Penny Barber completes her series on breast milk play during this five-minute video. She suggests various ways – from basic play to edge play – to incorporate lactation play into the bedroom. Penny also recommends safe and effective ways to care for your nipples after your play.
In Part 1, Sam, Shae’s bottom for this series, talks about how the different stages of the Sensory-Deprivation-on-a-Budget felt. It was the first time she’d been this intensely cut off from the world, and she talks frankly about it felt both physically and psychologically. With Princess Kali asking questions as well, the three enjoy the […]
The next step in the full sensory deprivation scene using inexpensive materials is to finish off the head wrap with duct tape and insert and secure the breathing tube. Shae shows exactly how to do this, spending a lot of time talking about selecting exactly the right tube for your bottom. Again, this kind of […]
In the demo scene Roughinamorato moved Ay’s body in ways that both made her more vulnerable to what he did but also kept her safe from accidents. In this clip Rough explains some of the body mechanics and techniques that allowed him to do this kind of play.It includes using the hair (when available), the […]
In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race […]
Mollena tackles the tricky subject of finding the right partner for your race play fantasies. She talks about the process of dialogue and broaching the subject, as well as what she considers warning signs. Mollena also explains why mutual respect and trust can be even more essential for this kind of play.
Julian Wolf continues to describe the wonders of the lower limbs in your kinky play by showing off the ankles and toes. These are more delicate than shins, and as lovely as Savannah’s are it’s more important to notice where you need to avoid heavy impact. Julian offers many things that you can do, however, […]
What happens when things go wrong in a race play scene? Mollena uses a very personal and vivid account of her own experience to show how things can go awry and how she used it as a means of self-knowledge and growth. She covers several aspects, including the idea of aftercare, and how the hard […]
Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a […]
There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it […]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about […]
Roughinamorato of Chicago’s “Rough Crowd” shows the essential elements of this kind of hot and surprisingly intimate play. He goes over the anatomy of both the face and the hand, talking about where to hit and with what in order to keep the slap sexy and not damaging. He also goes over how to support […]
Now that she’s laid out the parameters of race play, Mollena Williams wants to talk to you about negotiating this type of scene. First and foremost, she says, the negotiation has to be with yourself, before you ever get in touch with a potential partner. She explains how to go about developing that kind of […]