Kelly Shibari explains in this clip how the language you use in relationships with plus-size women (and, to some extent, men) can be triggering if done poorly. Some people are fine with words like “fat” and “chubby,” but not everyone. She recommends some alternatives (like the comedic “fluffy”) and also stresses that it’s important to interact with people based on who they are, not what they are.
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