In this clip Bex Caputo suggests that you come up with a “Yes, No, Maybe” list for your sexual preferences and kinks. He also goes deeper, outlining the differences between “Yes, totally into this!” and “Yes, willing to do this” and other nuances of the list.This can be a great tool for getting to know your own and your partner’s deeper desires.

This video has been close-captioned for the hearing impaired.