Scotty and Annie talk about role-playing the fantasy of “consensual nonconsent” in this clip, focusing on the most important tool for that kind of play: the safeword. That is a word used to let the other person know either that things are not ok, that they are ok, or both. Whether it’s some strange word like “petunia” or the more traditional “red, yellow, green”, understanding this concept and how to use it is a key part of a good power exchange relationship.