The sex drive is one of the most powerful motivations a person can have. Orgasm is, almost by definition, an overwhelming experience. It makes sense, then, that controlling that impulse would be an amazing expression of dominance. Surrendering the control of your sexuality to another person is a profound act of submission, whether it’s done […]
What should a well-dressed dominant male wear? Graydancer asks costume designer Ivy Miller for suggestions, starting with a large patterned shirt. They talk about how clothing can contribute to intimacy and hotness in a scene both in how it’s worn and in how it comes off, and Ivy also gives Gray some tips for dealing […]
The particular style of karada (“body”) harness that Gray ties on Poetic is specifically designed to both stimulate her pussy as well as be dynamic. That means there are only two actual knots to fasten the rope – the rest of the harness moves and tightens with every movement. Gray shows how it works (with […]
Roughinamorato’s demo model Ay speaks up in this clip. She talks about how much she enjoys this kind of punching, slapping, and kicking play, but stresses that it is not for everyone. She has a particular affinity for playing like this, but is also very choosy about who she does it with due to the […]
Julian Wolf gives some basic techniques for pulling your partner’s hair in a way that is not destructive or annoying. Both short and long-hair techniques are discussed and demonstrated. Julian also gets feedback from the models as to how they enjoy it and emphasizes how communication is essential for this kind of kink.
Mistress Simone takes the time to talk about some of the assumptions and mistaken concepts about dominant women. She explains that this is not about past trauma, greed, or hate for her, but rather out of a desire for connection with her partners. It’s all about consent and pleasure for Miss Simone, and this is […]
In part 2 Poetic moves away from the soft oil tan leather and to the more traditional high-shine boot. She demonstrates the technical aspects of getting a glossy look on the leather but also shows how it gets sexy with some boot worship and dominant/submissive play.
Now that they’ve covered the basic techniques, Shay and Stefanos go into some alternative ways to put needles into the happy bottom. Some are quick, some are slow, some painful, but they all lead to smiles and often giggling at the end for Jade. This text is available for purchase but you need to login […]
In this clip, Dr. Charlie Glickman explains that the pleasures of using a strap-on dildo for prostate play has more benefits than simply pleasure. He has found that men and women tend to get a new appreciation and greater empathy for the other side of penetrative sex and this can lead to many more ways […]
Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the fine art of a dominant male sensually disrobing a submissive female in this next clip. He tackles the sometimes-awkward task of removing the pants, talking about how body mechanics can really change it from a fumbling mess to a powerful and sensuous experience for both. He even shows […]
The next part of Poetic & Graydancer’s multi-scene is to put the karada, a common rope harness, on her naked body. Gray talks about how they’ve customized both the rope and the methods of tying to their own particular tastes in this scene as he shows the first part of this full-body tie.
Now that he’s gone over all the basic principles, Roughinamorato lets it loose with his partner Ay. They show how a short scene can begin, escalate, and come to a satisfactory conclusion (of Ay’s orgasm). In the next clip they will talk about their feelings during this short and intense scene. This text is available […]
When Poetic pulls out her Hubbards leather conditioner, things really start to get sexy. Aside from being a great way to treat leather, the organic product also makes a very good (but non-latex friendly) lube. Poetic describes all kinds of ways it can be used and even demonstrates a couple with her stunt cock. She […]
Here’s some great ideas for creating power exchange protocols that are “sexy for sexy’s sake”, according to Sinclair Sexsmith. They aren’t just for the dominant partners – Sinclair explains how even a single submissive could use these suggestions to make things hot. The suggestions are specific, graphic, and intensely sexual to get your D/s juices […]
What happens when things go wrong? Shay spends time in this clip explaining how to deal with things that may come up while you’re playing with needles. Accidental needle sticks, messy blood, fainting, hyperventilating…Shay explains what can go wrong and why, and also gives you concrete ideas on how to deal with it. This text […]