Eve Minax wraps up her series on prostate milking by talking about the kinds of aftercare many people need when the scene is done. Keeping in mind that every individual has different tastes, she also lets her bottom describe his own experience with her and they demonstrate how good communication at the end of a […]
Scotty and Annie talk about role-playing the fantasy of “consensual nonconsent” in this clip, focusing on the most important tool for that kind of play: the safeword. That is a word used to let the other person know either that things are not ok, that they are ok, or both. Whether it’s some strange word […]
Domina Alexandra Snow and Miss Kelle Martina continue their series on dominating women during this four-minute, part-three video. Domina Snow demonstrates ways to manage your partner’s arousal by focusing on non-traditional erogenous zones. She also offers tips on body exploration, touch, hair, clothing, and more. Stay tuned for additional insights on basic domination in their […]
Stormmy comes back with a quick additional stroke to add to your repertoire – an easy spreading of the flogger’s tails called the “Fan Throw.” It’s a sensual and slow technique good for warmups and cooldowns and easily laid out in this short clip. This text is available for purchase but you need to login […]
Mistress Servalan introduces one of her favorite fetishes in this video: the Zentai suit. She shows how the combination of coverage and accessibility can be delightful, along with many other qualities of sensation that increase the fun for the dominant.
Mistrix puts her bottom through his paces in this long clip showing the preparation and implementation of a TENS unit and some hand-clamps in a consensual interrogation scene. Along the way she describes both the practical matter like placing the electrodes as well as fun ways to integrate this kind of psychological play into your […]
Eve Minax finally puts all the theory into practice and shows how you can put an entire fist into a well lubed bottom. She demonstrates the technique of massaging the prostate so that the prostate fluid is “milked”, for a very special sensation. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or […]
In this clip, Thrash takes another step towards becoming Antonia by “gaffing” – that is, using fabric tape to push his “manly bits” up and out of the way. He explains how to use the tape to sculpture a mound that will look good under panties or a thong and adds in some other functional […]
Miss Simone takes you on the first part of the finer points of discipline of the hairbrush. She covers warm up, talks about the psychological aspects, and then begins the scene with some well-placed strokes. Tune in for part 2 with more types of brush! This text is available for purchase but you need to […]
Shae Flanigan kicks off a series on the kink of sensory deprivation with a quick definition of terms: what is this particular kink and why do people get off on it? She explains how it can change the entire world for the submissive.
Princess Kali, Mollena Williams, and Graydancer continue their discussion of what role vulnerability has in D/s relationships with this clip. Gray poses the question of the difference between being valued for what you do vs. who you are, and Mollena and Kali take up the challenge with some ways that both can help strengthen a […]
Liliane Hunt covers some of the more pragmatic aspects of dog & pup training in this clip. How can you make the call of nature and the natural progression of hunger still be a part of the “fully immersive” experience? Liliane describes several ways of dealing with these issues, as well as demonstrating with her […]
Lucky Albatross says she isn’t any good at negotiation – at least, the kind that requires compromise. On the other hand, she’s a big believer in getting your needs met in aftercare and, in this clip, she explains how. She talks about how aftercare can look different for different people and the ways you may […]
In this extended and very hot video, Murphy Blue and Deanna explain how to use the “mapping” techniques from previous clips to create a rough-play scene. As they move together, Murphy explains how his choices affect the tenor of the whole scene, and at the end Deanna gives her own feedback on just how much she […]
Charlie Glickman undertakes the difficult task of describing a prostate-stimulated orgasm in this clip. Drawing on the reports of hundreds of men who have enjoyed this kind of play, he talks about the various reasons that a man might want to try it out, but ends with the surety that you’ll never know until you […]
Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
Welcome to our April Giveaway! This month you can enter to win our “Back in Black” Bondage Set. Featuring: Sex Ties and Bondage tape: and a sturdy black ball gag from The Latex Store Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready to (make your subbie) drool? Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready […]
Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]
Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]
In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]
In their final clip Goddess Helena and Nicki go into detail about why they find this kind of consensual role-play fantasy so enjoyable. They talk about their psychological, emotional, and physical sensations, and how they have created a special adult relationship through Mommy play.
Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.
What happens when the fantasy is about the mommy being the submissive one in the relationship? Goddess Helena talks about this kind of role-play which is not terribly common but, she attests, can be incredibly erotic.
Greg brings out a toy so big it takes two video clips to talk about it! The Njoy “Eleven” (named because it is eleven inches) started as an experiment but became a legendary dildo. He talks about the fine craftsmanship and materials that went into making this “instrument of pleasure.”