Mistress Melissa’s piggy can’t be on her knees all the time, so there are a few standing positions for high-protocol D/s scenes. This clip covers the first two, with Mistress Melissa’s usual attention to the details of body mechanics, presentation, and even some extra examples of verbal protocols that can go along with the standing [...]
Throughout this series, Orpheus Black’s demo partner has been Mistress Delilah Black. In this clip she gives her perspective on how it felt, both psychologically and physically, to be under his blade.
Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that [...]
In part 2 Graydancer goes over two important questions: is it better to PUSH or PULL rope, and what do you do when you suffer from the dreaded “premature ropulation” (i.e., running out of rope)?
One of the best part of needle play is the wide variety of possibilities for sensation in play. In this clip Shay & Stefanos show several different ways to elicit sensation and play with both the way the needles go in and the way they come out. Jade also gives feedback on how it feels [...]
In this clip Poetic Desires talks about the various components of a bootblack kit, starting from the outer bag all the way into the polishes, cremes, brushes, and other implements of leather care. She also goes into resources for finding these materials, and emphasizes the need to talk to other bootblacks to learn more about [...]
In this clip Sinclair Sexsmith heads into the pragmatic areas of D/s protocol such as doing dishes, laundry, or even the way coffee is served. Sinclair gives solid suggestions as well as the reasoning behind them so that you can come up with your own hot & sexy D/s protocol.
Roughinamorato of Chicago’s “Rough Crowd” shows the essential elements of this kind of hot and surprisingly intimate play. He goes over the anatomy of both the face and the hand, talking about where to hit and with what in order to keep the slap sexy and not damaging. He also goes over how to support [...]
Now that he’s covered positions, Orpheus gets into the specific techniques for using the knife on the breasts, stomach, and thighs. He talks about the safest grip, how parts of the skin differ, and how to position yourself so that your bottom is kept from harm during this sensual type of edge play.
It can be hard to figure out how body language and physical cues affirm or deny the creation of consent. Kitty Stryker explains how to navigate this gray area more effectively by being sensitive to each other and also not being afraid to ask when in doubt. This clip is filled with a lot of [...]
Now that the only thing left is the arms, Danarama quickly shows how they are attached to the frame. Since the technique is the same as the other parts, he livens things up by turning on SuperSpeed and tying to the accompaniment of the Diablo Swing Orchestra (used under Creative Commons). Finally he presents the [...]
What happens if you stick yourself unintentionally with a needle? This common accident is often blown out of proportion, but should be treated with specific steps to insure safety. Shay goes over the risks and the treatment in this video.
Now that she’s laid out the parameters of race play, Mollena Williams wants to talk to you about negotiating this type of scene. First and foremost, she says, the negotiation has to be with yourself, before you ever get in touch with a potential partner. She explains how to go about developing that kind of [...]
Sinclair Sexsmith talks more about the idea of a healthy D/s relationship in regards to setting up protocols. They start with the sexy in this clip, such as lingerie, erotic talismans, and the like. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Register & Purchase Purchase Only
Knowing how to tie someone up is great, Stephanos and Shay assure in this clip, but knowing why can be far more important. They talk about planning your ties and having a clear intention before the play starts. What are you hoping to do, or have your partner do, after they’re tied? Should you consider [...]