Apr 192015
Power Beyond Sex: Negotiating D/s Outside the Bedroom

It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]

Feb 142015
Sexy Sensations: Blindfolds

Want an instant way to increase your lover’s sensitivity and awareness? Scotty has the answer in this clip. He and Annie explain just what a simple blindfold can add to your sexy sensations. Annie gives a firsthand and frank account of what it feels like, and Scotty offers several suggestions for various kinds of blindfolds […]

Jan 082015
Mommy Play: Introduction

In this short clip Goddess Helena describes the kinds of role-play she and her partner are going to demonstrate. These include the ideas of dress-up, masturbation, role-reversal, and others in an adult power-exchange context

Nov 082014
Breast Milk Play: Lactating, Positions, Changes in Your Body

Penny Barber continues her series on breast milk play during this seven-minute video. She shows specific ways to facilitate milking and describes the ways that breasts change as a result of lactation. In addition to many other practical tips, Penny also notes a few of the most helpful positions for both parties to enhance breast […]

Oct 162014
Sexy Protocols

Here’s some great ideas for creating power exchange protocols that are “sexy for sexy’s sake”, according to Sinclair Sexsmith. They aren’t just for the dominant partners – Sinclair explains how even a single submissive could use these suggestions to make things hot. The suggestions are specific, graphic, and intensely sexual to get your D/s juices […]

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Aug 292014
The Feminist Connection within Power Exchange

Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear […]

Aug 082014
Creating Protocols that Work for You

Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that […]

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Jul 102014
Levels of Protocol

Stefanos and Shay share in this clip how they handle their power exchange relationship in various environments. This includes both “toning it down” in public and also ramping it up in private, with subtle cues for each other to communicate the desire for a stronger sense of protocol wherever they are.

Feb 272014
Diplomacy for D/s: for Submissives

In this clip Mollena gives a few specific tips for the subs in power exchange relationships. She talks about how important it is to not keep troubles and stresses bottled up – even when it’s scary to honestly communicate. Mollena describes a few scenarios for using tact and self-awareness to help improve the flow of […]

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Dec 162013
Ways Submissives Can Help Guide a Scene

In this clip Shay & Stefanos bring up some ways that you can improve your playing ability by learning to give and read nonverbal and verbal cues in a scene. By phrasing requests in a certain way, or using their body language to communicate both consent and pleasure, submissives can contribute to the dynamic of […]

Dec 122013
Foundations of M/s Relationships: Write it Down, Part 2

Dan and Dawn continue to explain why writing down the elements of a power exchange relationship can be beneficial. They talk about the courage required to honestly express your needs and wants and how that can lead to developing core principles that are the basis of a working relationship.

Nov 282013
Assertive Negotiation Tips for Submissives

Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear […]