“This rope is pinching. Can you move it over a few inches?” she said to her top. “What?!?” he roared, and everyone in the dungeon stopped what they were doing to look. “What are you trying to do, top me from the bottom?!?” This scenario, or something like it, happens far too frequently in the BDSM community. The top in question was referring to a phenomenon where the receiver – usually known as the “bottom” – tries to give some kind of direction to the giver – the “top” – in order to make the scene more pleasurable for one […]