Poetic talks about more advanced bootblacking techniques for cleaning leather. While these may not seem to be directly sexual, the amount of intention and focus that can be given to the recipient of the leather care is part of what makes a bootblack scene hot.
Stefano LaForgia takes the basic hishi (diamond) body harness to the next level with a full-body version suitable for both floor work and suspension. In this COMPLETE tutorial he shows every twist and knot including the theory behind the wraps so that you can add this to your rope repertoire. This text is available for […]
Greg, the designer of the NJOY line of “fine instruments of pleasure”, talks about their flagship product. The “Pure Wand” is made of hard steel both for durability and to let you stimulate exactly the way you’d like. He demonstrates how the product is ergonomically efficient for both prostate and g-spot play, and also describes […]
In the final segment in her race play series, Mollena talks about the all-important subject of aftercare. She starts by emphasizing that especially for this kind of edgy play, both the top and the bottom need to have not only aftercare but also “during-care.” Mollena also brings up one of the unusual aspects of race […]
Sir Nik finishes out the “Six of the Best” and shows how to modify your position so that you can get the best angle for striking your bottoms ass. Ms. Thompson bears up well under the strokes, but also shows her reaction both in moans and smiles.
In this clip Murphy Blue finishes off the “rifle tie” by securing the upper arm in two single column ties – one to the wrist and one around the folded arm. He talks about alternate methods for this part of the tie and his reasons for doing it this way. Finishing it off he talks […]
Now that the prep is done, Shae Flanigan talks about how to use the plastic wrap to begin the mummification. She demonstrates from beginning to end, with notes along the way on how to twist to fit the body better and how to make sure your bottom is safe as they slowly have their mobility […]
It’s not just about the feeling of the needles in the skin. This kind of temporary body modification can be used to create many fun, interesting, and beautiful designs under the skin. Stefanos and Shay show how to combine the feeling of the steel with strategic needle placement for several interesting looks. This text is […]
In this clip Anita Wagner goes deeper into a firsthand account of the challenges involved in having a partner with a sexual compulsion. She comes to it from the perspective of a sex-positive educator and gives some great examples of how treatments can vary and the importance of self-care as well as caring for the […]
The term “edge play” can mean a lot of things in the kink community. For some, it simply means that they like the kinds of things that Orpheus Black does with blades. Knives are great tools for sensation play, for removing wax, for all kinds of things. However, there’s another understanding of “edge play” that has […]
In part 2 of the Teppo Shibari tutorial Murphy shows ties in the second rope, which provides support under the breasts and turns the teppo into a suspension-worthy tie. He also illustrates the “dragon technique” of adding rope (his own invention!) and prepares to tie down the upper arm in part 3.
In this clip Wintersong talks about finding the positive aspects of playing with a disability. While the focus is on the more kinky aspects of sexuality, it’s easy to extrapolate to the simple act of sex. For example, a person with fibromyalgia was able to enjoy the heightened sensitivity, and another with an artificial limb […]
In this clip Shae goes over the materials you need for an advanced mummification of the bottom (which will lead to sensory deprivation). Shae also demonstrates how to use gauze and tape to cover sensitive spots like the nipples from the duct tape that’s coming up.
Now that he’s explained the equipment, Sir Nik Satanas gives an actual demonstration of “Six of the Best”, the English traditional corporal punishment. He goes over positioning of the bottom, how to plan your swings, and then gives the first three strokes, pausing after each to talk about the bottom’s reaction and the marks the […]
Mollena tackles the tricky subject of finding the right partner for your race play fantasies. She talks about the process of dialogue and broaching the subject, as well as what she considers warning signs. Mollena also explains why mutual respect and trust can be even more essential for this kind of play.