Happy New Year! 2015 is a year for change, expansion, and growth. Cleaning out the old gear and sex toys to make room for shiny new ones. Trying new things that get us hot and bothered and feeling excited and recharged. We want to help you start the year off shiny and new with a […]
In part two of his series, Greg describes the second instrument of pleasure he designed. Dubbed “the FunWand”, it was made to encourage use during oral sex. Like the original PureWand, it can be used anally, vaginally, or for whatever you’d like to touch with the hard polished steel.
Now that we know why a man might want to wear a strap-on during sex, how do you get the thing on? Stefanos and Shay walk you through the various straps, snaps, and fittings. Stefanos also shows just how you need to adjust balls and other parts of the male anatomy depending on the harness, […]
Like a little fucking with your kink? There’s a natural tendency among some people to see just what kinds of things they can use inside of various parts of the body. Iris covers some of the safety concerns about this kind of play and how to make risk-aware decisions. She also gives some really interesting […]
In this short clip Goddess Helena describes the kinds of role-play she and her partner are going to demonstrate. These include the ideas of dress-up, masturbation, role-reversal, and others in an adult power-exchange context
In part 4 of his series on hand-spinning jute bondage rope, M0co starts the actual twisting of the yarn. He shows how important using a variable speed drill is in the process, as well as how he uses his “rope walk” to mark off the tension preference of his customers.
Anita Wagner continues her series by discussing what may qualify as sexual addiction/compulsion during this six-minute, part-two video. She offers a long list of questions, with important comments and insights, to aid your reflection on your own or another’s behavior. In her third clip Anita talks about treatment options.
In this clip Shay shows how simple items like panties and ties can be turned into very effective gags. She also talks about what not to use (Stefanos is not too fond of fuzzy scarves) and also covers safety issues.
Aside from being sexy, protocols can be a part of making you and your partner better in many ways. Sinclair talks about using a D/s relationship as motivation to exercise, to learn, to improve in various ways whether you are with someone or just by yourself. All of it is within the context of making […]
Can you improvise the equipment for a fear play scene? Are everyday items like makeup or stuffed animals scary? Iris Enchanted gives an emphatic “yes!” in this clip, talking about pervertibles that can be used either for “shock and awe” purposes or even for drawn-out interrogation play.
In part 2 of his series on sexually dominant kissing, Scotty explains how to take the sensual nibbling from part 1 to a new level. He shows how some simple negotiation with Annie helps them determine the “sweet spot” for more intense biting, then shows how it can turn a sexy scene into an even […]
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
Sinclair Sexsmith talks about how a submissive person can create their own protocols. You don’t need a dominant partner to make you do things, after all – self-improvement can be sexy, too! Sinclair talks about physical improvement, intellectual exercises, and even the idea of improving your creativity. All of these can make you more embodied […]
Scotty and Annie continue their series on sensual masculine domination with a couple of clips with teeth! In part one Scotty shows the way that you can use your lips to give tiny nibbles along the skin for great sensation without leaving any marks. Then, to Annie’s delight, he increases the intensity and shows how […]
Who needs ropes and chains? In this clip Iris Enchanted shows many alternative ways to restrain your partner. Some are familiar, like duct tape, and some are truly innovative (toe bondage, anyone?). She also covers safety considerations and other options for each pervertible bondage toy.