While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
What’s the best way to implement a new ritual or task into a D/s relationship? Sinclair Sexsmith breaks it down for you in this clip. The process involves a trial period, a check-in, and then more evaluation to make sure that the new protocol is nurturing the power exchange dynamic and also can be sustained. […]
Now that they have all the pieces in place, Gray and Poetic stop talking to the camera and show just how this kind of scene might play out. With some dirty talk and some orgasm control added into the mix, you get to see Poetic come to the climax of the scene in a beautiful […]
“Sometimes the point is to interrupt her,” Graydancer explains in this clip. While Poetic is trying to finish off his boot with the bootblack’s favorite Hubbard’s Leather Conditioner, he is distracting her with cigar, rope, rough body play, and some good old-fashioned face-fucking as they get closer to finishing their scene.
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]
In part 2 of this series, JP and Gray go over some of the things aside from verbal questions that may need to be addressed such as a baseline body temperature and other conditions that may not be readily apparent. They also go back into the purpose of the rope scene, giving more tips for […]
As Poetic lays out her bootblacking supplies, she and Gray show how the boots, the rope and cigar can combine to create tiny moments of sensual interaction between them. Gray emphasizes that there’s no hurry to get things done – rather, this is a slow and sensation-rich environment to be savored. They also touch on […]
The next part of this scene between Gray and Poetic involves cigar service. While there is a whole series on cigar play elsewhere on Kink Academy, this is a quick and easy primer on the way these two like to play with each other through the simple act of lighting a cigar with elements of […]
The particular style of karada (“body”) harness that Gray ties on Poetic is specifically designed to both stimulate her pussy as well as be dynamic. That means there are only two actual knots to fasten the rope – the rest of the harness moves and tightens with every movement. Gray shows how it works (with […]
Roughinamorato’s demo model Ay speaks up in this clip. She talks about how much she enjoys this kind of punching, slapping, and kicking play, but stresses that it is not for everyone. She has a particular affinity for playing like this, but is also very choosy about who she does it with due to the […]