It’s very important that you know which parts of the body are good (meaning safe and pleasurable) for the toy that you’re using (in this case, a flogger). Sarah Sloane takes you from head to toe and describes what to be aware of regarding safety issues for each area of the body. She discusses the ‘type’ of flogging that is appropriate for each body part and where you should avoid all together.
Lady Cyanide shares tips on cinching yourself into a corset as well as when you’re helping dress someone else. Great for corset lovers and service submissives!
Have you ever wondered what the correct way to lace a corset it? Lady Cyanide is here to help! She goes step-by-step to explain the proper way for
a full-bust corset or waist cincher to be laced and un-laced. After watching this clip you will know how to make sure the ‘loops’ are in the middle in order to get a better fit. She also shares some general tips for corset lacing so if you’re a corset lover, this is a ‘can’t miss’ clip!
There are many different traditions of protocol and Princess Kali is here to share some of the ‘Kink Academy Standards’ including; tone of voice, addressing a Dominant, and phrases to use to communicate with-in the ‘scene’. These protocols are a good starting point for both submissives and Dominants to establish a more personalized standard.
The term ‘service’ can be used in different capacities in the kink world, so it’s a good idea to make sure that everyone in the relationship is using the same definition in order to reach the same goal. Sarah Sloane explains the many ways to be ‘of service’ and the many motivations of the service-oriented person. She also shares helpful tips on how service can be both given and accepted as a bottom or Top, a Dominant or a submissive.
There are many reasons someone might be interested in hood play, as a Top or a bottom, as a fashion statement or a sensory controlling device. Dante Posh shares her love of hoods and shows how to put a hood on properly, how to layer different kinds of hoods (such as a mesh hood & an inflatable rubber hood) and she also includes some important safety tips to keep the hood ‘wearer’ safe and happy inside their hood!
Princess Kali goes on with a few other positions that are good for spanking including; laying on the floor, pressed up against the wall, bending over with hands on the ankles, or on hands and knees. She also summarizes the key components of a spanking: the position used, the verbal play, and what you’re using to spank along with how much power is going into each sexy smack.
Dante Posh gives a thorough introduction to the various kinds of nipple clamps starting with some basics such as clothespins, working her way through some disposable and medical styles and then on to the more traditional kind of ‘dungeon’ nipple clamps. She gives some important ‘nipple torture’ tips to keep the play safe and she also makes some wicked suggestions to up the ‘ow’ factor!
It’s not only the ‘tops’ responsibility to watch out for safety, it’s important for the ‘bottom’ (or submissive) to ensure their own safety. Cecilia Tan discusses some vital things to consider when agreeing to play with a new partner including; how you met the person, getting references, and setting up future play dates with all the necessary precautions. Plus she fully explains the ‘safe call’, a frequently used technique for new play partners to keep everyone safe and accounted for.
The multi-layered sissy maid uniform is finally explained! Sissy Maid Stephanie puts the undergarments of the uniform on step by step so you can follow along. From exact instructions on how to put on a garter belt and stockings, to the appropriate type of bra and possible inserts that can be worn. One of the most important aspects of the sissy maid uniform is also shown, the ‘bow & bell’ which is worn around the ‘private package’ as a special sissy accessory.
Top to bottom, inside and out, it’s helpful to know where everything is when it comes to female genitalia! Megan Andelloux introduces all the parts of a woman’s sexual anatomy and talks about the variations in appearance as well as how best to stimulate each area. With her playful guidance this wonderful pleasure source will be much less of a mystery!
The topic of ‘refusing’ or ‘requesting’ within the power dynamic can be confusing and can contribute to the deterioration of the relationship unless prior negotiation is taken care of. Cecilia Tan gives lots of great suggestions for discussing the real need to consider each person’s right to ask for or deny playtime. With the important reminder that negotiation is an on-going experience in any 24/7 experience, she brings up the key questions to talk about when establishing the boundaries with consideration to real life needs.
With Princess Kali’s usual sassy style, she continues on the topic of spanking. Demonstrating some effective techniques for spanking with your hands including; how to hold and position your hand and arm, different ways to ‘mix-up’ the spanking. She also discusses how to change the sensations as well as how to protect the spankers hand from feeling any un-desired pain (leaving the pleasurable pain for the spankee only!). Items to use as a ‘paddle’ are also mentioned, so don’t miss all the great spank suggestions packed into this clip!
With Megan Andelloux, there’s never a dull description, and this clip is no different! She gives a great overview of safe prostrate-play toys, explaining why they are designed in such a special way, as well as how the body experiences each type of material and texture. She also gives tips on how to use these toys for the prostrate stimulation you’re looking for!
Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
Welcome to our April Giveaway! This month you can enter to win our “Back in Black” Bondage Set. Featuring: Sex Ties and Bondage tape: and a sturdy black ball gag from The Latex Store Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready to (make your subbie) drool? Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready […]
Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]
Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]
In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]
In their final clip Goddess Helena and Nicki go into detail about why they find this kind of consensual role-play fantasy so enjoyable. They talk about their psychological, emotional, and physical sensations, and how they have created a special adult relationship through Mommy play.
Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.
What happens when the fantasy is about the mommy being the submissive one in the relationship? Goddess Helena talks about this kind of role-play which is not terribly common but, she attests, can be incredibly erotic.
Greg brings out a toy so big it takes two video clips to talk about it! The Njoy “Eleven” (named because it is eleven inches) started as an experiment but became a legendary dildo. He talks about the fine craftsmanship and materials that went into making this “instrument of pleasure.”