Aw sweet, sweet memories. When I was in my 20’s I loved to push my pain thresholds and endurance as a masochist. It made me feel accomplished to have taken more licks from a whip than I thought I could take. I marveled at my bruises in the mirror as if they were badges I’d earned. But as I am approaching 40 my body has changed. Like many other people, trauma and age has taken a toll, and so I have had to adjust my kink to accommodate for chronic pain and illness. Although, that hasn’t stopped me from exploring […]