In this clip Mollena gives a few specific tips for the subs in power exchange relationships. She talks about how important it is to not keep troubles and stresses bottled up – even when it’s scary to honestly communicate. Mollena describes a few scenarios for using tact and self-awareness to help improve the flow of [...]
Now that the body’s in the bag, the collar is secure and the hood is all laced, Shae relaxes with her partner and talks about the final considerations as the sensory deprivation scene goes on. There are a few safety concerns worth repeating, but for the most part she simply talks about how the scene [...]
Miss Simone covers the other side of handcuff play – putting the hands in front for whatever purpose you’d like to put them to. There are many of the same safety issues as when they are in back, but Simone also covers issues particular to having the locks – and especially the keyholes – in [...]
Selina Minx realizes that in the heat of the moment it can be hard to express your boundaries or limits. Sometimes it’s desire, sometimes it’s embarrassment, sometimes it’s just momentum. Her solution is: rehearsal! Practice in front of the mirror, in the car, wherever you can, saying all the phrases that seem a little awkward. [...]
Danarama uses this long clip to show exactly step-by-step how to create the first of two leg harnesses that can be used with the frame. This particular version is similar to the body harness already created, though there are some particulars about securing and maintaining the tension that need to be addressed. He also talks [...]
Dov shows how to do the classic “cutback” throw, made famous in Indiana Jones movies and more. He demonstrates it from the front and the side, as well as showing the “spinning” technique to help get you started. This is a great how-to video for snake-whip enthusiasts.
That was your hottest scene yet, and as you and your lover collapse together in a pile of sweaty skin and smiles, everything seems right in the world. Fast forward a few hours or days, and now there is this sense of general unease or unhappiness which you can’t quite explain. Perhaps you feel exhausted, [...]
Now that you’ve seen the demonstration of negotiation, it’s important to remember that it’s only one example. In this clip Shay goes over the particular issues that you need to consider beyond the standard negotiation for a play scene. These include things like aftercare, dealing with blood, possible marks, and more. This is essential knowledge [...]
Once you’ve worked through all the communication and prep and actually gotten to experience your unusual fetish, there’s one final part to take into consideration: aftercare. Wintersong goes over some of the ways that aftercare for this kind of scene might be different than for other kinds of scenes. Emotions, physical after-effects, and even things [...]
Murphy continues to put Annie into her suspension harness, this time with the help of his other demo bottom. He mingles the solid rope instruction with a demonstration of how banter and horseplay can change some rather plain engineering into a fun connection between three kinksters.
Antonia puts the final touches on the transformation from masculine Thrash, and it’s all in the details. Specifically, it’s in the way you carry yourself and your confidence in your identity as a woman that will make your transformation complete. She also recommends some additions like a saucy fan to spice up the experience.
Ever wonder how a negotiation for a needle play scene might go? Shay and Jade model exactly that, asking questions not only about the kind of scene they want to have but also about boundaries, medical histories, relationships, and many other concerns. Watch and see if there’s things you might not have expected them to [...]
What happens after that amazing and boundary-pushing scene is done? Aftercare, of course, but Mollena points out that it can look different depending on your needs. Is it a high-five and “Nice job!” or hours of “cuddles and Belgian chocolates”? It’s important to know your “path to aftercare” before you start the scene, especially in [...]
Valentine’s Day. A day of flowers and cards and shiny baubles given between paramours expressing their undying love and affection. Everywhere you go there are hearts and cherubs with wings and bows. And candy! It seems like about the most un-kinky holiday you could get. And yet…notice how the hearts don’t actually look like hearts? [...]
Now that the safety issues are covered (and you did watch that clip, right?) Shae Flanigan begins the final part of the Sensory Deprivation scene she’s been building. She covers her bottom’s head with a heavily-strapped leather hood, showing how she cares for the fit of it and also how she uses her body to [...]