Mickey Mod and Dylan Ryan use these two long clips to explore all the ways that it can be difficult for a couple to initiate sex and foreplay. They model some ways to try and initiate with your partner, but Dylan also explains that it’s important to be able to say “no” to your partner without them feeling rejected. Sometimes you’re just not in the mood, after all, and with this clip they help couples get through that kind of tricky communication.

Initiating Sex

1. Initiating Sex & Foreplay: Part 1
2. Initiating Sex & Foreplay: Part 2
3. Assertive Initiating