Selina Minx is a big fan of boundaries, saying they “…are not limitations, they are guidelines to ecstasy.” She talks about the importance of working out your own boundaries and then communicating them in sexy ways to your potential partners. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Register & […]
Miss Simone and her painslut demonstrate the not-so-sensual side of caning. Simone goes into her top-space and delivers several harsh strokes to his willing ass, then talks about how it feels to see the welts raise on his ass. Next clip: aftercare!
Shae Flanigan takes you on a trip through the history of sensory deprivation, going back to the first “isolation tanks” from years ago. She describes not only the equipment but also the feelings of the people experiencing it and why it became so popular as a means of stress relief in addition to kink.
Scotty and Annie demonstrate how the fantasy of control can be heightened with the use of a couple of simple physical techniques. They show the “two-on-one” hold as well as the “thumb” hold, and talk about how it’s all in a context of fun and consensual role-play.
Being healthy at kink conventions means more than just safe, sane, and consensual. The intimate contact can make you more vulnerable to colds and flu-like illnesses, and Lee has some specific ideas for maintaining your health at a con. He and Mollena also talk about “con-drop”, the depression that can hit after a particularly good […]
Stefano LaForgia clearly shows how to integrate a carabiner-based pulley system into your suspension work. This can help you raise any securely tied object – limb or person – higher in the air safely and easily. Stefano talks about types of equipment, the knots used, and then demonstrates the basics of this technique.
Reid Mihalko discusses relationship’s awkward moments – and how to overcome them – during this four-minute video. He recommends a simple two-step process (that may require repetition) to help address and move beyond the awkwardness so that you can actually do what you enjoy.
Topologist shares one of the tricks of the rope top’s trade in this clip with a technique for making wrist cuffs more comfortable under load. Using a simple daisy-chain stitch in the right way the bottom can have an easy and comfortable grip. Topologist also shows how to untie it quickly when needed. This text […]
Daka Dom goes deep into the theory of the dominant side of power exchange relationships. Drawing on the psychological concept of the “shadow,” he describes the darker side of the dom persona. He also explains how there is much to learn from increasing your awareness of your own shadows and how you can use it […]
There is a fantasy of submission and dominance that goes something like this: Bowing at the dominant’s feet, the submissive knew that there was no demand heard from that strong voice that could be denied. There was no question that would not be answered, no secret that would be hidden, no task that the submissive […]
Lucky Albatross finishes off her series by sharing her secret method for getting wax off easily and cleanly. She talks about how the cleanup can also be a part of the sensuousness of a scene, using tools or just letting the cleanup also be part of the connection. This text is available for purchase but […]
Miss Simone talks in this clip about how language changes when you’re dominating a sissy boy. Instead of cocks and asses they have clits and pussies, and in general a more feminine (but no less dominant) tone helps to create the desired aura in this kind of play. This text is available for purchase but […]
Lamalani, former International Ms Leather title holder and rope rigger, takes a moment to talk about her experience in the BDSM scene as a female top with Asian heritage. She addresses the stereotypes and assumptions and challenges everyone to move beyond them, in particular other kinky Asian females. Lamalani also tackles the somewhat taboo subject […]
Gray and JP conclude their discussion about what it means when you separate the means by which you do rope bondage from the finished result. Challenging riggers to examine what their personal relationship with their art is, they end with some ideas of how to add more meaning to your bondage experience.
“Luke the Perv” is Mistress Servalan’s partner for the zentai series and, in this clip, he speaks up for the first time. He explains how much he loves both the tactile and psychological sensation of the suit on many different levels. He also talks about the more practical aspects, such as the variety, durability and cost […]