This 5-minute conversation with Kali focuses on the many styles of dominance: strict, motherly, cold, warm, bratty, teasing – and more! Kali, who draws from her personal experience throughout the video, summarily asks: What is it that makes you feel powerful?
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The audio levels on this one make it really tough to hear :(
I (happily) had no problems at all with the audio …
This was a great video. I’m naturally a very teasy kind of gal myself, and want to channel that in my Dominance (I’m going to be apprenticing soon). I was afraid I might have to be severe, and that doesn’t come naturally, but this video was really reassuring and made me excited to start my training. Thanks!
@MademoiselleMercury I’m so glad you found this video so helpful! I think there are a lot of women who believe that “severe” is the only option as a dominant but it isn’t so! Playful and teasing are a wonderful way to be dominant and it’s always best for you to do what *does* come naturally rather than trying to fit into a stereotype. Best of luck on your journey!
Thanks Kali – this is great! Do you have any videos about finding your inner dominant?
Thanks Mz Kali – but could you enlighten me as to what the significance of the code “101” is in a topic title? Is it of your own coinage or did the usage already have currency in the BDSM community before you took it up? If so, is there some where I could find these codes systematically set out?
At Oz Kink Fest this year a presentation of yours had the topic title “Domination 201” while a different presentation by another presenter was titled “Dom/me 101”, neither quite the same as “Domination 101” referred to by you in this video clip but the numbers invite comparison.
There is very little standardization in the BDSM community, so each persons version of what might be “101” or “201” would be based on the individual educators standards.
Thanks, Kali.
So what do these codes mean when YOU use them?
I, too, found the audio in this clip to be hopelessly garbled. Sad, I was really looking forward to it.
We checked on the backend and it’s playing fine for us, so likely the difficulty is in your internet connection. You might want to try letting the whole clip load first, and then watch it :)
I too am having issue hearing this and tried it on multiple devices. This is only video I have had issue with on this site.
Sorry to hear you’re having trouble with the audio, we still have it playing fine so I’m not sure what the issue is! But I’ve very glad to hear it’s the only one you’ve had trouble with :)