One of the hottest forms of control and sexual teasing is the idea of “edging”. Sinclair Sexsmith explains the various forms this play can take, from chastity to forced masturbation, and also talks about how it can completely energize and focus the libido for both partners.
Scotty and Annie continue their series on sensual masculine domination with a couple of clips with teeth! In part one Scotty shows the way that you can use your lips to give tiny nibbles along the skin for great sensation without leaving any marks. Then, to Annie’s delight, he increases the intensity and shows how […]
In this clip Ivy Miller and Graydancer talk about one of the more controversial pieces of clothing worn by dominant males in the scene: the kilt. Love it or hate it, they talk about why it has become so popular, the ways that it is “traditionally” worn, the different types available, and even what kind […]
A vest is a common accessory for a dominant male at a play party. In this clip Gray shows two very different styles of vest (flashy and leather) and he and Ivy talk about the benefits of each. They also discuss body image, how to feature and distract from body parts, and what to wear […]
What should a well-dressed dominant male wear? Graydancer asks costume designer Ivy Miller for suggestions, starting with a large patterned shirt. They talk about how clothing can contribute to intimacy and hotness in a scene both in how it’s worn and in how it comes off, and Ivy also gives Gray some tips for dealing […]
Mistress Simone takes the time to talk about some of the assumptions and mistaken concepts about dominant women. She explains that this is not about past trauma, greed, or hate for her, but rather out of a desire for connection with her partners. It’s all about consent and pleasure for Miss Simone, and this is […]
Here’s some great ideas for creating power exchange protocols that are “sexy for sexy’s sake”, according to Sinclair Sexsmith. They aren’t just for the dominant partners – Sinclair explains how even a single submissive could use these suggestions to make things hot. The suggestions are specific, graphic, and intensely sexual to get your D/s juices […]
Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that […]
In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness […]
Mistress Melissa loves to play with protocols and service. In this video, she starts by showing the various ways that she enjoys having a beverage – both hot and cold – presented to her. She discusses the elements that go into this kind of high protocol, both from the dominant and submissive perspective.
Sinclair Sexsmith begins a series on the “little letter” side of the dominant/submissive relationship. They talk about different ways that can be appealing, as well as some of the conventions such as protocols that go into a relationship. This is all leading into the “why” – which Sinclair points out is to get turned on […]
In the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about how to adapt the dominant body mechanics with the voluptuous Alex. He begins […]
The simplest tie, according to Shay & Stefanos, has no knots, ropes, ties, or any material at all. In this clip they talk about the power and fun of using your words to control your partner. It can be an intoxicating feeling of power and submission between you both, and the two of them demonstrate […]