In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness [...]
In the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about how to adapt the dominant body mechanics with the voluptuous Alex. He begins [...]
The simplest tie, according to Shay & Stefanos, has no knots, ropes, ties, or any material at all. In this clip they talk about the power and fun of using your words to control your partner. It can be an intoxicating feeling of power and submission between you both, and the two of them demonstrate [...]
Goddess Helena gives an example of a dolly play scenario using a violet wand. She “fixes” dolly’s joints using the sex toy, talking about how she can install other “programs” to make the process more fun for both of them. Afterwards, they both talk about the practical and mental aspects of the short role-play and [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand [...]
Mollena William talks about how setting up an online persona can help you overcome your shyness towards the kink community. You have control of your persona as well as how much you interact with the people online, and that can be an effective way to deal with social anxiety. She also recommends having a buddy [...]
Once you’ve worked out what your unusual fetish is, and perhaps even made it through the conversation with your partner, there’s still the chance that the “unusual” part of it makes it hard to experience. This may be for a variety of reasons from the legal to the physical to the emotional. Wintersong talks about [...]
Scotty demonstrates the power of words spoken in the right tone with this clip. He talks about how a dominant voice is different than the typical “command” voice, since it’s not just compliance you’re looking for – it’s also arousal and fantasy. Annie also tells about how it feels to be spoken to in that [...]
Many of the cues when enjoying the fantasy role play of male/female power exchange come nonverbally. As a dominant, your posture says a lot about your confidence and comfort in your position of power. In this clip Scotty starts by showing what not to do, and then gives some solid and practical body mechanics for [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
Still not sure if you want to be part of the public kink community? Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams, authors of “Playing Well with Others”, have a bunch of reasons why you should. From voyeurism to education to lifelong relationships, the kink community can enrich your own personal kink experience in more ways than you [...]
Stefanos and Shay love to play rough, and sometimes that means verbally as well. But when two consenting adults agree that “no doesn’t mean no anymore”, how can you let your partner know that things need to slow down or stop? They show several strategies, from classic safewords like “red” to more creative methods like [...]