Waking up to the dull gray light cutting through the blinds, I rose from bed, prepared the morning coffee, and settled into watching some Kink Academy videos. As our experience in BDSM grows, we, as a couple are learning more about exploring submission, service, and protocols. This is the first of three posts that incorporate those elements. The first video I watched was about Submissive Standard Positions by Princess Kali. Watching this video, I would learn the specific positions a submissive should learn or be taught.

Princess Kali, looking quite strict wearing a black pencil skirt, pinstripe stockings and heels, with her sexy submissive by her side, took us through the basics; the kneeling, standing, or presenting positions. Princess Kali spoke about the various reasons or settings for the positions as well as how different positions are utilized, either for sex, discipline, or obedience.

As Georgia arose from her slumber, she began her morning routine with some coffee, kisses, and a loud yawn. Inviting Georgia to sit upon my lap, we viewed the video together, leisurely I sipped my coffee and ran my fingers through her soft, silky hair.

As we listened to Princess Kali, we noticed how similar so many of the positions were with yoga positions that Georgia does for exercise. Thus began the germination of an idea in my head. What if I have Georgia perform an act of submission to me by going through her yoga exercises at my instruction. I would have her assume the various positions, instruct her when to perform various stretches.

I told her stand, and assume the position of attention, she performed perfectly. I  relaxed in my chair, sipped my coffee. I spoke slowly and deeply as I told her to go through various yoga stretches. Her lean body curled and uncurled, muscles flexing against the brightening morning sun.

 

 

As I watched her, I could see her body respond to my voice, as well as her body to the exercise. The moments of tension created a thrilling connection as I could sense her waiting for me to tell her what to do next. The air became thick with sexual energy, as she moaned pleasurably from the stretching, she crept beside me, hugging my leg and resting her head on my knee as I stroked her hair, contemplating what will happen next.

Princess Kali made the point that these submissive positions can be used in various creative ways, and her showing us the basics inspired in us a pretty hot scene. As you can see we took Princess Kali’s idea and made it work for us.

If you might feel uncomfortable being the “Dom” or “Submissive” I heartily recommend anyone try this method of creating that Dominant/submissive type of scene. Simply take an activity you and your partner are used to doing together and kink-fy it.

This post is the first of three videos that we have watched that examine how we apply the submission, service, and protocol themes.

Stay tuned !

Jay