Caning: Thighs

Caning: Thighs

Leather Yenta expands your caning vocabulary in this clip by demonstrating the proper technique for impacting the thighs. She and John show how the connection and methods of pain processing can make this kind of play extra special in both physical and mental ways. This text is available for purchase but you need to login […]

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Techniques for Dirty Talk

Techniques for Dirty Talk

Sabrina Morgan shares countless techniques for dirty talk during this ten-minute video. She suggests how to get started and recommends ways to use inflection and tone – as well as observations, compliments, descriptions, and other things such as teasing and explicit language. Sabrina also discusses practice techniques to grow more comfortable in your dirty talk.

Basic Bit Gag

Basic Bit Gag

Lee Harrington shows you how to turn a simple sheepshank knot into a hot bondage toy in this clip. Lee feels that a rope gag, like many other rope harnesses, can be both a fun and intimate tool when used correctly. After a simple tutorial on tying the knot, he demonstrates a couple of ways […]

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Skin Stapling: Safety & Supplies

Skin Stapling: Safety & Supplies

Chey goes over the nuts and bolts of skin stapling by covering supplies and safety in this clip. Starting with the correct types of cleansing agents for medical play, she talks about typical supplies for stapling scenes including some of the varieties of staplers and where to get them. Using Nerine as an example, Chey […]

Brat Play: An Introduction

Brat Play: An Introduction

Barak & Brat Sheba introduce brat play during this three-minute video. They discuss and demonstrate some of the core elements of brat play (e.g., humor, banter, etc.) and also note what brat play is not. Stay tuned for much more on brat play in their upcoming clips. This clip is part of the BRAT PLAY […]

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Sensual Domination: Getting Started

Sensual Domination: Getting Started

While the fantasy is very popular, actually taking sexy domination into the bedroom can be somewhat awkward. Scotty and Annie bring you some solid advice on the subject with techniques to get past the initial hesitation and literally embrace the power exchange. They show the body mechanics and explain the motivations of beginning sensually dominant […]

Sensual CBT: the Woman's Perspective

Sensual CBT: the Woman’s Perspective

Evoë Thorne gives the view from the female side in terms of cock-and-ball torture, or “torment” as she phrases it. She talks frankly about how she was nervous at first when her partner wanted her to do “bad things” to his testicles. With communication and some practice, though, she got over the “queasiness” and will […]

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Cigar Play: Ash, part 2

Cigar Play: Ash, part 2

Graydancer continues his series on Cigar Play with this video expanding the range of ash usage in a scene. With the help of Miss Cherries Jubalie, he demonstrates how “eating ash” can be done as a part of humiliation, service, or just a sexy and sensual expansion of your play. He also gives some extra […]

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Long Distance D/s: Maintaining the Relationship

Long Distance D/s: Maintaining the Relationship

Ava Amnesia continues her series on long-distance Dominant/submissive relationships during this six-minute video. She covers meaning, pitfalls, play, communication, aftercare, and more while discussing the various mental, emotional, and physical aspects of long-distance D/s relationships.

The Strappado Hogtie - Part 2

The Strappado Hogtie – Part 2

kMurphy Blue completes the strappado hogtie on Diamond during this six-minute, part-two video. Murphy ties the legs as he did the arms and then combines them to make a rather strenuous hogtie (for the bottom especially!). He offers various tips on aesthetics, sensations, timing, tension, and much more. Stay tuned for additional hogties by Murphy […]

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Pony Play: Advanced Gaits

Pony Play: Advanced Gaits

Foxy and Sherifox continue their pony play series during this six-minute video. They demonstrate several advanced gaits that utilize the walk, trot, and canter – and that are inspired by various war moves (e.g., Spanish walk). Stay tuned for more in Foxy and Sherifox’s upcoming clips.

Being Shy

Being Shy

Mollena Williams reveals a surprising secret in this video: she is shy! But she thinks being shy is a fine thing to be if you own it and she talks about how you can do just that. There are many reasons for being shy and many ways that it can manifest. Mollena believes that by […]

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Caning in Horizontal Positions

Caning in Horizontal Positions

Panther Prowls and Reach Out continue their series on caning techniques by showing how laying horizontally can open up new areas to play with. Panther demonstrates the various parts of the body such as the thighs, ass, and back that are available, while including some tips on safety. He shows many of the types of […]

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Nipple Play: Clamps & Clips, Part 2

Nipple Play: Clamps & Clips, Part 2

Continuing their series on the sensations of nipple clamps and clips, Domina Snow and Kelle use a wide variety of toys in this video. From the classic “clover clamps” to special secrets of “piercing clamps”, this long clip is chock-full of new tips and tricks to titillate the sensitive parts of the breast. Domina Snow […]

Dirty Talk for BDSM Negotiation

Dirty Talk for BDSM Negotiation

Sabrina Morgan continues her reflections on dirty talk during this seven-minute video. She discusses a host of concrete ways to use dirty talk to negotiate and build your scene. Sabrina recommends keeping negotiation sexy, highlights the advantages of verbal exchange during your play, and more. She offers additional insights in her next clip.

Personal Responsibility and Consent in the Kink Community

Personal Responsibility and Consent in the Kink Community

While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: […]

What Qualities Make a Good Dominant?

What Qualities Make a Good Dominant?

Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]

Power Beyond Sex: Negotiating D/s Outside the Bedroom

Power Beyond Sex: Negotiating D/s Outside the Bedroom

It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]

What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? - Part 2

What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? – Part 2

Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.

What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? - Part 1

What Kind of Non-Monogamy is for You? – Part 1

Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]

Energetic Sex, Part 2

Energetic Sex, Part 2

In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!

Dating for Non-Traditional Relationships: Online

Dating for Non-Traditional Relationships: Online

Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]

Awareness of Sex Addiction in Sex Positive Community

Awareness of Sex Addiction in Sex Positive Community

Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]

Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Duct Tape

Sensory Deprivation on a Budget: Duct Tape

Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]

Njoy "Eleven": Part 6 - "Thrustable & Fuckable"

Njoy “Eleven”: Part 6 – “Thrustable & Fuckable”

In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.

Possible Health Benefits of Prostate Massage

Possible Health Benefits of Prostate Massage

While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]

Mommy Play: Why It's Hot

Mommy Play: Why It’s Hot

In their final clip Goddess Helena and Nicki go into detail about why they find this kind of consensual role-play fantasy so enjoyable. They talk about their psychological, emotional, and physical sensations, and how they have created a special adult relationship through Mommy play.

The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4

The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4

Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Mommy Play: Power Switch

Mommy Play: Power Switch

What happens when the fantasy is about the mommy being the submissive one in the relationship? Goddess Helena talks about this kind of role-play which is not terribly common but, she attests, can be incredibly erotic.