A common occurrence at events is for people to meet, strike up a conversation, discover mutual interests, and get right into playing. Unfortunately, this can often lead to misunderstandings due to a lack of information about boundaries or what both people want out of the scene. While it’s sexy to think “it’ll all work out,” […]
Stefano Laforgia shows the “hishi” or “diamond” variation of the popular takate-kote chest harness used in shibari. He clearly shows step by step just where the ropes go, the tension to hold, and finishes off with tips on how to adjust the harness based on the amount of rope available. This text is available for […]
Lee Harrington talks with his partner about how the experience of hypnosis felt. They discuss how it relates to past hypnotic experiences, as well as how they may want to continue negotiations to go further next time in exploring erotic hypnosis. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Register […]
Mollena talks about another aspect of smoother D/s relationships: dealing with conflicts. She explains how it is possible to work through issues even from within the D/s dynamic itself, keeping in mind that both sides are human beings first and their roles second. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or […]
If your kink involves rough body play – punching, kicking, or other kinds of “deep impact” – you can end up with some pretty impressive bruises. Shay and Stefanos break down what’s actually happening there with your body, including what are myths and what are legitimate concerns. Shay also recommends some treatment for bruising, but […]
Sometimes language can be confusing, so in this clip Miss Simone takes the time to talk about what she considers to be the difference between cross-dressing, sissification, and feminization. Some of it is physical, some of it psychological, and it can all be fun – but knowing what kind of fun you’re looking for is an important […]
In this segment of his series on Energetic Sex, Reid Mihalko goes into greater detail on the sanskrit-rooted vocabulary most commonly used to describe energetic sex. With a healthy dose of humor and skepticism, Reid will take you through terms such as “Kundalini,” or life energy (sometimes represented by a coiled snake asleep at the […]
Mistress Servalan and her favorite zebra talk about the advantages a zentai suit can give you when playing the role of an animal. The zebra talks about how the suit is more than just personal fun; it helps him interact with the community in a more positive and friendly manner. Ms. Servalan also talks about […]
The Leather Yenta continues to share her love of cock and ball bondage with a very simple technique to turn 6′ of paracord into a perfectly good cockring and ball stretcher. She also goes over safety considerations at the end, but in general simply shows how easy it is to incorporate rope into your sexy […]
Miss Simone turns up the intensity on her ball kicking in this clip, putting her bottom in a submissive kneeling position. She demonstrates how to effectively and safely use both stiletto heels and stockinged feet to impact the balls, with a lot of verbal and non-verbal feedback from the lucky man under her feet. This […]
Shay and Stefanos model an appropriate way to meet people at events, parties, and munches with a kink theme. They explain clearly how not to overstep boundaries while still letting the other person know whether or not you’re interested in play. Stefanos also talks about the useful skill of “peacocking” to help you meet people.
Lee Harrington demonstrates a hypnotic induction technique known as the “body induction,” where he directs his subject’s attention to relax specific areas one by one. This is the first clip in the three-part series including “the Balloon Test” and “Heightened Sensitivity” examples. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register […]
Goddess Helena continues her series on dolly play with her doll Nikki during this three-minute video. Helena introduces programs, limited only by your imagination, and provides concrete examples of behavior modification and experimentation. Stay tuned for more dolly play in upcoming clips.
Shyness is not only a factor of being around strange people – letting people you know that you’re kinky can be incredibly scary. Mollena talks about different strategies for letting those close to you know about your authentic desires without risking blowback. She also talks about how important it can be to make sure you […]
In this clip Stormmy demonstrates a quick technique designed to give a little “bite”. Modeled after the whip-like motion of snapping towels, it uses only the tips of the flogger for precision impact. Stormmy also offers some thoughts as to where this technique is best implemented, both on the body and within the flow of […]
Remember 2008? It’s ok if you don’t. There was a lot going on. That’s the year of Barack Obama, of Sarah Palin. Twitter was only two years old and many critics were still wondering if it would amount to anything. “Cyber-security” and “E-business” were just afterthoughts for college curriculum’s. Cell phones hadn’t gotten 3G yet, […]
Two, Four, Six, Eight, Who Do We Appreciate? Kink Academy is eight years old and we are celebrating with a huge giveaway for you! This September it’s all about the numbers. We’re delighted to celebrate Kink Academy’s 8 year anniversary plus, we have some awesome and BIG prizes to share. Do the math and enter […]
While the “Safe, Sane, and Consensual” slogan has served the kink community well, more and more people are preferring to include the concept of “personal responsibility”. Even outside of kink people choose to do “unsafe” activities for fun – such as mountain biking – but the risk factor is reduced by taking simple personal precautions: […]
Dominance in the Bedroom is the most common experience that people have with kink. Princess Kali’s video describes how it can be as simple as a stern tone of voice ordering you to “Hold still…“, made even more sexy by a few more words: “…while I do this.” The door to the bedroom becomes a […]
It’s easy to think of the sexy ways that you can do power exchange within a scene. Enjoying that kind of play in the bedroom in the context of “Fuck me harder, sir!” and “Bow to your mistress, slave!” is so common that it’s almost a cliché. What happens when the power exchange moves beyond […]
Marcia B. continues her discussion on non-monogamy during this four-minute, part-two video. In addition to encouraging you to identify the benefits and challenges of non-monogamy for you; she notes a host of motivations for open relationships so that you can better understand your desires and reasons for non-monogamy.
Most of us think we know what we’re talking about when it comes to monogamy, even though, from person to person and culture to culture, “monogamous” can mean something very different. That’s why Marcia B. begins her series on non-monogamy with a five-minute video on four types of monogamy: Sexual Monogamy, Emotional Monogamy, Social Monogamy, […]
In this 5-minute continuation of his series on energetic sex, Reid Mihalko shows you how to experience “sensation on steroids!” By slowing down and tuning with yourself or your partner’s energy, explore sensation on a very nuanced level, and continue to building sensation until it boils over!
Marcia B explains some of the ins and outs when you’re trying your hand at online dating and you don’t fit inside the mainstream relationship model. Poly, kinky, non-monogamous, swinging – whatever you call it, there are some specific things to keep in mind when using online resources to expand your dating pool. Marcia covers […]
Welcome to our April Giveaway! This month you can enter to win our “Back in Black” Bondage Set. Featuring: Sex Ties and Bondage tape: and a sturdy black ball gag from The Latex Store Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready to (make your subbie) drool? Do you enjoy bondage and sensory deprivation? Ready […]
Anita Wagner addresses the issue of unhealthy sexual compulsion in this clip from a very personal perspective. She explains how the sex-positive community can sometimes resist the idea of “sexual addiction” simply because it is interpreted as shaming or sex-negative. The reality, she explains, is a very real issue that can damage relationships, communities, and […]
Now that the bottom has been mummified with plastic wrap, Shae takes the sensory deprivation up a level by adding a layer of duct tape. She demonstrates the proper way to add each wrap, including a few jokes along the way about what not to do. It’s a precise and focused process that can be amazingly […]
In the second Njoy “Eleven” clip, Greg gets detailed about the measurements of the dildo and the ways that the shape, curve, and even unintended design elements becomes features for your fucking. He also talks about his personal experiences with the dildo and why you should consider one for your sex life as well.
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]
In their final clip Goddess Helena and Nicki go into detail about why they find this kind of consensual role-play fantasy so enjoyable. They talk about their psychological, emotional, and physical sensations, and how they have created a special adult relationship through Mommy play.