Do you think strap-ons are only for women? Not so, says Stefanos in this clip, with the enthusiastic support of Shay. He explains how he got introduced quite wonderfully to the idea, and the many reasons why other partners might want to use a strap-on. Shay chimes in with even more ideas, such as safer […]
“Sometimes the point is to interrupt her,” Graydancer explains in this clip. While Poetic is trying to finish off his boot with the bootblack’s favorite Hubbard’s Leather Conditioner, he is distracting her with cigar, rope, rough body play, and some good old-fashioned face-fucking as they get closer to finishing their scene.
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]
Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]
In this clip, Dr. Charlie Glickman explains that the pleasures of using a strap-on dildo for prostate play has more benefits than simply pleasure. He has found that men and women tend to get a new appreciation and greater empathy for the other side of penetrative sex and this can lead to many more ways […]
Here’s some great ideas for creating power exchange protocols that are “sexy for sexy’s sake”, according to Sinclair Sexsmith. They aren’t just for the dominant partners – Sinclair explains how even a single submissive could use these suggestions to make things hot. The suggestions are specific, graphic, and intensely sexual to get your D/s juices […]
In this clip Wintersong talks about finding the positive aspects of playing with a disability. While the focus is on the more kinky aspects of sexuality, it’s easy to extrapolate to the simple act of sex. For example, a person with fibromyalgia was able to enjoy the heightened sensitivity, and another with an artificial limb […]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about […]
Knowing how to tie someone up is great, Stephanos and Shay assure in this clip, but knowing why can be far more important. They talk about planning your ties and having a clear intention before the play starts. What are you hoping to do, or have your partner do, after they’re tied? Should you consider […]
In a previous clip Wintersong talked about various questions for a partner to ask a potential playmate with a disability. But what should the person with the disability be prepared to discuss? This clip covers how to address some of the specifics as well as how to interpret the answers that you might get.