What happens if you stick yourself unintentionally with a needle? This common accident is often blown out of proportion, but should be treated with specific steps to insure safety. Shay goes over the risks and the treatment in this video.
Now that she’s laid out the parameters of race play, Mollena Williams wants to talk to you about negotiating this type of scene. First and foremost, she says, the negotiation has to be with yourself, before you ever get in touch with a potential partner. She explains how to go about developing that kind of [...]
Sinclair Sexsmith talks more about the idea of a healthy D/s relationship in regards to setting up protocols. Start sexy – lingerie, erotic talismans, and the like – and then head into the pragmatic areas like doing dishes, laundry, even the way coffee is served. Sinclair gives solid suggestions as well as the reasoning behind [...]
Knowing how to tie someone up is great, Stephanos and Shay assure in this clip, but knowing why can be far more important. They talk about planning your ties and having a clear intention before the play starts. What are you hoping to do, or have your partner do, after they’re tied? Should you consider [...]
In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness [...]
Dov demonstrates a neat way to quickly tie two limbs together in a knot that is both secure and quick-release. He goes over the steps, including some common mistakes that can ruin the chain cinnet, and then shows just how quick the release can be.
Mistress Melissa loves to play with protocols and service. In this video, she starts by showing the various ways that she enjoys having a beverage – both hot and cold – presented to her. She discusses the elements that go into this kind of high protocol, both from the dominant and submissive perspective.
Mollena Williams dares to explore one of the most dark and controversial kinks in this series: playing with fantasies of race and ethnic inequality. She begins by clarifying what race play is and what it isn’t. She invites you to think about why exactly you’re wanting to do this kind of scene, and what you [...]
Nipples are like fingerprints: everybody’s are different. Playing with them can get you a wide variety of reactions from partners, and there’s no guarantee that what one finds stimulating will be even remotely arousing for another. Some people hate having their nipples touched, some don’t care either way, and some enjoy it so much that [...]
In Part 3 Danarama shows how to tie off in a radial pattern when you use the wrap-type leg harness. It involves some math and measuring, but the result he shows is an integral part of this stunning tie.
Poetic Desires kicks off a series on “Sexy Bootblacking” with this clip. She talks about why she enjoys bootblacking, different motivations for this kind of leather care, and some of the legends of where this kind of play originated.
Stefanos and Shay share in this clip how they handle their power exchange relationship in various environments. This includes both “toning it down” in public and also ramping it up in private, with subtle cues for each other to communicate the desire for a stronger sense of protocol wherever they are.
Orpheus Black goes over a third way to do knife play: with the bottom standing, using the serrated edge of the blade sensually over her back. He demonstrates the careful technique while she demonstrates the fun reactions you can get when you play with knives like this.
In this series Roughinamorato of Chicago’s Rough Crowd talks about his particular style of rough body play. He begins with basic punching, showing the techniques for creating an effective fist and using it in a non-destructive but very sexy way. Rough also explains why it’s important to practice with your partner, and some of the [...]
After your bottom has been in the hood for a while, how do you know they’re ready to come out? That’s what Shae covers in this video, showing how to communicate with the bottom for a smooth reentry into the world of the senses. She demonstrates the careful way to take the hood off and [...]