In this clip Marcia B. talks about some of the most common and also damaging myths about consent. Specifically, there is an idea that women “have sex” and men “get sex.” She explains how this “pursuit” model of consent makes things worse for everyone, and suggests asking a different question: what does each person involved want out of the experience? That way there is a more balanced and equitable approach to happy fun sexy time!

This video has been close-captioned for the hearing impaired.