Watching the video, I could tell he just wanted to get to the how-to and gloss over the rest of Graydancer’s monologue. I actually enjoyed it. The harness, if you can really call it that, is lightening quick. I knew we could do it.

We watched both parts of the Harness, the first part was a missionary position harness, the second part (5 mins) had doggie and cowgirl. KM decided that we’d try the missionary one first. I wanted to do the doggie one, but he thinks I won’t be able to do that one because of my large apron (again, remember I’m fat). So I agreed to do what he thought would work. We only have 6mm MFP rope from Rainbow Rope so that’s what we went with. He pulled the 25 ft length he uses for small ties.

Went into the bedroom so very excited and he brought the netbook so that he could watch Lee Harrington’s video on the Texas Handcuffs since we’ve never done them before. After watching it over a couple times he got it down. Step one, “secure the wrists” was done. Up and over my head it sure felt secure. Then he wrapped the rope across my belly for step two, “wrap the body”. It felt good and I was getting excited.

Step 3 gets us right into the fucking for sure. “Secure the hips” is just as it says. He wrapped the rope around my thighs and it pulled my legs up and out for him to go crazy with me. I wanted it so bad. Then I realized that it was going to be painful. Six mm rope across my thighs just isn’t enough. I made a decision to grit my teeth through it for the hot sex that was to follow. But I just couldn’t. I asked him to move it a couple times.

That wasn’t the only struggle though. He had basically wrapped the rope around his hands to hold my thighs up and it was a lot of work, hard work.

The sex was good, but I could tell KM was struggling with the hand grips. After we cooled off and I got him coffee we talked about it. First, the rope diameter was too small. We’d definitely have to go up to something like what Graydancer had in the video or even thicker. Second, with me as large as I am, having him hold my legs up without my assistance, since my hands were secured behind my head, was just a bit much. I guess we’ll try a different position next time. Or maybe not. KM didn’t seem very sold with the whole thing.

Then again, it was the sex he was after, the rope was my bonus.

–lunaKM