Stefanos and Shay use Jade’s lovely body to show some of the “best” places to pierce – both in terms of safety and in terms of sensation. They explain why some areas are easier than others, and how to avoid things like nerve clusters or blood vessels.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
In this first clip of a multi-part series, JP Robichaud (Ropenspace facilitator and rigger for the Keyhole Sessions in Toronto) and Graydancer talk about some of the finer points of negotiation, and how to work through common misunderstandings. This clip describes a technique developed by Jim Duvall (Seattle kink educator) for making sure all medical [...]
In part 2, Mollena goes over some of the issues that can come up when you are working within a consensual nonconsent framework, and how to deal with them. One of the biggest is figuring out how to end a scene and deal with the many emotions that may be left over. Having a framework [...]
While it may sound like an oxymoron at first, “consensual nonconsent” is actually a way for people to create a safe space to explore edgy areas of play and their own psyche. Mollena lays out what the attraction is, what the dangers are, and starts to explain how to set up your own scenes in [...]
While the previous clip talked about most of the supplies required for needleplay, gloves are important enough that they deserve special attention. In this short clip Shay explains various kinds of gloves both in terms of size and material, as well as going over best practices to keep things safe and also how to eroticize [...]
There’s more to putting in a ball gag than just grabbing one and opening wide. Miss Simone explains the process from initial selection through the final buckle in this series. Part one is all about what kind of ball gag is right for your submissive, taking their experience, gender, and other factors into consideration.
Selina Minx explains how the way you choose to negotiate can change the way that your wants and needs are fulfilled. She recommends a combination of specific details combined with general wishes, so that you can be sure to both maintain boundaries and also get the chance to use your imagination and spontaneity.
Gathering the supplies is one thing; how you lay them out before a scene can be the difference between smooth and hot play or dangerous fumbling. Stefanos and Shay show you their own method for laying out a play piercing set and explain why they like it that way. While your own preferences may be [...]
Graydancer and J.P. Robichaud move into the final segments of their rope negotiation series by talking about what the top needs. It’s rare that a rigger is asked “What do you want to get out of a scene?” but that is just as important as the bottom’s desires. They talk about ways to figure out [...]
What do you need to have a play piercing scene that is both fun and safe? Stefanos and Shay show you what they prefer, go over some other options, and make sure you think things through from start to finish. Shay also covers a few techniques for avoiding cross-contamination and Stefanos explains why not everything [...]
Selina Minx realizes that in the heat of the moment it can be hard to express your boundaries or limits. Sometimes it’s desire, sometimes it’s embarrassment, sometimes it’s just momentum. Her solution is: rehearsal! Practice in front of the mirror, in the car, wherever you can, saying all the phrases that seem a little awkward. [...]
Now that you’ve seen the demonstration of negotiation, it’s important to remember that it’s only one example. In this clip Shay goes over the particular issues that you need to consider beyond the standard negotiation for a play scene. These include things like aftercare, dealing with blood, possible marks, and more. This is essential knowledge [...]