What do you need to have a play piercing scene that is both fun and safe? Stefanos and Shay show you what they prefer, go over some other options, and make sure you think things through from start to finish. Shay also covers a few techniques for avoiding cross-contamination and Stefanos explains why not everything [...]
Now that you’ve seen the demonstration of negotiation, it’s important to remember that it’s only one example. In this clip Shay goes over the particular issues that you need to consider beyond the standard negotiation for a play scene. These include things like aftercare, dealing with blood, possible marks, and more. This is essential knowledge [...]
In part 2 Murphy goes over some more aspects of evaluating your hard point and frame. Then he brings in the “soft ingredients”: his two models. They discuss their physical condition as well as the psychological parts of the suspension to come. Finally Murphy cautions you that this is NOT meant to replace in-person rope [...]
Like most kinks, there’s an element of danger to sensory deprivation. Before “diving into the deep end” Shae Flanigan wants you to check on your equipment and make other preparations to minimize the risks. She goes over the play equipment, the safety measures to keep in mind, and even the preparation your bottom needs to [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
JP Robichaud, a rope top for the popular Keyhole Sessions in Toronto, and Graydancer talk about the kinds of questions you ask before beginning a rope scene. These cover pragmatic aspects such as physical condition, but both Gray and JP stress the importance of connecting with the bottom as a person. More to come in [...]
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Being healthy at kink conventions means more than just safe, sane, and consensual. The intimate contact can make you more vulnerable to colds and flu-like illnesses, and Lee has some specific ideas for maintaining your health at a con. He and Mollena also talk about “con-drop”, the depression that can hit after a particularly good [...]
Dr. Richard Sprott from CARAS begins a reflection on healthy and unhealthy sexual attitudes and behaviors during this four-minute video. He first shares various workable definitions of psychological well-being and then uses them to help start the examination of sexual attitudes and behaviors. Dr. Sprott shares more in his next video on sexual health.
Shanna Katz continues her series on sensation play – with vampire gloves – during this seven-minute video. She first describes vampire gloves and then discusses safety, cleanliness, and glove care. Shanna next demonstrates various ways to use the gloves for light sensation play all over your partner’s body. She explains how to incorporate heavier, impact [...]
QTip covers a subject rarely talked about: safer sex practices for strap-on play. The discussion goes beyond condoms and covers things like appropriate lube, sizes, and the fact that a wider variety of condom materials are available for strap-on play. Eden chimes in with some thoughts on why gloves can be both safer and sexier, and [...]
Liliane Hunt continues her series on fully immersive pup training during this six-minute video. She demonstrates grooming techniques to develop connection with your pup and as well as effective correction techniques to ensure an obedient pup. Liliane also highlights important safety considerations from hard limits to the health and well-being of your pet. In her [...]
Murphy Blue delves deeper into the strategy of a rope scene in this clip. He describes how awareness of the bottom’s current state of mind, as well as an understanding of their past experience with bondage, can help you plan the way to make a scene go the way you intend. Murphy demonstrates this with [...]
Reid Mihalko discusses receptive sex for men during this four-minute video. He shares some of his personal story to encourage healthy, empowered, and safe sexual exploration. Reid comments on likes/dislikes, pleasure, fun, masculinity, and how such things are related to sexual identity and orientation.