Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
There are many safety concerns when you’re playing with bondage, and some of them are particular for the tops. Where you tie someone, how you evaluate the risk of nerve damage, and the all-important “never leave a bottom alone!” are covered in this clip with good explanations of why. Shay also talks about the importance […]
This clip is a rare glimpse behind-the-kink into what it is about rope bondage that draws people like Murphy Blue and Deanna “Cannonball” to it. They talk about how it makes them feel, what they hope to get out of it, and about the place it has in their lives and relationships. You also get […]
Now that they’ve talked about putting on the harness, it’s time to show it in action! Shay straddles Stefanos and they talk about how this position is changed when there’s a dildo instead of a penis. They also show some techniques for making it more pleasurable and Stefanos explains how he is reading Shay’s body […]
Now that they have all the pieces in place, Gray and Poetic stop talking to the camera and show just how this kind of scene might play out. With some dirty talk and some orgasm control added into the mix, you get to see Poetic come to the climax of the scene in a beautiful […]
Do you think strap-ons are only for women? Not so, says Stefanos in this clip, with the enthusiastic support of Shay. He explains how he got introduced quite wonderfully to the idea, and the many reasons why other partners might want to use a strap-on. Shay chimes in with even more ideas, such as safer […]
“Sometimes the point is to interrupt her,” Graydancer explains in this clip. While Poetic is trying to finish off his boot with the bootblack’s favorite Hubbard’s Leather Conditioner, he is distracting her with cigar, rope, rough body play, and some good old-fashioned face-fucking as they get closer to finishing their scene.
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]
Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]
In this clip, Dr. Charlie Glickman explains that the pleasures of using a strap-on dildo for prostate play has more benefits than simply pleasure. He has found that men and women tend to get a new appreciation and greater empathy for the other side of penetrative sex and this can lead to many more ways […]