Here’s a pop quiz: when is is appropriate for a dominant to eat pussy or suck cock? The correct answer is: “Any time they want to.*” If you hesitated at all, you might still be operating under the mistaken idea that giving fellatio or cunnilingus is inherently a submissive act. That’s ok, it happens to most people. Those acts are often portrayed that way in popular media, and that carries over into some of the assumptions about what a dominant person “should” do. In truth, though, the dominant person is supposed to be the person who is calling the shots, […]