Apr 122014
Rope Negotiation: Advanced Questions, Part 1

In this first clip of a multi-part series, JP Robichaud (Ropenspace facilitator and rigger for the Keyhole Sessions in Toronto) and Graydancer talk about some of the finer points of negotiation, and how to work through common misunderstandings. This clip describes a technique developed by Jim Duvall (Seattle kink educator) for making sure all medical [...]

Apr 022014
Rope Negotiation: Knowing What You Need, Part 2

JP and Gray finish up their series on Rope Negotiation with some talk about aftercare, specifically for the top. They discuss the ways aftercare can appear to various people, and how to plan a scene so that you can come out of it energized rather than drained.

Mar 292014
Play Piercing: Gloves

While the previous clip talked about most of the supplies required for needleplay, gloves are important enough that they deserve special attention. In this short clip Shay explains various kinds of gloves both in terms of size and material, as well as going over best practices to keep things safe and also how to eroticize [...]

Mar 222014
Play Piercing: Setting Up

Gathering the supplies is one thing; how you lay them out before a scene can be the difference between smooth and hot play or dangerous fumbling. Stefanos and Shay show you their own method for laying out a play piercing set and explain why they like it that way. While your own preferences may be [...]

Mar 072014
Rope Negotiation: Knowing What You Need, Part 1

Graydancer and J.P. Robichaud move into the final segments of their rope negotiation series by talking about what the top needs. It’s rare that a rigger is asked “What do you want to get out of a scene?” but that is just as important as the bottom’s desires. They talk about ways to figure out [...]

Mar 062014
Different Service Motivations

Lucky Albatross talks about the different reasons people have for performing service in a play environment. She explains many examples including efficiency, acknowledgement, and even sexual satisfaction. Lucky also details how the different motivations can necessitate different modes of communication, and how exploring that can be a huge part of the fun of finding your [...]

Mar 012014
Play Piercing: Supplies

What do you need to have a play piercing scene that is both fun and safe? Stefanos and Shay show you what they prefer, go over some other options, and make sure you think things through from start to finish. Shay also covers a few techniques for avoiding cross-contamination and Stefanos explains why not everything [...]

Feb 272014
Diplomacy for D/s: for Submissives

In this clip Mollena gives a few specific tips for the subs in power exchange relationships. She talks about how important it is to not keep troubles and stresses bottled up – even when it’s scary to honestly communicate. Mollena describes a few scenarios for using tact and self-awareness to help improve the flow of [...]

Feb 152014
Unusual Fetish: Aftercare

Once you’ve worked through all the communication and prep and actually gotten to experience your unusual fetish, there’s one final part to take into consideration: aftercare. Wintersong goes over some of the ways that aftercare for this kind of scene might be different than for other kinds of scenes. Emotions, physical after-effects, and even things [...]

Feb 142014
Multi-Person Suspension Pt. 4: Including Everyone & 1st Waist Harness

Murphy continues to put Annie into her suspension harness, this time with the help of his other demo bottom. He mingles the solid rope instruction with a demonstration of how banter and horseplay can change some rather plain engineering into a fun connection between three kinksters.

Jan 182014
Sensory Deprivation: Communication

Before Shae puts her bottom in the “big burly hood”, it’s important that they establish a signal. This could be to show distress, to suggest an adjustment, or simply to let Shae know that something is up. She covers various ways this can work, as well as going over some other safety considerations in sense [...]





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