In this clip Shay & Stefanos bring up some ways that you can improve your playing ability by learning to give and read nonverbal and verbal cues in a scene. By phrasing requests in a certain way, or using their body language to communicate both consent and pleasure, submissives can contribute to the dynamic of scene without losing “headspace.” This can help subs avoid the so-called “topping from the bottom” but still keep channels of communication open between the top and bottom. Stefanos and Shay not only demonstrate the technique and dissect it but also tell about other situations they’ve observed it working well in a dungeon.

Fun in the Dungeon

1. Arm Corset
2. Kinky Games
3. All About Gags
4. Safewords
5. Tips for “Inescapable” Bondage
6. Predicaments
7. Brat and Smart-Ass Masochist Play
8. Cock Bondage with Rubber Tubing
9. Body Language for Impact Play
10. How to Do a Check-In During Bondage
11. Ways Submissives Can Help Guide a Scene
12. Assertive Negotiation Tips for Submissives
13. Heavy Bruising