Once you’ve taken everything under consideration into consideration, how to you go about making it happen and “closing the deal” with your chosen dominant? Mollena Williams helps you examine the difference between giving up everything and gaining everything you want, sometimes even when they’re happening at the same time! Consent, negotiation, self-identity, and awareness are all [...]
It’s not unheard of to check on the references of a dominant under consideration – in fact, Mollena argues, it’s a pretty good idea. She talks about what kinds of questions to ask, both of the dominant and of the people that they recommend. Failing that, there’s always the old fashioned idea of “dating” – [...]
Dan and Dawn continue their series on how to make a Master/slave relationship work with some lessons learned from classic personal development principles: Think it, say it, write it, do it! They talk about how important it is to take the time to identify your wants, needs, and desires, then figure out how they can [...]
Still not sure if you want to be part of the public kink community? Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, authors of “Playing Well with Others”, have a bunch of reasons why you should. From voyeurism to education to lifelong relationships, the kink community can enrich your own personal kink experience in more ways than you [...]
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Does submission mean never saying no? Can a Dominant say “yes” and still be dominant? These may seem like simple questions, but sometimes they throw people off in their power-exchange. Mollena Williams talks about the real meaning and power behind using these words, and gives some examples of clever ways to navigate around using them. [...]
Mollena Williams, International Ms Leather 2010, begins a series to help power exchange players communicate more effectively. She points out that regardless of your relationship dynamic, the start of communication needs to come from respect. She outlines how that looks from various perspectives to lay a foundation for future talks on the how of D/s diplomacy.
In the conclusion of this group discussion, Princess Kali, Mollena Williams, and Graydancer talk about the idea of a “safe space” for both the dominant and submissive partner. This provides a relationship environment where mistakes can be made, learned from, and used to make the relationship stronger. “This is real life, not porn!” Kali emphasizes, [...]
Domina Alexandra Snow and Miss Kelle Martina continue their series on dominating women during this four-minute, part-three video. Domina Snow demonstrates ways to manage your partner’s arousal by focusing on non-traditional erogenous zones. She also offers tips on body exploration, touch, hair, clothing, and more. Stay tuned for additional insights on basic domination in their [...]
In this extended and very hot video, Murphy Blue and Deanna explain how to use the “mapping” techniques from previous clips to create a rough-play scene. As they move together, Murphy explains how his choices affect the tenor of the whole scene, and at the end Deanna gives her own feedback on just how much she [...]