Sinclair Sexsmith begins a series on the “little letter” side of the dominant/submissive relationship. They talk about different ways that can be appealing, as well as some of the conventions such as protocols that go into a relationship. This is all leading into the “why” – which Sinclair points out is to get turned on [...]
One of the more specific and fun techniques in play piercing is a crossed-needle spot on the body. When pressed the sensation can be very intense. These “endorphin buttons” are a favorite of needle play enthusiasts, and in this clip Stefanos, Shay, and Jade show just how to create and play with them.
In a previous clip Wintersong talked about various questions for a partner to ask a potential playmate with a disability. But what should the person with the disability be prepared to discuss? This clip covers how to address some of the specifics as well as how to interpret the answers that you might get.
One of the most important parts of humiliation play is putting yourself together afterwards – both as a top and a bottom. In this clip Thrash goes over the many different parts of making sure you are prepared for the aftermath of your erotic humiliation scene and the care all the parties involved might need.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay [...]
Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in [...]
Before you begin a humiliation scene, Thrash has some suggestions for you to keep in mind. The first of these is remembering that this is “edge play”, and it takes a lot of honesty and care to make it both a hot scene and also a safe one. He goes over several factors to work [...]
Thrash talks in this clip about some simple ways for humiliation play to happen. He identifies the differences in public vs. private play, and also in the ways that different people may or may not find certain acts humiliating. He also explains some techniques for figuring out just how to get the right balance between [...]
JP and Gray tackle one of the stickiest parts of rope negotiation in this clip: sex. What exactly defines sexual contact? How do you deal with unexpected sexual energy in a scene? Drawing from their personal experiences, these two rope tops continue their discussion of the knotty questions of rope scenes.
Kitty Stryker has already talked extensively about how not to talk to your partner about kink. But how about some positive suggestions? This long clip tells you many ways to express your fantasies and curiosity to your partner, both in theoretical and concrete terms. Between the two clips your communication skills for kink can really [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.