What happens when the fantasy is about the mommy being the submissive one in the relationship? Goddess Helena talks about this kind of role-play which is not terribly common but, she attests, can be incredibly erotic.
There are many safety concerns when you’re playing with bondage, and some of them are particular for the tops. Where you tie someone, how you evaluate the risk of nerve damage, and the all-important “never leave a bottom alone!” are covered in this clip with good explanations of why. Shay also talks about the importance […]
Penny Barber continues her series on breast milk play during this seven-minute video. She shows specific ways to facilitate milking and describes the ways that breasts change as a result of lactation. In addition to many other practical tips, Penny also notes a few of the most helpful positions for both parties to enhance breast […]
In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race […]
As fun as it is to suspend, what goes up must come down. Murphy explains how to take the models safely and quickly to the ground, giving examples of how to cooperate with each other and also how to deal with uncooperative ropes. At the end the three head off for “multi-person aftercare”, an exercise […]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this six-minute video. He shows how to warm up your partner(s) with safe and sexy hair pulling and slapping techniques. He demonstrates ways to pull hair, regardless of hair length; and he shows how to slap various body parts, with a detailed explanation of face slapping. Stay […]
Wintersong continues his series on sex and disability with this five-minute video. He discusses empowering questions to ask a partner with a disability so to enhance the safety and enjoyment of your sexual play. Wintersong suggests several specific questions and offers tips on how to have such important conversations. Stay tuned for much more in […]
Now that Ellen is up, it’s time for Murphy to rig the lines that take Annie up into the sky. He explains how this is a strategy to help her safely and comfortably get in the air. Murphy adjusts the ropes as needed, explaining what he’s doing every step of the way. He and both […]
Moving on down the body, Shae gives examples of various ways to hit the quadriceps and groin area. She shows how the earlier “boxing nun” technique works well in both of these to both safely and severely impact the bottom. Shae also addresses safety issues but focuses mainly on the sensuality of the experience. This […]
Lucky Albatross talks about the reasons why you might want to plan a “service vacation weekend” such as getting out of a familiar rut or just to enjoy a different dynamic between you and your partner. She also covers the reasons why you probably shouldn’t do a service weekend. It’s a lot of fun, but it’s […]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
What if you’ve never been tied up before? How do you bring up the idea at all with your partner, and how do the both of you learn to get comfortable with the fantasy? In this clip Stefanos and Shay take it back to the beginning, explaining how communication and mutual exploration can help make […]
While it may sound like an oxymoron at first, “consensual nonconsent” is actually a way for people to create a safe space to explore edgy areas of play and their own psyche. Mollena lays out what the attraction is, what the dangers are, and starts to explain how to set up your own scenes in […]