Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear [...]
Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a [...]
There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
Dan & Dawn Williams introduce the foundations of Master/slave (M/s) relationships during this four-minute video. Among other things, they define key terms, underscore consent, and discuss gender, personality, and decision-making. Dan & Dawn share their insights on many aspects of M/s relationships during their upcoming clips.
Lamalani, former International Ms Leather title holder and rope rigger, takes a moment to talk about her experience in the BDSM scene as a female top with Asian heritage. She addresses the stereotypes and assumptions and challenges everyone to move beyond them, in particular other kinky Asian females. Lamalani also tackles the somewhat taboo subject [...]
Dr. Richard Sprott from CARAS begins a reflection on healthy and unhealthy sexual attitudes and behaviors during this four-minute video. He first shares various workable definitions of psychological well-being and then uses them to help start the examination of sexual attitudes and behaviors. Dr. Sprott shares more in his next video on sexual health.
Mistrix puts her bottom through his paces in this long clip showing the preparation and implementation of a TENS unit and some hand-clamps in a consensual interrogation scene. Along the way she describes both the practical matter like placing the electrodes as well as fun ways to integrate this kind of psychological play into your [...]
Domina Alexandra Snow and Miss Kelle Martina continue their series on dominating women during this seven-minute, part-two video. They discuss some very concrete examples of what to do and what not to do to/with women. They offer a variety of tips on such things as focus, timing, pacing, sensations, confidence, respect, skills, and more. Stay [...]
GrayDancer continues his Full Contact Dom series with more kicking and trampling during this six-minute, part-two video. He starts with some light tapping, trampling, and kicking of Ten, while she lies on her back. He then moves on to some pussy kicking. Gray comments on a host of related topics: safety, psychology, intensity, motivation, weight [...]