In the first episode of this four-part series, Mollena Williams discusses the idea of hard and soft limits and when you might want to push them. It’s certainly useful to maintain your boundaries, of course, but sometimes that thing you fear is also what excites you, and that’s where Mollena thinks you need to give some attention to your reasons for holding back.
Boundary Smackdown
- Boundary Smackdown Part 4: Negotiating Aftercare
- Boundary Smackdown Part 3: Pushing the Edge
- Boundary Smackdown, Part 2: Negotiation
- Boundary Smackdown Part 1: Hard & Soft Limits
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Boundary Smackdown
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- Boundary Smackdown Part 1: Hard & Soft Limits
I LOVE the question “why do you have to do it right now”. That is a great reminder, especially to people just starting out like me. There can be so much you want to try but it doesn’t all have to get done at once or until you are really drawn to it.