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The Service Mindset

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Mollena Williams discusses the service mindset during this 6-minute video. She starts with a personal experience and accentuates that service should fulfill the submissive. Service moves one beyond oneself; the focus centers on the other. And this focus helps the servant grow in patience, openness, and acceptance. A very valuable clip for submissives and dominants.

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  2. The Service Mindset
  3. Your Service Resume
  4. Negotiating Service Boundaries
  5. Getting Your Needs Met
  6. Service When You’re Not in a Relationship
  7. Autonomy in Submission
  8. Sustaining Submission in a Relationship
  9. Service: Making Yourself Useful
  10. Advocating for Yourself as a Submissive
  11. Submission: When You Ain’t Feelin’ It
  12. Dominants are People Too
  13. Graciously Accepting Service

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Filed Under: Basic Skill, Intermediate Subject, Members Only, Mollena Williams, Service, Submission, Video

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  1. lunaKM says

    April 2, 2011 at 9:43 am

    This video had me nodding yes throughout the whole thing. I’ve only come recently to accepting the service aspect of my submission; I’ve fought with a selfishness since the beginning. And I can feel the power or letting go of your own thoughts and thinking of pleasing others. It’s wonderful how this series of videos is making me realize a better me.

    Thank you Mollena.

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  2. darkglass says

    January 7, 2013 at 8:14 am

    Oh my god, the first sentence of this class is so dead-on for me it’s actually a bit creepy. I said the same sentence, nearly verbatim, to my husband. Very informative and helpful video–I hope to share it with my Dom’me, who I think is still a bit mystified by my desire to serve Hir.

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  3. alpha_by_day says

    January 19, 2013 at 12:47 pm

    Love the concept of finding peace through service. The part about being energized by serving was particularly interesting! Thanks again.

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