Knowing how to tie someone up is great, Stephanos and Shay assure in this clip, but knowing why can be far more important. They talk about planning your ties and having a clear intention before the play starts. What are you hoping to do, or have your partner do, after they’re tied? Should you consider [...]
In a previous clip Wintersong talked about various questions for a partner to ask a potential playmate with a disability. But what should the person with the disability be prepared to discuss? This clip covers how to address some of the specifics as well as how to interpret the answers that you might get.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay [...]
Evoë Thorne and Harold Henry start talking about the essential subject of consent in this video. Starting with a demonstration of consent in action, they talk about the ways communication and respect can make things even more hot and intense between lovers. They give a personal testimonial of how consent can not only be sexy, but [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Harold Henry reveals the secret of getting laid in this clip…and it turns out not to be very complicated. Clear and honest communication, he says, are key and being the kind of pushy predator that the mainstream media promotes won’t get you anywhere. He stresses several other qualities that can be developed and increase the [...]
Evöe Thorne and Harold Henry get into the deeper meaning of consent, especially when negotiating with a new partner. Aside from being essential, it can be a tricky thing to manage without alienating the other person. They show several techniques such as the “redirect” to illustrate how consent can be created and enjoyed as part [...]
Selina Minx realizes that in the heat of the moment it can be hard to express your boundaries or limits. Sometimes it’s desire, sometimes it’s embarrassment, sometimes it’s just momentum. Her solution is: rehearsal! Practice in front of the mirror, in the car, wherever you can, saying all the phrases that seem a little awkward. [...]
One of the many forms of communication Kitty Stryker teaches is the way to broach the subject of kink with your partner. In this clip she talks about some of the mistakes and missteps people make when they first start to bring up the subject of their less-traditional fantasies. Avoid them, and you can be [...]
If your kink involves rough body play – punching, kicking, or other kinds of “deep impact” – you can end up with some pretty impressive bruises. Shay and Stefanos break down what’s actually happening there with your body, including what are myths and what are legitimate concerns. Shay also recommends some treatment for bruising, but [...]
In this segment of his series on Energetic Sex, Reid Mihalko goes into greater detail on the sanskrit-rooted vocabulary most commonly used to describe energetic sex. With a healthy dose of humor and skepticism, Reid will take you through terms such as “Kundalini,” or life energy (sometimes represented by a coiled snake asleep at the [...]
In this short clip we hear from Deanna (“Cannonball”) as she gives an experienced perspective of what it’s like to be suspended like this. She talks about relative comfort and possibilities, and Stefano chimes in to cover a few more safety issues. They also agree that the pulley system worked wonderfully!
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
Mollena Williams continues to give ideas for finding the right Yang to your Yin with this clip. She talks about the importance of knowing what you want and then screening the people you are considering relationships with, almost as if you were hiring them for a job. Background checks, observation, and gut instinct are all [...]