Sinclair Sexsmith loves creating protocols for both dominants and submissives. All too often, though, the partners in a D/s relationship try to adopt the protocols they think they should follow rather than discovering the ones that actually turn them on. Sinclair gives some guidelines and ideas for how to come up with the protocols that […]
In part 2 Graydancer goes over two important questions: is it better to PUSH or PULL rope, and what do you do when you suffer from the dreaded “premature ropulation” (i.e., running out of rope)?
Roughinamorato of Chicago’s “Rough Crowd” shows the essential elements of this kind of hot and surprisingly intimate play. He goes over the anatomy of both the face and the hand, talking about where to hit and with what in order to keep the slap sexy and not damaging. He also goes over how to support […]
Now that he’s covered positions, Orpheus gets into the specific techniques for using the knife on the breasts, stomach, and thighs. He talks about the safest grip, how parts of the skin differ, and how to position yourself so that your bottom is kept from harm during this sensual type of edge play.
It can be hard to figure out how body language and physical cues affirm or deny the creation of consent. Kitty Stryker explains how to navigate this gray area more effectively by being sensitive to each other and also not being afraid to ask when in doubt. This clip is filled with a lot of […]
Now that the only thing left is the arms, Danarama quickly shows how they are attached to the frame. Since the technique is the same as the other parts, he livens things up by turning on SuperSpeed and tying to the accompaniment of the Diablo Swing Orchestra (used under Creative Commons). Finally he presents the […]
In part 2, Mollena goes over some of the issues that can come up when you are working within a consensual nonconsent framework, and how to deal with them. One of the biggest is figuring out how to end a scene and deal with the many emotions that may be left over. Having a framework […]
In the final clip in Lee Harrington’s series on hypnosis he brings up some elements of safety. Specifically he describes how some people may try unethical methods of hypnosis or triggers that have unusual side effects. Lee also goes over ways to protect yourself from these kinds of situations, from self-induced hypnotic triggers to simply […]
Daniel demonstrates some fun and sexy manhandling of Danika during this three-minute video. He peppers numerous tips throughout the clip to help you increase your confidence and be more dominant in the bedroom.
Stormmy’s slaves Miranda and Nicole share some very practical aspects of being in a service-oriented power-exchange relationship when the provider can live with the receiver. After covering the “basics” like domestic and sexual service, they also go into more complex service, such as caring for cars, leathers, or even understanding what kinds of things the […]
While it may sound like an oxymoron at first, “consensual nonconsent” is actually a way for people to create a safe space to explore edgy areas of play and their own psyche. Mollena lays out what the attraction is, what the dangers are, and starts to explain how to set up your own scenes in […]
Following up the lessons of the first clip, the kicking gets more serious in this segment. Miss Simone is careful, but merciless as she subjects her bottom to stronger and stronger kicks, getting his consent and his feedback as things progress. She also covers aftercare for ball kicking scenes and the kinds of things that […]
JP and Gray finish up their series on Rope Negotiation with some talk about aftercare, specifically for the top. They discuss the ways aftercare can appear to various people, and how to plan a scene so that you can come out of it energized rather than drained.
Harold Henry reveals the secret of getting laid in this clip…and it turns out not to be very complicated. Clear and honest communication, he says, are key and being the kind of pushy predator that the mainstream media promotes won’t get you anywhere. He stresses several other qualities that can be developed and increase the […]
While the previous clip talked about most of the supplies required for needleplay, gloves are important enough that they deserve special attention. In this short clip Shay explains various kinds of gloves both in terms of size and material, as well as going over best practices to keep things safe and also how to eroticize […]
“Wow, it was amazing…I was slung up in this reverse-prayer Naka-style TK using 4-mil jute from Bastard when I felt my radial nerve go ‘ping’ and she activated my scalenes and it fixed the tension before I even had to say anything! I dropped into subspace completely but we didn’t want to hog the rig so she spun […]
Remember 2008? It’s ok if you don’t. There was a lot going on. That’s the year of Barack Obama, of Sarah Palin. Twitter was only two years old and many critics were still wondering if it would amount to anything. “Cyber-security” and “E-business” were just afterthoughts for college curriculum’s. Cell phones hadn’t gotten 3G yet, […]
Two, Four, Six, Eight, Who Do We Appreciate? Kink Academy is eight years old and we are celebrating with a huge giveaway for you! This September it’s all about the numbers. We’re delighted to celebrate Kink Academy’s 8 year anniversary plus, we have some awesome and BIG prizes to share. Do the math and enter […]
While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: […]
Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
Welcome to our April Giveaway! This month you can enter to win our “Back in Black” Bondage Set. Featuring: Sex Ties and Bondage tape: and a sturdy black ball gag from The Latex Store Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready to (make your subbie) drool? Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready […]
Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]
Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]
In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]