There’s a word that is terrifying to most kinksters in long-term relationships. Fighting this word is often part of why they are kinky in the first place, and if your partner brings it up, it can be one of the most disheartening things you can hear: “Honey, I think we’ve gotten into a rut…” With all of the things that are available in alternative sexuality, to find that you and your partner have gotten into a habitual pattern can feel basically like “UR DOIN IT WRONG.” Usually, the first thing that happens is that one or both of you goes […]