Apr 062015
What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? - Part 1

Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]

Apr 052015
Dating for Non-Traditional Relationships: Online

Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]

Mar 202015
Bind Without Twine: Safety for Tops

There are many safety concerns when you’re playing with bondage, and some of them are particular for the tops. Where you tie someone, how you evaluate the risk of nerve damage, and the all-important “never leave a bottom alone!” are covered in this clip with good explanations of why. Shay also talks about the importance […]

Mar 112015
Bind Without Twine: The Bottom's Perspective

If you’re the bottom in a “bind without twine” scene, it’s probably not too hard for you to escape. Do you really want to? That’s the question that Shay addresses in this clip, along with showing how to do “bondage model” resistance play to make your scenes extra hot.

Feb 122015
The Multi-Scene, Part 9: Ending the Scene

Aftercare! How do you come out of a multi-scene? Poetic and Gray show how the action doesn’t have to stop just because you’re taking off the ropes. They show how to be safe (there’s still a lit cigar) and also connected as you bring the scene to a close.

Feb 022015
The Multi-Scene, Part 8: Bringing It All Together

Now that they have all the pieces in place, Gray and Poetic stop talking to the camera and show just how this kind of scene might play out. With some dirty talk and some orgasm control added into the mix, you get to see Poetic come to the climax of the scene in a beautiful […]

Jan 172015
The Multi-Scene, Part 7: Finishing the Boot

“Sometimes the point is to interrupt her,” Graydancer explains in this clip. While Poetic is trying to finish off his boot with the bootblack’s favorite Hubbard’s Leather Conditioner, he is distracting her with cigar, rope, rough body play, and some good old-fashioned face-fucking as they get closer to finishing their scene.

Dec 262014
Do Straight Guys Like Anal Sex?

Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.

Dec 152014
The Multi-Scene, Part 6: Bootblack Play

There are many ways to play with bootblacking – sometimes as a service, sometimes as a dominant, or the way Poetic does it in this clip, with an emphasis on connection and play. She goes through the usual bootblacking steps but with many other sensations from rope, from the cigar, and even some sexual and […]

Nov 212014
Practical Examples of Mixing Kinky Play with Sex, Part 1

Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]

Oct 232014
How Pegging Will Improve Your Sex Life

In this clip, Dr. Charlie Glickman explains that the pleasures of using a strap-on dildo for prostate play has more benefits than simply pleasure. He has found that men and women tend to get a new appreciation and greater empathy for the other side of penetrative sex and this can lead to many more ways […]