Stefanos demonstrates use of the singletail whip during this six-minute, part-two video. He shows creative and safe ways to practice your throws – on objects and on a bottom/submissive – and get immediate feedback. Stay tuned for more whip play in future clips.
Domina Snow continues her reflections on age play during this four-minute video. She talks specifically about taboo play: what it is and how to create safe and sexy scenes. She discusses negotiation, personal histories, motivations, key words/phrases, and much more. Snow continues her series in upcoming clips. This text is available for purchase but you […]
KD & Lyndon continue their series on negotiating sexy with this five-minute, part-three video. They recommend negotiation conversations as foreplay and suggest ways to handle the more awkward or difficult moments.
Amy Jo Goddard continues her series on Getting Unstuck in our sensual and sexual lives with this 6-minute video. She starts with some homework: create a pleasure and joy list and then examine how much time you spend experiencing the items on the list. Amy Jo then discusses your body’s 2nd chakra, or energy center, […]
Darian and Rhiannon complete their 3-part series in this 3-minute clip. They emphasize additional considerations such as physical ailments/limitations, bondage, and past negative experiences. They review the essentials as well: written consent and advanced planning of both the scene and aftercare.
Darian and Rhiannon continue their discussion on surprise sex in this 6-minute, second-part video. They begin by highlighting key features of an application for surprise sex such as which people should and should not be involved in the experience; and they consider the various experiences that can be a part of surprise sex. They also offer several practical insights on safe words and aftercare both for providers and recipients.
Ever want to tie your partner’s elbows together? Or, have your own elbows tied? Jay Wiseman demonstrates on Tina a very simple way to gauge how close you can safely tie someone’s elbows together in this 3-minute clip. In the process you’ll learn how to take a radial pulse too!
Jay Wiseman continues his discussion on anatomy with his assistant Tina in this 4-minute video. Jay first identifies the 3 basic nerves of the human arm and then focuses on the radial nerve, which is especially prone to compression injuries. He clearly marks the place where injury to the nerve is most common and suggests ways to avoid any damage – and still enjoy great bondage techniques!
Dottie from Needle Play Design uses her demo slut Starfire in this 11-minute intro to Needle Play. Dottie covers safety and cleanliness (e.g., how and with what to clean), organization of supplies; and she demonstrates a basic insertion (i.e., safety stick). She provides several tips about needle size or gauge, needle length, and the necessary supplies for safe and fun play.
The next part of the medical play session is the examination, which is an important part of finding out what’s ‘ailing the patient’, so to speak! Eve Minax walks us through the process; checking the heart-rate and nipple sensitivity then proceeding to the groin inspection, all the while giving tips to make the scene more authentic and thorough. Watch and learn!
For anyone interested in medical play whether as a role-play or as a fetish, this clip is a great place to start! The illustrious Eve Minax is here to share the ‘consultation form’ that she uses before such play-times in order to get to know the ‘patient’ more thoroughly. She shares the questions that she uses to ‘probe’ for ‘symptoms’ that are both serious and sexy!
During this clip (which was shot during a class presented for NEDS) Princess Kali shares some of her personal experiences and tips for reveling in role-play during kinky scenes. In her own quirky way she explains how role-play can really help you “get outside” of yourself to keep things mixed up and exciting. She also talks a lot about how humor can help keep your sexual adventures fun and healthy!
Savannah talks about the different positions one can take when using a strap-on with a partner. She explains the pros and cons of each position and encourages you to explore so that you can find what works when you dive into some sexy strap-on play!
Princess Kali, an avid face slapper, shows the basic ‘need to know’ information for how to slap someone in the face. She covers how to hold your hand and arm, which positions are appropriate for the person you’re slapping, as well as helpful hints on how to make sure you hit your target in exactly the way you’re aiming for!
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
Welcome to our April Giveaway! This month you can enter to win our “Back in Black” Bondage Set. Featuring: Sex Ties and Bondage tape: and a sturdy black ball gag from The Latex Store Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready to (make your subbie) drool? Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready […]
Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]
Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]
In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]
In their final clip Goddess Helena and Nicki go into detail about why they find this kind of consensual role-play fantasy so enjoyable. They talk about their psychological, emotional, and physical sensations, and how they have created a special adult relationship through Mommy play.
Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.
What happens when the fantasy is about the mommy being the submissive one in the relationship? Goddess Helena talks about this kind of role-play which is not terribly common but, she attests, can be incredibly erotic.
Greg brings out a toy so big it takes two video clips to talk about it! The Njoy “Eleven” (named because it is eleven inches) started as an experiment but became a legendary dildo. He talks about the fine craftsmanship and materials that went into making this “instrument of pleasure.”
Charlie Glickman, with the help of a little squeeze ball, demonstrates several methods for massaging your man’s prostate. He also explains how to incorporate this into love making in terms of timing, the “ramping up” method, and how to not ruin his orgasm.
Some of the sexiest moments in the bedroom are just through focused touch. In this clip Scotty and Annie demonstrate several techniques not only for putting your hands on each other, but also for focusing the awareness to create a truly magical sensation.