In many clips showing various kinds of roughhousing Graydancer and other tops on Kink Academy will put their hands and arms around necks. This is not a haphazard process, and in this video Gray shows the safety considerations when putting someone in “choke” holds. The secret: they don’t actually choke at all! He and Poetic [...]
What happens when things go wrong in a race play scene? Mollena uses a very personal and vivid account of her own experience to show how things can go awry and how she used it as a means of self-knowledge and growth. She covers several aspects, including the idea of aftercare, and how the hard [...]
In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness [...]
In the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about how to adapt the dominant body mechanics with the voluptuous Alex. He begins [...]
One of the most important parts of humiliation play is putting yourself together afterwards – both as a top and a bottom. In this clip Thrash goes over the many different parts of making sure you are prepared for the aftermath of your erotic humiliation scene and the care all the parties involved might need.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay [...]
Before you begin a humiliation scene, Thrash has some suggestions for you to keep in mind. The first of these is remembering that this is “edge play”, and it takes a lot of honesty and care to make it both a hot scene and also a safe one. He goes over several factors to work [...]
In part 8 Murphy finally takes one of his bottoms off the ground! This comprehensive clip covers both how to rig the “up-lines” as well as the process of turning the harness into a supportive frame for Ellen. Murphy also continues to keep both bottoms engaged as he works to create both a safe and [...]
Thrash talks in this clip about some simple ways for humiliation play to happen. He identifies the differences in public vs. private play, and also in the ways that different people may or may not find certain acts humiliating. He also explains some techniques for figuring out just how to get the right balance between [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Thrash talks about one of the most important aspects of humiliation play: a thorough knowledge of your partner. It’s not only necessary so that you know what areas not to play around in; it’s also the best way to know exactly what areas will lead to the hottest play. It takes time, though, and a [...]
The next steps in Murphy’s multi-person suspension series are to connect his first bottom’s harness to the frame with a hitch and then begin the chest harness on the second. He takes you step-by-step through the creation of a different harness, including some detailed explanations of why the principles of the harness work. Throughout the [...]
Now that the body’s in the bag, the collar is secure and the hood is all laced, Shae relaxes with her partner and talks about the final considerations as the sensory deprivation scene goes on. There are a few safety concerns worth repeating, but for the most part she simply talks about how the scene [...]