Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
What’s the best way to implement a new ritual or task into a D/s relationship? Sinclair Sexsmith breaks it down for you in this clip. The process involves a trial period, a check-in, and then more evaluation to make sure that the new protocol is nurturing the power exchange dynamic and also can be sustained. […]
In the final sexy boot blacking clip Poetic shows how she enjoys “worshiping” the leather with her hands, her mouth, and body. She also shows how this can become a part of a larger ritual of dominance and submission if that’s how your dynamic works. This text is available for purchase but you need to […]
One of the most silly myths of the kink world is the idea of the “natural” dominant. Sometimes this comes in the form of someone (usually a man) calling themselves an “Alpha”, sometimes it’s simply someone who read a novel and thinks that a new set of stilettoes, a riding crop, and an unpleasant disposition […]
Sinclair Sexsmith explains several of the domestic protocols that can make everyday tasks a hot part of your dominant/submissive relationship. By combining sexual clothing, toys, or even actions with the chores around the house your domestic environment can become a foundational part of your D/s play. This text is available for purchase but you need […]
Scotty and Annie are getting hot and heavy with their series on dominant kissing. In this video Scotty both explains and demonstrates the technique of kissing along the borders and “interesting contours” of your partner’s body. He explains that this can show intent and dominance at the same time and Annie happily agrees.
Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]
Stefanos and Shay demonstrate how a couple can incorporate the fantasy of control into good old fashioned fellatio. Stefanos talks about how he communicates with Shay as she’s sucking his cock, and she shows how even with a mouth full she can let him know where she’s at as well. This is a great primer […]
A vest is a common accessory for a dominant male at a play party. In this clip Gray shows two very different styles of vest (flashy and leather) and he and Ivy talk about the benefits of each. They also discuss body image, how to feature and distract from body parts, and what to wear […]
Can making the bed be sexy? Sinclair Sexsmith thinks so, especially within the realm of a power exchange relationship. Other household duties are talked about as well, with an emphasis on choosing and creating the protocols that work for you. Whether you have a hectic morning routine or a relaxed weekend, these ideas and suggestions […]
What should a well-dressed dominant male wear? Graydancer asks costume designer Ivy Miller for suggestions, starting with a large patterned shirt. They talk about how clothing can contribute to intimacy and hotness in a scene both in how it’s worn and in how it comes off, and Ivy also gives Gray some tips for dealing […]
Julian Wolf gives some basic techniques for pulling your partner’s hair in a way that is not destructive or annoying. Both short and long-hair techniques are discussed and demonstrated. Julian also gets feedback from the models as to how they enjoy it and emphasizes how communication is essential for this kind of kink.
Mistress Simone takes the time to talk about some of the assumptions and mistaken concepts about dominant women. She explains that this is not about past trauma, greed, or hate for her, but rather out of a desire for connection with her partners. It’s all about consent and pleasure for Miss Simone, and this is […]
In many clips showing various kinds of roughhousing Graydancer and other tops on Kink Academy will put their hands and arms around necks. This is not a haphazard process, and in this video Gray shows the safety considerations when putting someone in “choke” holds. The secret: they don’t actually choke at all! He and Poetic […]