ties can be turned into very effective gags. She also talks about what not to use (Stefanos is not too fond of fuzzy scarves) and also covers safety issues.
Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in […]
Evöe Thorne and Harold Henry get into the deeper meaning of consent, especially when negotiating with a new partner. Aside from being essential, it can be a tricky thing to manage without alienating the other person. They show several techniques such as the “redirect” to illustrate how consent can be created and enjoyed as part […]
Scotty demonstrates the power of words spoken in the right tone with this clip. He talks about how a dominant voice is different than the typical “command” voice, since it’s not just compliance you’re looking for – it’s also arousal and fantasy. Annie also tells about how it feels to be spoken to in that […]
Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses […]
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Lucky Albatross says she isn’t any good at negotiation – at least, the kind that requires compromise. On the other hand, she’s a big believer in getting your needs met in aftercare and, in this clip, she explains how. She talks about how aftercare can look different for different people and the ways you may […]
Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by […]
Domina Alexandra Snow and Miss Kelle Martina continue their series on dominating women during this seven-minute, part-two video. They discuss some very concrete examples of what to do and what not to do to/with women. They offer a variety of tips on such things as focus, timing, pacing, sensations, confidence, respect, skills, and more. Stay […]
GrayDancer continues his Full Contact Dom series with more kicking and trampling during this six-minute, part-two video. He starts with some light tapping, trampling, and kicking of Ten, while she lies on her back. He then moves on to some pussy kicking. Gray comments on a host of related topics: safety, psychology, intensity, motivation, weight […]
Nayland continues his discussion on techniques of humiliation and similar play in this clip. Using several examples, he illustrates how it’s a combination of your partner’s fears and the social situations you put them in that make this kind of scene work. Nayland also explains how to find out what these fears are through conversations […]
Kitty Stryker continues her reflections on verbal consent during this six-minute video. She suggests creative and supportive ways to have important conversations about such topics as safer sex and past sexual experience. Kitty also recommends fun ways to share desires and fantasies. There’s even more fun and sexy tips in her upcoming clips.
Mollena covers what may be the most important part of figuring out your kink identity: why do you want this? Knowing what it is about BDSM that turns you on empowers you to fulfill those wants and needs and fulfill those of your partner. Mollena gives some ways to figure it out for yourself and […]