Aug 192015
 
Personal Responsibility and Consent in the Kink Community

While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: […]

Apr 192015
 
Power Beyond Sex: Negotiating D/s Outside the Bedroom

It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]

Apr 072015
 
What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? - Part 2

Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.

Apr 062015
 
What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? - Part 1

Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]

Feb 132015
 
How to Start a New Protocol

What’s the best way to implement a new ritual or task into a D/s relationship? Sinclair Sexsmith breaks it down for you in this clip. The process involves a trial period, a check-in, and then more evaluation to make sure that the new protocol is nurturing the power exchange dynamic and also can be sustained. […]

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Feb 122015
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 9: Ending the Scene

Aftercare! How do you come out of a multi-scene? Poetic and Gray show how the action doesn’t have to stop just because you’re taking off the ropes. They show how to be safe (there’s still a lit cigar) and also connected as you bring the scene to a close.

Feb 022015
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 8: Bringing It All Together

Now that they have all the pieces in place, Gray and Poetic stop talking to the camera and show just how this kind of scene might play out. With some dirty talk and some orgasm control added into the mix, you get to see Poetic come to the climax of the scene in a beautiful […]

Jan 172015
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 7: Finishing the Boot

“Sometimes the point is to interrupt her,” Graydancer explains in this clip. While Poetic is trying to finish off his boot with the bootblack’s favorite Hubbard’s Leather Conditioner, he is distracting her with cigar, rope, rough body play, and some good old-fashioned face-fucking as they get closer to finishing their scene.

Dec 262014
 
Do Straight Guys Like Anal Sex?

Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.

Dec 152014
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 6: Bootblack Play

There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]

Nov 262014
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 5: Rope, Boots, & Cigar

As Poetic lays out her bootblacking supplies, she and Gray show how the boots, the rope and cigar can combine to create tiny moments of sensual interaction between them. Gray emphasizes that there’s no hurry to get things done – rather, this is a slow and sensation-rich environment to be savored. They also touch on […]

Nov 132014
 
The Multi-Scene, Part 4: Cigar Play

The next part of this scene between Gray and Poetic involves cigar service. While there is a whole series on cigar play elsewhere on Kink Academy, this is a quick and easy primer on the way these two like to play with each other through the simple act of lighting a cigar with elements of […]

Oct 312014
 
the Multi-Scene Part 3: Finishing the Karada

The particular style of karada (“body”) harness that Gray ties on Poetic is specifically designed to both stimulate her pussy as well as be dynamic. That means there are only two actual knots to fasten the rope – the rest of the harness moves and tightens with every movement. Gray shows how it works (with […]

Oct 302014
 
Rough Body Play: From the Other Side

Roughinamorato’s demo model Ay speaks up in this clip. She talks about how much she enjoys this kind of punching, slapping, and kicking play, but stresses that it is not for everyone. She has a particular affinity for playing like this, but is also very choosy about who she does it with due to the […]

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