In the final clip on regular sensory deprivation, Shae’s bottom talks about what her first time experience was like to have the full body bag and hood on. She describes her fears and how she overcame them using focusing and calming techniques.
In this clip Wintersong discusses various ways to get the same feeling of an activity with a partner without adverse effects by carefully selecting the right equipment. He gives several examples of ways that creative exploration can work around the limitations of a disability.
Can you be a feminist and still be in a BDSM power exchange? Lilith Grey explains the difference between the paradigm of patriarchal power as opposed to a healthy relationship within the roles of dominant and submissive. It’s all about informed consent and the motivations for exercising the power, and this clip can help clear [...]
Now that she’s gone over the philosophical and psychological and social considerations for race play, Mollena gets into the fun stuff with this clip: setting up your race play scene. She goes over ideas like humor and “gently” going into it, and also describes several scenarios where “race” can be an issue outside of a [...]
Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the classic kink, OTK spanking, in this clip. Annie gives some feedback on why her position is just right for her arousal, while Scotty illustrates the ways that variations in tempo and intensity can add a lot to the experience. They also touch on the “sweet spot” – literally [...]
Part of working with pervertibles is making them safe for sexual play. Iris goes over several ways to do this with condoms (male and female), gloves, and other supplies. She even throws in some neat ways to use safer sex supplies for other fun and kinky purposes.
With the safety aspects covered, Dov starts using the equipment in this clip. He applies electrically conductive pads to Miss Ali’s body and demonstrates several different pulse patterns and intensities. Ali gives feedback as to how it all feels, and they show how changing the position of the pads can intensify and change the outcome.
Now that she’s covered the equipment, Poetic goes into how to start your leather care scene. She describes how you can combine connection and sexual play with the actual techniques of bootblacking. She demonstrates the first part of this with a basic cleaning of chaps with saddle soap.
Now that he’s shown you the flashy regular florentine, Sir Nik Satanas changes to a more practical frame of mind. With some subtle alterations this kind of technique can set up a “metronome” effect on shoulders and ass. With the aid of his beautiful partner as well as some slow-motion, Sir Nik walks you through [...]
In this clip Gray shows how to use a larkshead to extend your rope and also explains the classic rope principle known as “Use the Big Hole”. He also talks about maintaining rope tension while pulling the rope for better control.
Kitty Stryker talks about ways you can use words to create consensual situations even when in the middle of it all. Using strategies like “non-attachment to outcome” and creative thinking you can respect limits and boundaries but still have a fun, hot time with your partner.
There is a mistaken idea among some people that role-playing is something you do when you get bored with your “real life” lover. After all, shouldn’t your “authentic” self be enough to arouse you and your partner? It’s a flawed idea. There’s nothing wrong with your authentic self, and it doesn’t go away when you [...]
The various sensations that can happen under the needles can lead to some very wiggly and squirming bottoms. Shay and Stefanos, along with Jade’s willing body, show how to both deal with this and also inspire it when it’s wanted.
There are a lot of reasons not to do race play as part of your kink. Mollena tells how she’s been ostracized and even threatened for even talking about it, and how her partners have had mixed reactions. She also explains that exploring that very discomfort is part of what makes race play worth it [...]
Iris Enchanted starts a series on how you can pervert everyday household items with this introductory clip. She discusses the idea of “pervertibles” and “de-pervertibles” and gives several examples such as rubber bands, coconut oil, and even interesting ideas for female condoms!