In this clip Wintersong talks about finding the positive aspects of playing with a disability. While the focus is on the more kinky aspects of sexuality, it’s easy to extrapolate to the simple act of sex. For example, a person with fibromyalgia was able to enjoy the heightened sensitivity, and another with an artificial limb used it in truly innovative ways to pleasure his partners. It’s all a matter of perspective, Wintersong explains, and he is full of suggestions for making it better.