Now that the body’s in the bag, the collar is secure and the hood is all laced, Shae relaxes with her partner and talks about the final considerations as the sensory deprivation scene goes on. There are a few safety concerns worth repeating, but for the most part she simply talks about how the scene [...]
Miss Simone covers the other side of handcuff play – putting the hands in front for whatever purpose you’d like to put them to. There are many of the same safety issues as when they are in back, but Simone also covers issues particular to having the locks – and especially the keyholes – in [...]
Once you’ve worked out what your unusual fetish is, and perhaps even made it through the conversation with your partner, there’s still the chance that the “unusual” part of it makes it hard to experience. This may be for a variety of reasons from the legal to the physical to the emotional. Wintersong talks about [...]
Before Shae puts her bottom in the “big burly hood”, it’s important that they establish a signal. This could be to show distress, to suggest an adjustment, or simply to let Shae know that something is up. She covers various ways this can work, as well as going over some other safety considerations in sense [...]
Now that Wintersong has covered the theoretical parts of “unusual fetishes”, he gets into the practicality of creating a solo scene for yourself. He brings up the not-so-obvious point that by being unusual, your fetish may not be as clear on things like safety and process. Using personal experience as well as some application of [...]
Danarama goes into the essential safety factors when creating a web rope bondage experience. Some of the usual rope concerns apply, such as not leaving your bottom unattended and having cutting implements handy. However, Dan goes over some differences as well, such as the need to work from the bottom up when tying, as well [...]
In part 2 Murphy goes over some more aspects of evaluating your hard point and frame. Then he brings in the “soft ingredients”: his two models. They discuss their physical condition as well as the psychological parts of the suspension to come. Finally Murphy cautions you that this is NOT meant to replace in-person rope [...]
World-class bondage performer & rope evangelist Murphy Blue begins a series on suspending multiple people with this thorough overview of the equipment he uses. He begins with the most important element – the rigger’s mind – and goes on to talk about frames, hard points, safety gear, additional hardware, and of course, rope. Murphy also [...]
Stefanos and Shay pack this super-size clip with tips that can help a submissive (and by extension, the dominant) ask the right questions and set the right limits during negotiation to have a fantastic scene. They discuss common strategies that work and common mistakes that don’t, and as a special treat you get to hear [...]
Like most kinks, there’s an element of danger to sensory deprivation. Before “diving into the deep end” Shae Flanigan wants you to check on your equipment and make other preparations to minimize the risks. She goes over the play equipment, the safety measures to keep in mind, and even the preparation your bottom needs to [...]
Penny Barber introduces lactation play during this eight-minute video. She notes the various motivations for breast milk play, observes the consistency and taste of breast milk, highlights important safety concerns for such play, and then describes ways to induce lactation. Penny continues her series on breast milk play in some upcoming clips.
Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to react to affirmative and negative responses [...]
Panther ProwLs explains effective ways to clean and handle your canes during this three-minute video. He describes cleaning methods – and notes explicitly how to clean based on the type of cane (natural or synthetic material). Panther also offers a terrific tip when it comes to breaking your bottom’s skin with a natural fiber cane.