What if you’ve never been tied up before? How do you bring up the idea at all with your partner, and how do the both of you learn to get comfortable with the fantasy? In this clip Stefanos and Shay take it back to the beginning, explaining how communication and mutual exploration can help make [...]
In this clip Mollena gives a few specific tips for the subs in power exchange relationships. She talks about how important it is to not keep troubles and stresses bottled up – even when it’s scary to honestly communicate. Mollena describes a few scenarios for using tact and self-awareness to help improve the flow of [...]
Dan and Dawn Williams finish off their series on M/s relationships with the simple advice: Do It! Live the life you fantasize about! They also offer more practical advice on how to maintain it, such as where to find support in the form of peers, mentors, and role models. Dan emphasizes again how ritual can [...]
In this clip Shay & Stefanos bring up some ways that you can improve your playing ability by learning to give and read nonverbal and verbal cues in a scene. By phrasing requests in a certain way, or using their body language to communicate both consent and pleasure, submissives can contribute to the dynamic of [...]
Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear [...]
Scotty and Annie talk about role-playing the fantasy of “consensual nonconsent” in this clip, focusing on the most important tool for that kind of play: the safeword. That is a word used to let the other person know either that things are not ok, that they are ok, or both. Whether it’s some strange word [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
Dan and Dawn continue their series on how to make a Master/slave relationship work with some lessons learned from classic personal development principles: Think it, say it, write it, do it! They talk about how important it is to take the time to identify your wants, needs, and desires, then figure out how they can [...]
Mollena has some specific advice about tact and feedback for the big-letter types in D/s relationships. While she acknowledges that they have the ability and consent from the submissive to be as cruel as they like, she suggests that a little positive reinforcement and personal acknowledgement can go a long way towards sustaining and nourishing [...]
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Does submission mean never saying no? Can a Dominant say “yes” and still be dominant? These may seem like simple questions, but sometimes they throw people off in their power-exchange. Mollena Williams talks about the real meaning and power behind using these words, and gives some examples of clever ways to navigate around using them. [...]
Mollena Williams, International Ms Leather 2010, begins a series to help power exchange players communicate more effectively. She points out that regardless of your relationship dynamic, the start of communication needs to come from respect. She outlines how that looks from various perspectives to lay a foundation for future talks on the how of D/s diplomacy.