People have often asked if I think they could be poly. Over time, I eventually distilled my thoughts into the following: I’m not one of those people who think polyamory is inherently superior to monogamy, and I also think there are some prerequisites to being successfully poly. “Poly” is a pretty broad spectrum. It means a lot of things to different people. So for our purposes here, I’m going to define poly as a relationship in which all the people involved are aware that the romantic / sexual relationship involves more than two people, and have in some way consented […]