Sinclair Sexsmith is an erotic coach, teacher, and writer who produces Sugarbutch Chronicles at sugarbutch.net, full of dirty stories, essays, advice, and journal entries since 2006. They travel frequently to perform and lead workshops, and they work with people one-on-one for identity puzzles and sexual experiments. Sinclair’s erotica and sexuality essays are published in more than twenty anthologies, and they edited Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica. They are an expert of strap-on technologies, a feminist Dominant, an identity puzzler, a classically trained poet, and a sacred intimate, and prefer the pronouns they and them.
strap-ons, cock confidence, trans masculinity, gender, power dynamics—D/s and M/s, protocol, service, dirty talk, daddy identity