During Pride month, there have been many discussions about whether or not “kink” can be considered an identity, and as such, if it has a place in the representation of queer identities celebrated during this month. This is not a post about that. But we wanted to acknowledge that discussion, which has ranged across social media in varying levels of politeness. While that is definitely a conversation worth having, in this post we wanted to address a related subject:  the concerns about and reasons for coming out as kinky (or not) in contemporary culture. Why Bother? The first question to ask […]